Sensible is an attitude, and considerate is a detail. One is a brother and the other is a buddy. The reason why they often come and go is not only family affection, but also a kind of relationship. This love is mutual respect and understanding. Today, I forwarded the story of Ziping's considerate and wise and wise in this way to promote this wise attitude and considerate details. This is also an insight from watching the TV series "We've Been Ten Years".
Ziping considerate (Saturday, October 22)
considerate and thoughtful, it is no exaggeration to use it on the fourth brother Ziping. I made an appointment with my fourth brother last night and went to visit my mother together today. Because of overtime, I arrived at my mother's house at almost 12 o'clock. I saw that the indoor was completely refreshed and the floor was clean. My mother said, your fourth brother cleaned the refrigerator when he came, cleaned the kitchen, and bought chicken, rice and flour, etc.... My fourth brother said modestly, I am not like you, I come back often, I go home to visit my mother less often, so bringing this little thing back is nothing? After dinner, the fourth brother said again, "I bought two boxes of milk. Let's go to visit my second sister-in-law and see if her feet are ready?" So we took the milk to my second brother and sister-in-law's house to ask about their well-being and chat about family matters. A while ago, when my fourth brother and I were visiting my mother, we learned that my second sister-in-law accidentally sprained her foot. My fourth brother and I immediately visited us. Now we are lying in bed for more than a month and can walk on crutches. Today I visited my mother and second brother and sister-in-law. I felt that my fourth brother was considerate and caring for his family. Compared with my fourth brother, I felt a little ashamed. I usually talked more to my family and did less. Especially when you visit your mother, you should go home often when you are old, protect the rare family affection, express that filial piety, and maintain that endless love. Don’t let regret “the son wants to raise his parents but the parents are gone”, leaving only sadness and lifelong regrets!
Mingli and understand the truth (Sunday, October 23)
Mingli made an appointment with me to play mahjong with Xuewen and Hongdian. It is said that it is to play, but in fact, Mingli and emphasize the truth. Mingli and I were colleagues from the former Xiangyang Daily. After the newspaper was cancelled, we went our separate ways and placed them in different units, but we were like-minded and often gathered to chat, and most of them were treated by me. Because Mingli is introverted and rarely plays with us in previous years, this year there have been changes. As long as you call him, you can be on call. Today, he took the initiative to contact me to play mahjong with Xuewen and Hongdian. In his words, he is always passively invited, not enough to be loyal to his buddies. From this time on, he should take the initiative to gather with his old friends and be happy. In terms of treating guests, it is not enough to say that you can repay your favor, but you should be polite and wise. As Baidu said, knowing etiquette means knowing etiquette, and understanding truth means understanding truth. The inner essence of "clear etiquette" is "clear reason". Only by understanding the truth, knowing that "do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you", knowing that "respecting others means respecting yourself", knowing that "the light appearance will bring humiliation", knowing that "ethics are the foundation of governance", and knowing that "face is given to yourself", we can be polite to others, and we can also be respected by others while respecting others. To know these truths, we must learn and read. This is what the saying goes, "knowing and being polite." I think Mingli's name is as polite and reasonable as he is in his behavior. Friends should not only think about being polite, but also being wise.
Attitude details (Sunday, October 23)
Attitude determines everything, details determine success or failure. This time I will watch the lines from the TV series "We Love for the Ten Years" broadcast by Heilongjiang Satellite TV tonight, which is appropriate for today's work. For example, if you sort out the fees for reimbursement of the village style in September and participate in the three-day three-day nucleic acid screening activities, it seems that things are small, but you must have an attitude before doing things and pay more attention to details in doing things. The reimbursement of this time is so difficult, mainly because there are new requirements and changes in the accounting process. This requires a good attitude to deal with such things, and to do the details in the new regulations.Because a firm attitude can persist in reaching the end of success; a serious and pragmatic attitude can make things more reliable and give people peace of mind; an open-minded attitude can make life easier and more casual... A good attitude means to be calm, bend down, and raise your head when doing things. Being calm is a manifestation of wisdom, a precipitation of reason, and a sign of maturity; being able to bend down means being low-key and humble, embrace all rivers, bend and stretch; being able to raise your head, whether in adversity or good times, you must be full of confidence and maintain an optimistic and enterprising attitude.
"A thousand-foot dike is destroyed by the holes of ants; a hundred-foot room is burned by the smoke from the cracks." It is said that the thousand-mile dike, the strong wind and waves cannot move the slightest, which is unbreakable. However, ants invaded, cut the sun and the moon, and the embankment eventually collapsed. A century-old giant tree, lightning strikes a landslide, cannot destroy its life. It can be said to be tenacious and unyielding, but the small beetle can bite the bark and eat the empty trunk. It is precisely because of these often overlooked ants and beetles that seemingly unbreakable dams and giant trees become fragile. Therefore, details often become fatal problems. Things cannot be ignored. Once small things are ignored, they will lead to big things, and will eventually cause irreversible consequences. Whether you attach importance to details and do it well often determines whether you are great or small, outstanding or mediocre.
"The world's major events must be done in detail." Some people who are determined to achieve great things often look down on details or even sneer at them. As a result, their lives often end up in mediocrity. Therefore, attitude can determine everything, and details can determine success or failure.
