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I am Sister Mei, 54 years old this year. Ten years ago, my ex-husband accidentally learned at a class reunion that the goddess he was in was divorced and suffered from a chronic disease. After he came back, he ignored the trouble of divorce from me and went to take care of others.
My ex-husband's obsessive look broke my heart. The relationship we have been married for many years is still not as good as the white moonlight in his heart.
I originally wanted to agree to the divorce quickly and stop getting entangled with him, but at that time, my son was in the critical period of the college entrance examination, and I didn’t want my son to see the clues.
So, I begged my ex-husband to divorce again a few months in the evening, so that he could restrain himself and not affect the child's schooling. But the ex-husband said that no one can take care of me around my first love. My son and I were fine after we left him, but she couldn't do it.
Ex-husband insisted on divorce, so I could only agree, but he still asked him to live at home for the time being before the college entrance examination, so that his son could not tell that we had divorced.
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The ex-husband agreed, but he didn't do it. He often left after receiving the call, without even saying hello, and had not returned home for several days. My son has always been meticulous. He found out that the divorce certificate I hid in the cabinet was revealed, and the divorce was still known by his son.
Although I pretended to be calm, my son still guessed something from my lonely expression. In order to maintain the image of the ex-husband in his son's mind, I didn't say much, just said that we were in a disagreement.
During that period, even though I tried all my strength, my son was still in a low mood. Because of this incident, my son, who has always had good grades, ended up only getting an ordinary second-tier university entrance examination and was reluctant to repeat the exam.
For this matter, my hatred for my ex-husband increased a little more. I hate him for having abandoned us for many years and for not caring about his relationship, and I also hate him for not caring about his son's future, so impatient to embrace a newcomer.
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In the past ten years, I rarely contacted my ex-husband. When I divorced, my son was almost 18 years old, and the child support was directly transferred to my son's card. Even if the ex-husband's money was not received in time, I asked my son to find him.
After the divorce, I never wanted to get married again. I devoted myself to work. After work, I also opened a small beauty salon with my friends, and my life was not as good as the best.
After my son graduated from university, he returned to us and passed the civil service exam. For the sake of his son's future consideration, I mortgaged my son a three-bedroom house.
I originally wanted to pay half of the down payment with my ex-husband, but when I asked my son to go to find him, he kept crying and was poor, so I simply paid for it myself. I also feel that it's pretty good, at least I won't be involved with my ex-husband anymore.
Last year, my son took his partner Fang Fang home. The girl was really good and her family was pretty good. She stood with her son. I was very happy and was even more energetic when doing things. I had to hurry up and save the money for my son.
The son said he planned to get married this year and agreed on the day when both parents met. As the days were coming, I was tightly packing the house, hoping to leave a good impression on my future in-laws.
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Just a few days before meeting, my son suddenly took his ex-husband home and said to me with embarrassment: "Mom, Fang Fang's parents are quite traditional and attach great importance to the family atmosphere, so I never said that you and my father have divorced. I think so, let my father stay in our house for a few days first, and wait until Fang Fang's parents leave..."
both looked at me with a flattering look. I was unwilling, but for the sake of my son, I had to agree to temporarily play the role of a loving couple with my ex-husband.
Unexpectedly, before the in-laws met, an epidemic broke out in the community where we were, and all residents could only be sealed at home. In this way, the ex-husband couldn't leave even if he wanted to.
However, compared to my irritability, my ex-husband is much more calm. He stays at home every day, except holding his mobile phone to study the recipes, and cooks to cook delicious food for me and my son.
learned that my stomachache and have not yet cured, and my ex-husband even got up early before dawn to make soup for me, and he also changed his style every day to make me happy.
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Think about it, before the divorce, my ex-husband looked like an old man at home and didn't do any housework. I didn't expect that time can really change a person completely.
However, in my opinion, what he did was just belated affection and less than grass. I will never forget the scene when he left me and my son behind me at all costs.
I thought that my ex-husband was very attentive in front of me now, and I must have had some intentions. Sure enough, just a few days ago, while my ex-husband went downstairs to receive food, my son told me the truth.
He said he loved Fang Fang very much and wanted to marry Fang Fang. But Fang Fang's parents hate children from single-parent families very much. If they knew that his father and I would have divorced a long time ago, they would definitely not have married Fang Fang to him.
My son said, I hope my father and I will remarry. Over the years, his father has not had a good time outside. He already knows that he is wrong and hopes that I will forgive him.
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My son's words made me think. In fact, I understand that if my son doesn't say it, in addition to his wish for me to remarry, his ex-husband also wants to remarry me.
Although we have not contacted each other in recent years, our mutual friends are still there, and I still know a little about the life of our ex-husband. After he divorced, he did not successfully marry Bai Yueguang. Instead, after spending a lot of money to cure his illness, he was despised that he had no money and kicked away.
The husband’s work has not developed well these years ago and has worked with several people, but he has neither money nor a decent job, so naturally no one is willing to follow him.
But I am getting more and more comfortable as I live, so he naturally wants to come back and get a big advantage.
But why do I have to go back to the old path without condition? I don't want to.
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Later, the ex-husband also sincerely admitted his mistake to me and asked me to accept him for his son's sake. I didn't agree, and thought of driving him away as soon as the seal was unblocked.
However, my son told me repeatedly that if I don’t agree to remarry, he will lose Fang Fang. This result is something I don't want to see.
I don’t want to be the sinner who disrupts my son’s marriage, but I really don’t want to have any involvement with my ex-husband anymore. Could it be that for the sake of my son, I really have to compromise myself and accept my ex-husband again?
Age Sayings : Sister Mei’s embarrassment made me see a mother’s deep love for her child. She didn’t want to divorce at the time for her son, but now she is considering remarriage for her child.
But what I want to tell Sister Mei is that freedom of marriage, no matter what it is for, the first thing to consider is your own feelings.
suggests that Sister Mei can have a good chat with her son and her future in-laws and tell her true situation. I believe that the in-laws will understand.
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