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Language is the most basic and simple form of communication between people. Language can intuitively express a person's ideas. It is not only a tool for communication, but also a window to show a person's personality and morality.
We can perceive a person's character from his daily words, which is also the best way to understand.
Diseases come from the mouth , disasters come from the mouth, and daily communication is also a double-edged sword. Some people can understand their careers, achieve achievements, and even usher in love with their own words.
Some people also cause irreparable disasters just because of a passage, a sentence or even a word. Things in the world are impermanent, and people should be careful in their words and actions.
A large part of a person's temperament comes from conversation, and even a person's luck comes from his mouth.
For men looking for love, humorous and funny conversation is popular;
For men looking for jobs and making friends, neither humble nor arrogant conversation is also attractive.
language can make people understand you better and will bring you good luck.
Of course, not everyone knows how to speak. Many people often cause disaster to themselves because they can't speak.
You will find that some people are obviously down-to-earth and serious in their work, but because they do not understand the art of speaking, they offend their boss inadvertently, thus cutting off their promotion path.
There are also some people who have good character, but they are not reliable in their mouths and do not speak, which often gives people a feeling of losing prices.
So, people who can speak and cannot speak have two completely different lives.
For ordinary people, the first thing to do in this way should be to pay attention to taboos in some taboo conversations, such as swearing, insulting women, etc.
In addition to this basic aspect, you don’t want to be looked down upon, so don’t say such things, it’s very expensive.
words are absolutely true, and you should consider the consequences when speaking. You should not speak too absolutely. You don’t leave any way out and often force yourself into a difficult situation.
Some people always like to "bring a promise", which is often found on the dinner table of the wine party, and between cups and cups.
always feels honest and refreshing when bragging, and you can find him in everything, and you feel a little righteous.
But everyone knows that if you support the scene in such occasions, three points are true and seven points are false, and you must not speak so improperly on weekdays.
A gentleman's words are as good as hell, and people should be responsible for their own words.
The so-called water is difficult to collect. The words you say are like splashed out. Talking big words is an irresponsible behavior. People who often believe in their words will gradually become less powerful and will gradually lose credibility in others' hearts.
Speakers are unintentional and listeners are intentional. A person has to say about five thousand sentences every day. Humans are not machines, and it is impossible to consider the impact of saying each sentence at all times.
This makes psychological changes. Although words come from the mouth, they come from the heart. If you have the habit of talking big and bragging, you should consciously make changes. Don’t say absolutely, and don’t treat yourself as someone who can do everything.
Disdain for other people’s achievements
“Looking down on others” is definitely an act that is of no benefit to the development of one’s own life.
Everyone has something worthy of respect, and you cannot look down on others with your own superiority.
Respecting people is a basic moral quality, but some people's behavior is indeed disgusting. When we say "looking down on others" means not recognizing the other party's morality, while some people always like to belittle others' achievements for no reason, such as "Nothing is amazing".
Everyone’s achievements are hard-won. It is worthy of pride to achieve certain achievements, and of course it is admirable.
But there are always people who are disdainful of other people's achievements. Various language belittlements are actually very simple, just one or two sentences, and there is no need to come up with actual proof. This kind of discourse is called "verbal pleasure" by netizens.
people are all jealous and inferior. When the two attacks, it is often difficult to recognize other people's achievements. They always feel that nothing is great, but in fact it comes from inner jealousy and inferiority.
Under the remarks, someone will inevitably see the thoughts deep in your heart. This kind of thought is of course very depreciating. Learning to recognize others' excellence and learning to accept the gaps between people is also a compulsory course in life.
Cynical, complaining about the world
The intricacies of society often put great pressure on people, and the pressure of survival is long-term.
There are still a lot of unexpected pressure in life. People are sometimes walking on thin ice, sometimes like walking on a mountain of swords and seas of fire, and sometimes like a flat horse.
The feeling of stress also depends on a person's mentality. Once the mentality is unbalanced, you will lose the courage to face difficulties and will be trapped in one place and it will be difficult to break out of the siege.
Those who have been tortured by life always drink beer and scold the unfairness of the heaven at the midnight snack stall on the side of the road. This is a kind of venting and a kind of confrontation.
But people cannot just focus on saying "the way of heaven is unfair" and are unwilling to believe that "the way of heaven rewards hard work". People who often complain about the world are often unprosperous.
There seems to be no fairness in life, because the material conditions are indeed stratified, and those children living in rural areas are not as good as children in cities in terms of material conditions.
But as far as people at the same level are concerned, there are always people who rely on their own efforts to move up step by step, and there are always people who just live with grumbling.
When a person complains too much, he will naturally be filled with negative energy. How can people accept it?
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Speaking is also an art. Some people are very talented in speaking, flexible and eloquent in their minds, and their lives will naturally be much smoother.
For ordinary people, if you can’t speak, what you need to do is to change bad language habits from now on.
Pay attention to personal speaking, avoid offending others language, and strive to gain favor from others through speaking.
As the saying goes, when you meet people, and when you are ghosts, it is best not to speak a person's way of speaking. If you communicate with people of different personalities, you should try to change your way of speaking.
Do not lose your integrity when encountering heroic people, do not lose your politeness when encountering shy people, and do not lose your gentleness when encountering weak people.
Learn the skills of speaking and say the right words in the right occasion, and you will find that you have a lot of opportunities.
