There are also ghost stories in the world.
Netizens send private messages: Hello, Teacher Ye! Let me share a story I heard:
men and women are now in their fifties.
Women graduated from junior high school and met a man about 20 years ago through a blind date through an acquaintance.
Men are college students and do technical work in state-owned enterprises.
: A woman can meet a man with such conditions, which is the best among all blind dates for her, so she got married soon.
did not live together before marriage, did not have too much date and understanding, getting married is like opening a blind box: a man has physical problems, and two people are together without a couple.
Women have lived in a closed country since childhood and are ashamed to talk about such things. It took a long time for
to let the family know.
The mother-in-law was prepared and asked someone to take a look and asked them to adopt a girl.
men are fine, and they will hand over the salary they earn to their wife. Women no longer have other ideas on life like
.
About 2005, they spent more than 100,000 yuan to buy two bedrooms and one living room in the suburbs of the provincial capital city near a state-owned enterprise where men work.
With the house in hand, the woman settled down and lived a life. Her mother-in-law died shortly after their marriage, so she took care of her daughter.
When the child went to kindergarten, the woman found a job as a cleaner nearby.
The life of a family of three is also very good.
The child went to the third grade of elementary school and was hospitalized after several fevers. He occasionally developed symptoms of convulsions, spasm, and foaming on the mouth. He sought medical treatment from multiple sources to diagnose epilepsy.
I also saw a large hospital in Beijing. I took several courses of prescribed medicines and started after a long treatment. This disease is generally incurable.
Men no longer want to spend money on this adopted child, and gradually no longer give their wages to women, nor do they give their families money.
The child is treated and goes to school for a full-time care. The woman has no income and can only ask the man for it. The two often quarreled about this.
Later, the frequency of children's illnesses became higher and higher, so I specially found someone to mediate.
mediation is still effective. The man gives his wife 2,000 yuan a month, including home use and children to take medicine to see a doctor. Nowadays, men's income should be nearly 10,000 yuan.
Men and women did not live a couple after marriage, especially after adopting their children, they bought two bedrooms and one living room, the man lived alone, and the woman and the child lived in the same room.
Men are very lazy. Women are not only taking care of their children, but also serving men at home.
The man does not pay attention to personal hygiene, and the room is very smelly. Every time a woman passes by the door, she will close the door at will.
The man was sick and hospitalized, and the woman didn't want to serve him, but when she thought of relying on him to give money, she bit the bullet and delivered the meal.
When a child is in serious condition, he must be able to commit forty times a month. Taking
for a long time will cause certain damage to the brain. After the child graduated from junior high school last year, he stopped going to school due to his physical condition.
Some people suggest taking the child to continue to go to Beijing for treatment, and the man uses the excuse of having no money.
Women can only take their children to see Chinese medicine in small places. The children are still taking Chinese medicine, so the effect is not high.
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has many meanings, and it is clear at a glance:
1, money brings people dignity.
does not have the ability to make money outside, so he has to make money at home;
does not want to be angry with outsiders, so he has to be angry with his own family.
2, adoption requires caution.
China is a country where there are legal miscarriages, so there are indeed not so many abandoned babies that can be adopted.
First, many so-called adoption itself is a business, which is already a violation of law and morality;
Second, I suspect that many parents pretend to abandon their children without knowing that their children are sick (already sick or their parents are sick).
I heard that many people are unhealthy after adopting children.
3, it is a point that most people find difficult to think of.
means: Only those with sexual desire are living people.
A person has a love, sympathy, admiration, and respect for the outside world... in fact, many of the love, sympathy, admiration, and respect... are based on sexual desire.
If you really have no sexual desire for physiological reasons, then this person often has no feelings for the world.
So girls should not think, "He doesn't sleep with me, he has a good character." Maybe the truth is: he is sick.
(By the way: the so-called straight male aesthetic is the aesthetic that a normal heterosexual male should have. If a man does not have a straight male aesthetic, it is really troublesome.)
4. Dirty may be a pathological manifestation.
However, this may not be a cure for you.
meets dirty people, especially adult men, stay away.
So girls should not think, "He doesn't sleep with me, he has a good character." Maybe the truth is: he is sick.
(By the way: the so-called straight male aesthetic is the aesthetic that a normal heterosexual male should have. If a man does not have a straight male aesthetic, it is really troublesome.)
4. Dirty may be a pathological manifestation.
However, this may not be a cure for you.
meets dirty people, especially adult men, stay away.
