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Some women will spend money for her without saying a word; while some women will pay for her no matter how much they do for her, no matter how much they do, men will not look back at her, let alone pay for her.
This is the difference between people. A smart woman will never think about men, but will think about herself first.
But only a silly woman thinks that if a man wants to love him more, he must pay enough and wait long enough.
But in fact, men have a bad habit called "If you can't get it, you love it more, and if you don't come too easily", you are also rushing to give for him, the more he looks down on you.
To be honest, a man pursues a feeling when he talks about a relationship. He feels that he will be happy to give as much as he wants.
But if you don’t have any feelings, no matter how outstanding a woman is, it is not worth mentioning in his eyes.
So women want men to love you from the bottom of their hearts and are willing to spend money on you. What you need to do is to have an in-depth understanding of men.
Only by knowing what kind of women a man likes and what kind of women he thinks is worth spending money can you have a direction to work hard.
method is actually very simple. As long as you understand it enough and are willing to try it, you can easily get what you want.
Three women tell you: There are routines to let men take the initiative to spend money for you, so you might as well learn to do this.
Li Jiatong, 25 years old, clothing store owner: If you want a man to take the initiative to spend money on you, and say a few bad words, you have to hang him, otherwise he will not feel how difficult it is for you to chase.
Before, when I was studying, my thoughts were very simple, and I felt that I could not spend my boyfriend’s money, and students wanted to save money.
So, you can save money and save all the money to buy gifts for your boyfriend.
I even eat instant noodles for more than two months just to see him in my boyfriend's city.
I treat him so well, but I did not receive a corresponding response to how he treated me.
When we went out together, he never took the initiative to buy tickets or book hotels. I did all these things.
Every time I ask him to come and buy it, he will say: I don’t know. You have always been doing it before, and of course you are here this time.
Now think about it, his behavior may be just a behavior that doesn’t want to pay, and I want me to take the initiative to give the money.
The final breakup was also mentioned by him. This relationship was nothing but humble.
After this relationship, I saw the relationship clearly. If a man was not devoted to me, I would never make any statement.
If he is not generous to me and cannot impress me materially, then he will have no chance at all.
It is impossible for a man to just impress me with sweet words. I have seen through the man.
. Most men know that I am not easy to deal with, so they will use all their methods to please me and will take the initiative to spend money for me.
The more expensive you behave, the harder it is to win, men will be willing to pay the price.
You Lijiao, 26 years old, front desk: As long as you know how to spend money and like to spend money, the men you attract are men who are willing to spend money for you.
I spend a lot of money. I usually like to buy clothes and shoes, and my salary is almost the same every month.
My guideline for having a boyfriend is that I have to have a little money, otherwise I will not look down on it.
Moreover, from my appearance, I know that I am not that easy to deal with. Men who don’t have a little value really dare not contact me.
So, most of the men who wander around me have better family conditions, so they dare to provoke me.
Of course, I will not be tempted by it. If a man is willing to spend money on me, I feel that I will not refuse.
I will not give a good face to men who are not in good condition but are very stingy to me. If he cannot impress me substantially, I will not let him approach me.
Because this kind of man wants to get you but doesn’t want to pay the price, there is no free lunch in this world, how can such a good thing be possible?
There is a scale in my heart. I have expectations for how much money I can touch my hand and how much money I can go further.
Doing this way, the one who is close to me will be a man with good conditions and generous conditions, and he will avoid many detours, which is also a benefit to one extent.
Yu Fenghong, 27 years old, product manager: Around me, the kind of women who can make men spend money on their own initiative are disdainful and dispensable to men.
Our company has a product manager who is particularly beautiful. He is the dream lover of many male programmers , and there are also many people who pursue it, including many business elites with a net worth of over 100 million.
But even though so many high-quality men were wandering in front of her, her reaction was still so calm and calm.
If someone like us appeared around us, we would have been happy long ago and seize the opportunity to cross the class as soon as possible.
Those men chasing her, in addition to sending flowers and luxury goods, they also give food to colleagues in the entire department, and we often benefit from it.
But even if these men spent a lot of money for her, she didn't feel much, and it was still neither salty nor light.
Those men will become addicted, treat her better and spend more money on her.
We bystanders seem to her that she has fallen into a nest of happiness. Those men are rich, capable, and very generous.
But the reason why so many men are fascinated by her is that she is beautiful is on the one hand, and on the other hand, she is very tall and will not be easily confused by men's money.
A man was defeated in front of her and wanted to make up for it, which would spend more energy and money.
Time Emotional Class:
From the experience of three women, you can summarize it. If you want a man to take the initiative to spend money for you, you cannot feel sorry for a man.
You have to be nobler and let him know that he can't get anything without spending the price. The man will slowly get enlightened and know that it is impossible to rely on coaxing.
So, be sure to guide men to spend money for you so that they can’t get you if they don’t spend money.
Of course, it is also appropriate to let men spend money for you. Spending money is just a small trick to verify how much a man loves you.
You cannot regard "let men spend money for you" as the purpose of falling in love. Love is a two-way thing. It is when you ask someone for it, and you also deliver your best side.
