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The relationship between relatives is one of the most complex relationships. If you live a bad life, many relatives will look down on you; if you live a little better life, many relatives will be jealous of you. In daily life, more and more people are unwilling to visit relatives and friends, which is actually closely related to the twists and turns of relatives. If a relative who is wandering around doesn’t say anything directly, he has to observe his expression and listen to his voice, so that he will be exhausted both physically and mentally after a meal.
1. Just come, what else can I bring?
If you have observed carefully, others will often take over what you bring while saying something similar to polite words. And your enthusiasm for you is proportional to how much you bring or how high or low you are. In order not to be despised, contempt or ignored by others, don’t believe the politeness of others. If you go empty-handed, or reduce quantity or quality next time you visit relatives and friends, others will greatly reduce their enthusiasm for you, and your face will not be the worst, but the worse. Therefore, you can guess human nature, but you don’t test human nature. As the saying goes: People don’t blame others for being too polite, but only if they have less polite or no politeness, they will blame others for bringing more things and bringing less things. Otherwise, if others don’t look good, your face will still be unstoppable.
2. Preparation is relatively hasty and no hospitality is in place. Please forgive me.
No matter how rich the meal is, others will say similar humble words. The more confident and confident others are in the prepared meal, the more they will pretend to be humble. Don’t just listen to this, unless your relationship with others is not as good as you, so good that you can make a joke in a nonsense way, you’d better echo one or two sentences. Even if you think the food is really not to your liking, you still need to be inconsistent with your heart. Differences in your heart are just means, and the purpose is to get along well with others. To put it nicely, it means to fulfill others' humility, and to put it badly, it means to fulfill others' hypocrisy.
3. It’s getting late. If you don’t have anything important to go home, why not just stay there?
Once someone says something similar, it means that someone is reminding you that it is getting late. Although the order for eviction of the passenger has not been issued directly, the order for eviction of the passenger has been issued indirectly. If you don’t realize that you need to reject others and promise to live in other people’s houses, neither you nor others will be able to get out of office. If you don’t want an embarrassing situation, it’s best to just refuse when others say something like that. You can claim that there is still something at home and get back together when you have the chance. This way, you can start and end well when visiting relatives and friends, and others will invite you next time. Even if you come uninvited, others will welcome you.
Conclusion: Whether you are visiting relatives and friends or visiting friends, try not to put on empty hand. Do not believe it when it comes to greetings from others; do not pretend to be confused or really confused when dealing with other people's code words, otherwise you will most likely be gossiped about by others.
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