The best revenge for a third party is to make her successful in becoming a wife.
Experience the pain that her wives had to endure when she intervened in other people's marriage.
Only by truly empathizing and letting her suffer on her own will she be true revenge!
This extramarital affair case is a case I came into contact with at the beginning of the year.
The original wife Ms. Chen came to Lan Fang for help, saying that her husband cheated on the mistress, and was still in a crazy state and wanted to divorce if he was alive.
She and her husband met through blind dates. She is an employee of , a public institution in .
Her husband is a civil servant. The two have been married for ten years and have a son in elementary school.
Because her parents-in-law are at work and have no time to help take care of the children, Ms. Chen’s father is doing business and her mother is a housewife.
So after she gave birth, her mother always took care of the child. She got along with her parents-in-law for a little, and there was no conflict.
She said she never thought her husband would cheat. The two of them were not very affectionate, and they could respect each other as guests.
After getting married, I didn’t have much passion, but I always got along very harmoniously.
Her husband was a mistress he met in March last year, and the two confirmed their extramarital relationship not long after.
The mistress is also a civil servant and is not in the same place as the cheating man. She met through friends.
The mistress divorced after seven years of marriage and had no children. After the divorce, she also went to find several boyfriends through blind dates.
However, it is difficult to find a second-married woman. Even if the mistress has good conditions, she still can't find a suitable one.
Age unmarried men are basically not in good condition. Men who are second-married are in good condition, but they have problems in many aspects.
The mistress didn't want to live alone, so she finally put her ideas on someone else's husband.
The mistress was with the cheating man at first, just to get ahead and let the cheating man divorce and marry her.
So I coaxed the cheating man in various ways to make the cheating man have a full favorable impression of her.
Then he began to use various means to stimulate Ms. Chen and let Ms. Chen have conflicts with the cheating man.
Ms. Chen really can't stand the stimulation of the mistress and cannot accept the fact that her husband cheated on her.
What I can't accept is that the cheating man said that he was going to settle down with her and his mistress was true love.
Ms. Chen doesn’t want to divorce for the sake of her child, but it’s very painful to continue her marriage to face the stimulation of cheating men and mistresses.
After a long time, Ms. Chen is full of resentment towards the cheating man and the mistress.
She and Lan Fang said that she was not unable to divorce, but she did not want to make the cheating man and mistress complete.
She doesn't want the man cheating on her and the mistress to live a good life, so she asked the Blue Party how to take revenge on this scumbag man and woman.
Ms. Chen’s suggestion is that divorce is the best revenge for these two people.
Blue party rarely advises people to divorce because what is the case with most women who are cheated on?
without wages and financially unindependent, all time is devoted to the child, and the child must be custody.
My mother's family has no strength, so she cannot raise her original wife, and even disagrees with her original wife's divorce. In this case, the original wife cannot divorce because after the divorce, life will definitely be difficult.
might as well grit your teeth and persevere for a while, and wait until the crazy period of a cheating man has passed.
is not that difficult to separate mistresses, so use some means to separate mistresses.
However, after understanding Ms. Chen’s situation, Lan Fang gave her the advice to divorce.
On the one hand, because of Ms. Chen's conditions, she will definitely live better after the divorce than she is now.
She has a stable salary, an independent financial income, and does not rely on cheating men.
Her mother's family is rich, and her child is always helped by her family. She doesn't have to worry about her child when she divorces.
So the original wife can live a better life with divorce, even better than continuing the marriage. Divorce is the right choice.
On the other hand, the mistress has been married for seven years and has no children, and finally the mistress is divorced.
There is a high probability that the mistress has a physical problem. The mistress cannot have a child, which is why the mistress cannot find a suitable man for .
plus Ms. Chen's various conditions are actually far better than mistresses and are better than cheating men.
If you really get divorced, you must be the man who cheats on him. This is the best punishment for cheating on a man who cheats on him and mistresses.
But Ms. Chen cannot say that she will get divorced, and she will leave as long as she has children.
Since the mistress wants to get ahead, the cheating man is crazy and he is also trying to get a divorce.
The original wife can use the psychology of two people to negotiate conditions with the cheating man and the mistress.
Even if the cheating man cannot leave the house with nothing, the cheating man must not be given much property.
Ms. Chen also delayed the divorce for a while at the suggestion of Lan Fang.
If you don’t divorce, you will have conflicts with the cheating man. The cheating man is so annoyed that he is even more determined to divorce.
Ms. Chen was hinting at this time that she would not divorce because she was afraid that she would not have money to raise children in the future.
made the cheating man voluntarily give up most of his property, and finally gave both the house and the car to Ms. Chen.
The cheating man took part of his deposit, and the two agreed to divorce, and the mistress was anxious to get the position,
She was even more afraid that Ms. Chen would not divorce, so she did not instigate the cheating man to ask for property.
A few months before the divorce, the cheating man and mistress were still very popular.
The two got married in a one-bedroom apartment of more than 50 square meters bought by the mistress.
also invited many relatives and friends, but most of them knew what the situation was, and few people went there.
Even the parents of men who cheated on each other felt that it was embarrassing and refused to accept the mistress at all.
This is not the retribution for the mistress and the cheating man, nor is it the most uncomfortable thing for the mistress.
The most uncomfortable thing is that the two of them lived after marriage for several months.
The man who cheated on me knew that the mistress could not have children, began to regret giving custody to Ms. Chen directly.
But he also knew that he would not want the custody rights back, and the mistress did not make any noise to prevent him from asking Ms. Chen's child.
The man who cheats always goes to Ms. Chen to watch the child, and the mistress also makes a fuss with the man who cheats all day because of this incident.
The parents of men who cheated on me also know that Ms. Chen’s child is the only one in their family.
even dislikes the mistress, and when he has time, he asks Ms. Chen if she can see the child.
Blue party told Ms. Chen that she wanted to take revenge on the mistress and cheating man, and this was the best opportunity.
You let the cheating man see the child, but as long as the mistress finds Ms. Chen, he refuses to cheat the man several times and does not allow him to see the child.
A cheating man will naturally cause trouble for mistresses, and these two people will naturally torture each other.
The relationship between a cheating man and his children must also be maintained. The original wife can take her child to the mistress’s in-laws’ house, but the mistress cannot.
The mistress will also find cheating men to make trouble. After taking office, the mistress will get nothing and will always be wronged.
The cheating man lost his property for the mistress, but the child could never see him.
The two people resented each other and tortured each other, so that the mistress could experience Ms. Chen’s pain at the beginning, which was the best revenge for them.
Finally, Lan Fang wanted to say that many times, the original wife was in pain.
It is not because a man cheats, the man no longer loves him, or wants to divorce the man cheating.
But I feel uneasy, why can the cheating scumbag and mistress who hurt me live a good life?
It is a normal mentality to take revenge on a cheating man and a mistress, but you must not hurt the enemy for one thousand and hurt yourself.
is better to be free from yourself than to suffer in marriage.
If you encounter an extramarital affair and don’t know what to do, you can follow the Blue Party and send a private message to talk about your situation.
I am Lan Fang, an emotional mentor who tells the truth and does practical things.
