Men love women and hope to get a response from their lover. But for women, women have delicate feelings and once they fall into the abyss of love, they will be out of control.
Love without reservation will make men feel stressed. Over time, men will lose their past enthusiasm for you.
The efforts and rewards in love are never proportional. Women are afraid of losing, so they will give infinitely, wanting to capture the man's heart with this. But do you know that excessive love is actually a kind of harm.
Excessive interference in a man's life makes him lose his past freedom and peace, and he will become more and more tired of your existence.
Learn to be cold, and two people get along comfortably and naturally. Only when there is no stress, men are more likely to be with you for life.
The reason why women like to give desperately to men is because they don’t understand the sudden fire effect.
What is the quenching effect?
The worker heats the metal workpieces to a certain temperature and will put them into coolant for cooling. Because after cooling, metal workpieces will have better performance, a stronger shell, and more stable functions.
The same is true for the opposite sex to get along with each other. They are together because of the temporary freshness and will be full of enthusiasm at the beginning.
However, every day of life will not be a surprise. Decades have been going on, and feelings have gradually faded.
When the enthusiasm of two people reaches its peak, they cannot break through, but will show a negative growth state as time goes by.
At this time, the love between the two people has reached a bottleneck period, and the best solution is to remain cold.
Keep a certain distance. Only when a person thinks hard will he discover the other person's goodness.
You cherish your lover more and more.
understands the principle of the quenching effect and adds a layer of protective cover to this love, so that the road of love can go further and further.
The busy work and the pressure of life will make you unable to live a life full of ritual.
Therefore, the method of keeping distance is the simplest and most effective.
Women in love, don’t give hard. Your enthusiasm may be exchanged for a man’s indifferent response.
Learn to change your identity and keeping your indifferent is the best way to get along.
If you give too much, you will only have nothing in the end
In love, whether it is a man or a woman, you will end up with nothing in the end.
Want to exchange sincerity for sincerity, but find that the sincerity is no longer there.
Learn to love yourself before loving others. Even if you lose love, you will not be hurt completely.
In the movie " Passing Through Your World ", the Pig Head's love for the swallow has long been deeply rooted in the bones. Pighead does whatever she makes money, and she is never afraid of hard work. She sends money to Swallows abroad to ask her to study hard.
I thought that when Yan Zi returned to China, the two could get married, but I didn’t expect that in the end, I only received Yan Zi’s words “I’m sorry”.
Pig head chased Swallow's car and shouted: "Swallow, how can I live without you!"
The deeper the love, the deeper the wound. If you are too humble in your relationship, you are destined to be a loser.
Women's love for men is more intuitive. If you love someone, you want to give them all and give them all your warmth.
But over time, you will find that men are just consuming your patience and eroding your feelings.
When you can no longer love, when he gets enough warmth in you, he will abandon you and go away.
Lifelong companionship may not be as fresh as a temporary one. Women should know how to weigh the pros and cons.
Don’t do things that are not worth the loss, and don’t be nostalgic for those who have no meaning.
You will definitely regret it for life if you consume your great youth for those who are not worth it.
When you are excellent enough, men will be attracted to you. Being neither humble nor being arrogant is the best attitude for a woman.
Learn to be lazy and happier
The principle of the quenching effect tells us: keeping indifferent can effectively extend the shelf life of love. In a relationship, women should learn to be lazy. Selfishness is not just about seeking it. Only by knowing how to consider yourself can men care about you better.
As the writer Junichi Watanabe said: "It is not a happy thing for two people to stay together all day long. If men and women do not have common ideals and do not have independent abilities, it is difficult to maintain the relationship between men and women from beginning to end."
Two independent individuals have their own ideas, and communication will be full of freshness.
has a body, and the days when we look at each other silently are extremely boring.
Love needs to be kept at a certain distance, and women must learn to keep improving in their own world.
When in love, men admire your unique personality and are devoted to you.
After a long time, if you are still in the same state, your enthusiasm for you will continue to disappear.
Make yourself better, make yourself more beautiful, make men pleasing to the eye, and make yourself live a wonderful life in love.
Don’t put all your energy into it. If you have the strength, men will naturally approach you.
It’s just that love is too rampant. What you give may not be what men want. Become his soul mate, and he will rely on you more emotionally.
Love requires two people to protect
The relationship between husband and wife is not just one party giving. Only when two people stay together can they be together until they are old.
Since you have chosen to be together, you must have the courage to fight side by side. Perhaps the future is full of confusion, and as long as two hearts are connected, you will not be afraid of the distance.
Women in love, don’t take care of everything. If you love too much, life will become a torment.
Love needs two people to protect each other, and some things also need to be done together.
When you cook, he can take the initiative to mop the floor; when you wash clothes, he can take the initiative to tutor the children... Even without words, this love is still full of warmth.
If you want your efforts to get the corresponding reward, you must love them just right. Life is full of busyness. Compared to doing housework and raising children every day like a nanny, it is better to create a little surprise in love.
You can prepare a beautiful gift on his birthday, and you can also use the weekend to have a romantic date... In short, men will see your careful preparation.
Love can make people relax, so that they will not be depressed. Two people stay with each other, and this love lasts for a long time.
During decades of ups and downs, long and full of tests, I hope everyone can move forward hand in hand with their lover until the last moment of their life.
Keep a distance, giving men enough space, and it is also a relief for themselves. If you love too much, you will be exhausted. Instead of not seeing the results and making blindly, it is better to live in the present and live your own life.
remains cold. Although it cannot let the two of them return to the initial state of love, at least they can keep themselves from being hurt. Only by knowing how to protect yourself can others take you seriously. Only with self-esteem and confidence can men not look down on you.
