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As the saying goes, how tired a child is. In families with many children, parents are often the hardest and most tiring. Others only need to take care of one or two children, and there is no need to make a fuss. But in families with many children, parents often need to bear more financial pressure.
I thought that my parents were the most tired after three children. But who knew that the three children grew up and got married and got married, and the most tiring one was still the parents. Because parents are reluctant to let their children suffer, they are reluctant to be petty about their children.
It’s just that parents don’t care about their children, but their children will care about their parents. Especially for those with many children in the family, the parents' retirement in their later years is the time for their children to shirk responsibility.
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Aunt Sun has been frowning recently. Others want their children to be so lively, but Aunt Sun wants their three children to come back so diligently every week. After all, Aunt Sun and her husband couldn't serve her three children at a weekly dinner.
Since the youngest son got married and had children, Aunt Sun has been optimistic that she and her husband have finally fulfilled their obligations and responsibilities as parents, and it should be time to enjoy their old age.
But she had just been optimistic for a while, but the distress followed. Under the banner of spending more time with my parents every weekend, the three children who live in the city will bring their children to Aunt Sun's house on Friday night.
At the beginning, Aunt Sun and her husband were really happy. The home built its own house, the place is big, and the children can run fast. Moreover, the son, daughter-in-law, daughter-in-law, son-in-law, and a room full of children, the family is very lively and popular.
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But there are many people, but there will be many conflicts and troubles. Although Aunt Sun and her husband have pensions, they are not much. The combined total of two people is only 6,000 yuan. If it is an old couple who are elderly and seek medical treatment, it is enough. But if you have to raise three families at once, it will be a bit unbearable.
But for the sake of fairness, the old couple gritted their teeth and persevered. It was just one or two times. As time went by, Aunt Sun and her husband were all emptied.
has a large population, and the children's requirements are different. Every time the children go home, they eat and stay for 2 days and 2 nights. On the night they return to the city, they have to pick it up and carry it. Every week, my children eat, drink, play and have fun at home, but the old couple is so tired that they can't straighten their backs.
Thinking of the long-term progress, the old couple not only have to pay for their own pension, but also have to suffer a lot of illnesses. So, the old couple discussed and asked each family to pay 2,000 yuan of living expenses. In this way, no matter how many children come, they can handle it with ease. At least they will be more physically tired, and at least they will not lose their wealth.
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Aunt Sun has also carefully considered the reason why each family requires 2,000 yuan of living expenses. The three children have many requirements and the children have high requirements. They don’t eat this and that, and they always like to eat seafood, expensive ingredients and better fruits.
Aunt Sun thought that three children would understand the hardships of themselves and their spouse. After all, over the years, not only can they not stand it, but their wallets can’t stand it. But unexpectedly, as soon as their request came out, the three children disappeared one after another, and no one even came back on the weekend, and the house suddenly became deserted.
At the beginning, Aunt Sun was not used to it and felt it was too deserted. But over time, she and her husband not only don’t have to pay for money to raise three children and children, but also have their own time arrangements to slowly enjoy the elderly care life and live a comfortable life.
After thinking of this trick, he naturally suffered many complaints from his two daughters-in-law and son-in-law, saying that his parents are old and are jealous of money, and their parents' pensions are not spent now. Aunt Sun didn't care much about these rumors. After all, she was so happy not to be a nanny. She could not only protect her wallet, but also not drag down her body. Who would still have to argue about these things?
Today’s topic:
Do you support Aunt Sun to charge 2,000 yuan for each family to spend?
