Introduction
Online marriage refers to finding one's lover through the Internet so that one can get to know each other and eventually become a legal couple.
A marriage expert pointed out that there are three major benefits to online marriage -
first, the number of netizens is huge, and it is easier to find him (her) who suits you. According to statistics, as of the end of 2021, the number of netizens in my country has reached 1.032 billion, an increase of 42.96 million from December 2020, and the Internet penetration rate reaches 73.0%.
Excluding the number of elderly netizens, the number of young netizens alone has reached 700 million. Because the group of netizens is very large, once you ask for marriage online, it will be easier to find him (her) who suits you.
Second, saving marriage collection costs
marriage collection costs. If you are planning a marriage offline, you need to run around to find someone who suits you. When using the Internet to ask for marriage, you only need to publish a marriage information, and you will have someone who suits you to contact yourself.
Third, provide convenient conditions for people with different personalities
Some people are shy and will feel blushing when they meet strangers. If you use the Internet to call for marriage, you can communicate and understand through the Internet first, and then you can further understand after the two are completely familiar with each other. In this case, the performance of blushing and heartbeat may be gone.
The marriage expert went on to point out that there are three characteristics of online marriage enrollment - the first characteristic of
. Directness
The purpose of online marriage enrollment is very strong. Both men and women only get in touch in order to find their partner, which has a very strong "directness". The second feature of
is the communication
online marriage. Just publish your personal information and requirements for your partner on the online platform. When other opposite sexes who also need to be married see it, even if he or she thinks you are not suitable for her (him), he or she may recommend your information to other marriage applicants. The third feature of
is communication
Online marriage will not only place your information online, but may also be invited by others to join the blog space or group circle to show your talent and aesthetic level so that you can find the person (her) you like in another "space".
The marriage expert finally pointed out that with the increasing popularity of the Internet, online marriage proposals seem to have become a trend. Currently, nearly half of young people are willing to seek marriage online.
In fact, this marriage and love expert’s statement is very correct. So, Sun, a girl from Heze, Shandong, asked for marriage through a short video platform. However, although the marriage requirements she offered were very low, she had posted hundreds of marriage videos and still had no partner.
So, why can’t the girl Sun find the object?
, let’s talk about this matter------
event
On the evening of October 28, Sun started a live broadcast. During the live broadcast, Sun seemed very depressed. Sun said: "I really want to marry. Not only do I don't want a penny of bride price, I am willing to pay 300,000 yuan. But why didn't anyone like him come to me? I feel very depressed!"
Logically speaking, now is an era of more men and fewer women. No matter which woman is, as long as she speaks of her "talk" that she wants to marry, there will be a large number of men coming to her. But Sun has not found her favorite when she is willing to pay 300,000 yuan?
insider Zhou introduced some situations about Sun.
Zhou said: "Sun is 32 years old this year and should be an older girl. Sun's family conditions are very good. His parents are geological engineer . Because his parents work in the field all year round, Sun has lived with his grandmother and grandfather since he was a child. It is said that his grandmother and grandfather are very spoiled to him. Whenever there is something delicious at home, they are always left to Sun for food. Perhaps because of this, Sun has developed the habit of loving food since he was a child, so Sun never leaves his mouth to snack every day.As she grew older, Sun not only liked to eat, but also her appetite increased greatly. When Sun grew to 14 years old, she could eat three big bowls of white rice and half a pound of fat meat at a meal. "
Zhou continued: "Because Sun has a lot of appetite, when she grows to 17 years old, her weight exceeds 210 kilograms. As she grows older, her appetite is also increasing. Nowadays, not only does Sun need to eat 6 meals a day, but she also doesn’t like to eat foods of poor quality. She almost every day she has big fish and meat. With the increase in appetite, his weight has exceeded 420 kilograms. "
Zhou continued: "In addition to normal eating, Sun now eats snacks and fruits such as chocolate every day. The monthly expenses spent on eating alone can easily reach more than 5,000 yuan. "
Zhou Mou finally said: "Sun is too heavy, so it is very inconvenient for her to move. Generally speaking, Sun rarely goes out. It should be a standard home girl. "Hanml3
insider Zhou said that since boys nowadays like slim women, although Sun is willing to pay a bride price, many boys are unwilling to date him. What
above is about some basic situations about Sun and a general process of this incident.
When many netizens learned about Sun's situation, netizens started a heated discussion.
Netizen voice
Netizen Sahara Desert: I'm so afraid of people. Sun wants to eat 6 meals a day. I guess he needs to hire a full-time chef? If the salary of a full-time chef is calculated at 3,000 yuan per month, plus Sun's monthly personal meal cost 5,000 yuan, the monthly cost of her alone will cost more than 8,000 yuan. My monthly income is only 4,000 yuan. For me, it is Sun. I can't afford to pay 500,000 yuan. Because I have to spend every year on clothing, medical treatment and other expenses! So I shouldn't think about Sun.
Netizen's Youth Song: Sun is too good to eat, right? I guess she has a meal per person that exceeds the appetite of three or four men! No wonder she is so heavy! It's all because she is too good to eat.
Netizen Fenghuaxueyue: If a man doesn't have enough income, he wants to support Sun. It is really very difficult. Anyway, for me, I can't afford to support her.
In short, netizens have a lot of discussions.
Lao Hu's view
The word "control" comes from the article "Xunzi·Control Soldiers". There is a sentence in this article: "The Qin soldiers cannot be controlled by Huan Wen; Huan Wen's restraint cannot be opposed to Tang and Wu's benevolence and righteousness. "From then on, the word "control". What is "control"?
"New Interpretation of Words" says that "control" refers to restrictions; control or restriction.
A humanist pointed out that no matter who it is, no matter what it is, you must know "control". Even if you eat, you must learn "control", otherwise, there will be some adverse consequences.
Lao Hu believes that Sun is a person who does not understand "control". For ordinary people, when their appetite suddenly increases, they will Will control the appetite to avoid eating more and more. However, Sun did not learn to control his appetite after the sudden increase in appetite, which led to his eating more and more, which made his weight heavier. The heavier body not only brought many inconveniences to his movements, but also affected his health! Lao Hu felt that Sun should learn to "control" himself as soon as possible, otherwise it would become more and more difficult to find a partner by himself. After all, most people have low incomes. Even if someone wants to have a partner with Sun, they may be discouraged when they see her expenses in eating!
What do you think?
