When men pursue love, in order to capture the hearts of women, I believe that many men will be very attentive. hopes to touch women's hearts through consideration and care, but this does not seem to be the sufficient condition for love , , it is just a necessary condition, because the premise is that both parties must appreciate and voluntarily.
This shows that a man likes a woman. If a woman doesn’t like a man in her heart, no matter how much practical actions a man takes, the woman will either refuse sternly or accept it in an unknown way. In the end, she may be given a "good person card" to the man, which will make the man lose his life.
There is a divorced single woman who lives alone and needs to be hospitalized for surgery due to physical reasons. After the woman's good friend of the opposite sex learned about this news, he recommended herself and took the initiative to take the responsibility of taking care of the woman.
During the woman's surgery and hospitalization, the man not only took the time to send the woman to the hospital in person, but also took the initiative to advance the medical expenses of more than 10,000 yuan.
In order for the woman to undergo the operation smoothly, considering the reason for the woman's physical inconvenience, the man was busy in the hospital, paid the woman's fees and consulted medical information everywhere upstairs and downstairs. The night before the woman was about to undergo surgery, the man even stayed with the woman in the hospital for one night.
Because he was worried that the woman would feel uncomfortable lying on the hospital bed, the man gently asked from time to time whether to raise the hospital bed or lower it. As long as the woman greeted her, the man immediately walked to the bed and shaking the hospital bed to adjust the woman to a comfortable and appropriate position.
In addition, the man even peed on the woman who was inconvenient to get out of bed. Although the man was honest and not good at talking, he never complained about a word and admitted that as long as the woman recovered successfully.
When I was bored, the man sat next to him and played with his phone. The volume of the phone was also turned to silent mode and did not dare to make any noise. Even if he was playing with his phone next to him, the man would turn back and pay attention to the woman lying on the hospital bed from time to time. As long as the woman had any needs, he immediately threw down his phone and went forward to ask the woman.
After the third day of the operation, the doctor said that he could eat some liquid food or drink some soup. After hearing the doctor's advice, the man immediately ran outside and bought two bowls of steaming yellow bone fish soup and sent it to the woman's bed.
Seeing that the man was so nice to him, the woman said that she had been divorced for a long time and was used to being single. Suddenly there was a man who was so nice to him. She suddenly felt a little uncomfortable and felt a little flattered.
When a woman put this experience on the Internet, it attracted the attention of many netizens. Netizens generally believe that since both of them are single, true love is revealed in times of adversity, A man can take care of the woman in such a way. In the current era of hard-to-see, it is really not easy. Promising to marry the other person with his body may be the most satisfactory ending.
However, when the woman responded to netizens' suggestions, did not seem to clearly state the current relationship between the two, nor did she clearly respond to her idea of whether she decided to develop a relationship with each other, but simply stated that he was a good person.
The woman's statement is interesting, and netizens even said bluntly that the man is likely to be sent a "good person card". No matter what the ending is, falling in love is a voluntary matter between both parties. As outsiders, we should still respect the true thoughts of both parties.
After all, we are not insiders. Even though the man's enthusiastic and considerate behavior before and after, he is likely to have a certain favorable impression of women. But feelings are a special emotion that can only be established by voluntarily and appreciate each other. One-sided appreciation is just unrequited love.
Although when a woman needs help the most, the man takes care of the other person with considerate care, this is just a necessary act to impress the woman. After all, if you don’t give, you will definitely not get true love, and if you don’t give, you may not get true love. If you have to give with your body just because you accept the other person’s kindness, then this confuses the difference between touch and feelings.
If any relationship loses its voluntary principle, I believe that even if I could be together at the beginning, in the emotional world without love, the future will be bumpy and may end up in a premature death. Therefore, even if a woman sends a good person card to a man, it is much better than blindly and impulsively agreeing to break up for some reason later.
only has one thing. If a woman does not have any favors to the other person in her heart, she should not accept the other person’s care, otherwise it will send a wrong signal to the other person. If she agrees that the other person is a good man and also accepts the other person’s care, it is also impossible to seriously consider the other person’s sincerity and intention.
How do you view the woman's practice of evading a man who caring about caring for herself as a "good person"? Everyone is welcome to leave a message to discuss, thank you!
article|Pei Dada
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