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I have seen a story like this: Three workers are building a wall at the same time. A reporter asked them and they had different answers. The first worker said I was building a wall, the second worker said I was building a house, and the third worker said I was planning a city.
But the fate of these three workers is completely different. Years have passed, the first one is still an honest and dedicated wall builder, working hard every day to earn wages, while the second worker became a well-known contractor nearby, and the one who led a group of people was also doing well. The third worker became an outstanding urban designer with an annual income of one million.
Even if we don’t know the truth of this story, it does not prevent us from understanding some principles of life from this story.
In fact, sometimes the biggest difference between people is often the different levels of cognition. How much you know about the world determines the quality of your survival.
people are actually paying for their own cognition throughout their lives.
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You might as well give a small example from your side. It is often related to people's life experience. There is a friend around you. Because you lack relevant legal knowledge, even when buying a property, even if the developer has not obtained a pre-sale license (the five certificates are not complete), he simply paid the down payment with his intuition under the instinct of the sales staff. It was not until the house became an unfinished building that it was too late to find that everything was too late, and he could only shed tears and regret it secretly.
We often say that the most tragic thing in a person's life is often the closed loop too early. If you lose the thinking of learning, it is easier to stick to your own opinions, but you don't know that this is the biggest risk in life. There are countless examples of
. There was also a friend named Xiao Zhang who had to buy a car before. After some inspection, he valued a car from a 4S store. He also urged the sales staff to pay the so-called "deposit", but the legal difference between "deposit" and "deposit" was huge, and the problem of fund return was solved through media channels.
All of these make us deeply realize that how much you know about the truth of life directly determines that you can avoid some difficult traps that are difficult to see. This ability to prevent and unravel is the key to our life in life.
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Aestheticist Zhu GuangqianTaking ancient pines as an example, he made this discussion: "What wood merchants see is its commercial value as wood; what botanists think of is its subjects and attributes; what painters feel is its mentality and structure."
The same item, different people have different starting points, and the conclusions they draw are often different.
Speaking of essentially, when we look at a problem, what we have accumulated in your mind and the way of thinking about the problem often determine your current cognition.
There are always some people who are fascinated by buying lottery tickets, but they don’t know that the probability of winning a lottery ticket is like looking for a needle in a haystack. What is inherent in a person’s mind will deeply affect what a person does. If you understand the closed loop too early, your future life will definitely be full of suffering.
The famous Japanese entrepreneur Kazuo Inamori once said: "A person's life is the product of his thinking in his mind." Your way of thinking and the path to solving problems often determines your quality of life. After all, a person's cognitive ability determines whether he or she is happy or sad in his life.
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I am idle. I have watched the TV series " Tiandao " several times recently. Many details in the play often hurt our hearts deeply, but every time I wake up, it is a kind of baptism of enlightenment.
The theme of the play can climb to the edge of the well and walk out smoothly. The key is that it depends on themselves, and this is their own fate.
When Le Sheng sued Ge Lushi for compensation of 6 million yuan, Liu Bing, Ye Xiaoming, , Feng Shijie, , seemed to have experienced the most unbearable weight of life in the world. Everything was so stressed that he couldn't breathe. The bottom line in his heart could no longer withstand, so he resolutely found Ouyang Xue and asked to acquire his own shares to withdraw from the company.
. When facing the same thing, Xiao Yawen on the other side is completely different. The way she chose is to go against the current and go all the way. In her own words, it is a kind of luck that she can get the chance to get in front of the card table. Different cognitions and different choices have also made Xiao Yawen the final winner in life.
This is of course the same as we saw when Xiao Yawen flew to Germany to meet Rui Xiaodan at his own expense just to set up such a game, to be able to avoid breaking off contact with Ding Yuanying , and to learn something, think about it, and realize it is enough.
When a person is bound by his own cognition, cannot see a higher dimension, and cannot break out of the cage of thinking, he will eventually draw a prison and tie himself up in his own world.
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In daily life, we often see people like this: we always think that we know a lot, have correct ideas, and always question other people's opinions; we are used to following the steps, refusing to accept new things, and never making changes.
Once it is not satisfactory, accept your fate and blame the external factors.
The cage of thought is very terrible, especially a life that is stagnant and has a closed loop of cognition.
Only by constantly breaking through the boundaries of thinking on the road of life can we understand the laws of nature and find a solution to the road to broadside.
People pay for their own cognition throughout their lives. What opens up the gap between people is the level of cognition.
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