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A pot of soup, and the whole pot of soup is ruined.
However, if a clear spring suddenly appears in the desert, people's hatred for the desert will disappear.
Similarly, you have always been very nice to someone, but once you suddenly neglect your name, the other party will resent you.
However, you have always been bad to someone, but once you suddenly treat him well, the other party will say, in fact, you are not bad as well.
2
Lovers abandon you, which is actually a good thing.
The person who can abandon you, even if you are lucky enough to marry him, you will most likely be divorced in the future. Moreover, if you need to divorce, you will suffer even more.
So, in the love stage, he abandoned you, but God actually cleared the mines for you.
Things are so interesting: some experiences make you unhappy, you mistakenly think that God is punishing you, but from a different perspective, you will find that God is actually saving you.
3
Mental people, every time the trend of the times comes, their first reaction is to doubt, and then try every means to find its risks, and then completely deny it from the bottom of their hearts.
This is why, 99% of middle-class people find it difficult to get to the next level.
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I realized one thing, it was heartbreaking:
Travel guide, which is something that only people without money need to do.
Rich people have only one guide: bring more money.
I am sincere about this.
5
The first time I bought and sold, I have to smile and leave a good impression, maybe I will succeed next time.
For peers and competitors, you should also have a smile on your face and don’t regard them as enemies, because maybe there will be a chance to cooperate one day.
For those who are not as good as you, please give me a smile to eliminate your jealousy of you.
More smiley face, more blessing.
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"It's gold will shine sooner or later", this sentence chicken soup is a scam.
Because gold does not shine at all. If you don’t believe me, put the gold bar in the dark room to see if it glows? The answer is: not shine.
Gold actually reflects external light, and it does not emit light itself.
Similarly, no matter how talented a person is, he must have all the conditions and his talent can be displayed.
For example, if Jay Chou was born in the cave era in 15,000 BC, he was also a primitive man who chased wild boars. He was no different from others. He was full of musical cells and environmental conditions, and could not be used to play it out.
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200 billion people have lived on the earth.
However, there are only 300 historical figures that you can blurt out.
In other words, the probability that you can leave a name in human history is only 0.00000015%
So, 100 years later, no one in this world will remember you.
is like you have never been to the earth.
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The first thing people do is not to listen to different opinions to prove that they are wrong, but to try every means to prove that they are right.
This is why most people in the world find it difficult to make progress, but they become more and more stubborn as they get older.
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In various WeChat groups, try not to make enemies. The purpose of socializing is to make friends, not make enemies.
If you want to avoid making enemies in the WeChat group, there is a practical way:
Before posting every text in the group, you'd better ask yourself: When you are facing each other online, do you dare to say this in person? If you don’t dare, then don’t say it in the WeChat group.
Doing this can basically not offend people in the WeChat group.
especially a group of strangers.
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Someone sent you a WeChat message. If you only reply after a few hours, it is best to take the initiative to explain: I was just in a meeting.
Only then will people know that you are not deliberately neglecting him.
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Have I made it clear? It’s my business.
Do you understand it is your business.
So, I usually don’t say “Have you heard it clearly?”, but say “Did I explain it clearly?”, which is more appropriate.
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In human history, when we look back, we often find that many of the problems that humans were worried about in the past were actually nothing more than nothing.
For example, thirty years ago, human beings had many "intellectuals" who "worry about the world first" who were worried about the population explosion and the earth was overwhelmed. However, later, human society turned dramatically: after the urbanization of most countries, the fertility rate plummeted.
Similarly, today many people are worried that the population will decline, and the economic development of in the future will not be sustainable. However, from another perspective, we are likely to see robots and artificial intelligence replace manpower on a large scale in our lifetime. In other words, will the decline in population necessarily lead to an economic decline? It's possible, but not necessarily.
There is an old saying in China that goes well: children and grandchildren have their own blessings. It is right for us to worry about future generations, but not all worries will become reality.
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What is the relationship between "persistence" and "success"? There are three rules for
:
rules one: persistence may not necessarily lead to success.
Rule 2: If you don’t persist, you will definitely not succeed.
Rule 3: The longer you persist, the greater the hope of success.
Everything is like this.
Among them, the principle of Rule Three is as follows: because in the process of persistence, your professional level will continue to improve. When you advance to a certain threshold, your product will stand out. In theory, this threshold will be broken sooner or later. The problem lies in everyone's talent and effort.
I hope you can understand my text. If you don't understand, I suggest you read it again.
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The biggest feature of simplified Chinese netizens is four words: unconvincing.
So remember: Never quarrel with netizens, don’t have a single word, because you can never convince him that he wants not the truth, but the illusion that he is willing to believe.
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Many things in the world are caused by people wanting to have free lunch.
For example, people like to use Alipay , but they are unwilling to pay it annual fees. So, they are forcing Alipay to sell some risky things to everyone, such as stocks, fund , financial products, etc., to earn commissions, and who will bear the risks of these things? The answer is: the user bears it.
Some people buy funds, stocks, and financial products on Alipay, and they lose money and call Alipay bad. The question is: Who is bad? I don't think it's easy to say. It is not certain that if you want a horse to run and don’t eat grass, who will be in the wrong hands.
Frankly speaking, Lao Feng, I lost money when I bought funds on Alipay six years ago, but I don’t think Alipay is bad. I just think that I was disguised and paid the annual fee.
There is no free lunch in the world. As a person, you must be grateful.
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95% of the problems in life can be solved with money.
The remaining 5% of the problem seems to be unsolvable, but in fact, it can be solved by reading, improving one's own wisdom and improving one's own views. Translated into human words: Once you figure it out, you will solve it.
This is why, making money and reading are important.
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If you can't meet the opposite sex you like in real life, then you are likely to not be able to encounter it online.
Similarly, if the slightly better opposite sex in the offline world doesn’t like you, then you go online and look for someone else, and even the slightly better one doesn’t like you.
Besides, who is slightly better, who can find a partner online?
So, when you meet a very good opposite sex online and say you like you, then you have to be careful, this matter is 80% fraud. In high-end communities, the quality of residents is usually higher.
It’s not because they live in high-end communities, so their quality has become higher.
It is because they have high quality that they live in high-end communities.
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The person you lost actually never really belonged to you. It’s just that during that time, God played a joke with you, making you mistakenly think that that person belongs to you.
Time has come, God wakes you up with a slap and tells you that I am giving you a lesson so that you can grow, that's all.
So, there is nothing to regret.
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The reason why many people live in pain is:
Can't let go of face.
can’t think about the gains and losses.
human nature cannot be seen through.
I can't forget people.
21
Love exists, but love will change.
Everything exists, but everything will change.
All things exist, and it cannot be denied that everything will change.
All things will change, and we cannot deny the existence of all things.
Family, friendship, wealth, reputation, status, health, are all the same.
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people’s choice of every major event accounted for more than 80%.
At almost every key crossroad in life, people basically make choices based on their love and disgust in their hearts.
This is why, personality can determine destiny.
23
door lock, drawer lock are all guarding against gentlemen and villains.
In fact, the contract is the same.
IOU is also.
Marriage certificate is also.
24
In this world we live, insecurity is the norm.
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The middle class wants high returns, but it also needs zero risk.
Actually, he also knew it was unrealistic, so he wanted to add a "I can be very diligent".
The problem is: "very diligent" + "zero risk", and the result will not equal "high return".
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If a child has an interest in being unable to stop, it is actually a great news, because it often means: the child may be a genius.
This huge interest of children is much more important than TA's grades in school.
If Jay Chou’s parents attach importance to school grades, then today there will be one more white-collar worker in Taipei, and one less Jay Chou in the Chinese music scene.
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People in the world like to ask a strange question: "Are you happy?"
This question is like asking "Is pork expensive?" There is no standard answer. Pork is sometimes expensive and sometimes cheap, and the price changes with the market.
Similarly, people sometimes feel happy and sometimes feel unhappy. Everyone is like this. There are times when they are happy and painful. There is no answer to this question.
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Why do rabbits say that it is best not to eat grass by the nest?
Because you ate the grass by the nest, the hunter judged based on this that there should be a rabbit hole here, and in the end, he caught you. The truth behind this matter is: satisfying desires cannot destroy the premise of "survival".
Similarly, no matter how greedy you are about the opposite sex, you'd better not attack the opposite sex in your unit. Lao Feng, I used to have a male colleague in the unit, but because I got involved with the female colleague in my unit, I lost my job and was very embarrassed.
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What is a good article?
The so-called good article is that after you read it, you feel like you have been hit on the back of your head, and suddenly you find something you believe in for the first half of your life, and now you are starting to shake.
Or, if you suddenly figure it out, you suddenly figure it out, then this is a good article.
