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saw a post online: A couple who have been in love for more than six years finally received their marriage certificate , four months ago.
But just when the family and they were immersed in happiness and joy, the wife told the newlywed husband that she had cheated on her.
In fact, my wife also regretted this relationship that they had finally passed through, but she knew very well that some things could not be returned.
It was clear that they once loved each other so much, but why, in the end, the result was not as perfect as they imagined?
1. We survived a long-distance relationship, but we still broke up
In the post, the poster said that in the early years, because my wife had an opportunity to go abroad to exchange and study, they had to be separated for a while.
During those long three years, he would talk to his wife, who was his girlfriend at that time, talk about study, life, and care about the other person every day.
At that time, they all thought that distance could not change their relationship, even if they were separated by two places, they would always meet again in the end.
Indeed, when their girlfriends returned, they went to big cities to work hard together, and they had jobs that many people envy.
Just this year, they felt that they had saved enough of the minimum cost of life and planned to return to their hometown to get married and live a good life.
Unexpectedly, after just getting the certificate, my wife was with someone else. And, she formally filed for divorce with her husband.
In the eyes of her husband, he couldn't understand that they had survived such a difficult long-distance relationship, even a foreign relationship.
Finally, it fell within a small separation period after obtaining the certificate and registering. They used to be so good, but that was all in vain.
2. There is about our long past
I remembered Chen He When he was just exposed to cheating, he posted a long apology on Weibo and his wife's reply.
"To me, he is my very important family, so I hope everyone will not hurt him."
The relationship between Chen He and his ex-wife has gone through a long-term love run for twelve years. At that time, many people were envious.
After all, everyone wants to see a couple, from the green campus to the beautiful scene of growing old together, and even the life and death separate them.
In everyone's eyes, that is the most sincere feeling. It is a love that many people envy but will never have.
However, when everyone was blessing them, it was revealed that the two had divorced and Chen He had a new partner.
All those who have blessed them have now transformed their blessings into the most vicious curse and attack.
Of course, Chen He was wrong. Because at any time, cheating is cheating, whether in love or in marriage.
Betrayal is never worth forgiven. But why are there so many people who can obviously fall in love well but cannot protect their marriage?
3. When he is no longer my lover
Once upon a time, a friend had a relationship that lasted for more than ten years, or that boy was her childhood sweetheart.
The two of them have experienced many things together. They have been separated, quarreled, sad, and have had many happy times together.
But when the boy proposed to his friend, she ran away in fear. Because she is unwilling to face a marriage.
For many people, especially those men and women who have had a long period of love, the reason why they break up is actually here.
Because, in their eyes, there is no one around them that can make her have longing for the future.
For example, if marriage is a brand new sports car , then the person who has been in love for too long is like a familiar driver.
They know too well what the problem with this car is because they did it themselves from the very beginning.
So, if there is a new opportunity at this time, they are likely to choose to accept without hesitation.
After all, when the relationship is already numb, then perhaps in their eyes, there is no need to continue.
4. Marriage is not the end of love
The end of love is never a marriage. Because marriage is just another starting point in life.
is not the person who started working together, so he will definitely be able to reach the end. But the person who comes to the end must be someone who is willing to work with you.
In other words, it doesn't matter where you are and how you meet, it's important, how you view and manage your relationship.
Good lovers can slowly get started even if they spend a short time together. Even if the relationship is not suitable, no matter how well it is running-in, it will eventually be separated.
or above, I wish you a good dream and good night.