On October 28, a woman in Anhui's operation sparked heated discussions among netizens. She had just been married for a month and filed for divorce. In order to end the marriage as soon as possible, she would give up everything she could.
The reason is that the husband's health is not good. This failure is not because of the conventional sense of weakness and illness, nor is it because the shoulder cannot be picked up or the hands cannot be lifted, but because there is a problem with physiological functions.
In the comment section, there are many accusations of men and sympathy for women. There is an alternative view of the moment that has been put forward: on the importance of cohabitation before marriage!
As for the matter, it is true that living together before marriage or having sex before marriage can find problems in time. However, once the viewpoint of living together before marriage and having sex before marriage is popularized, women may still be hurt!
Live together and try to love before marriage, we must admit that there are certain benefits. Before marriage, two people live under the same roof, live a simulated life of a couple, and be able to discover problems in life habits, sexual ability, etc. in a timely manner, which can make the two people more in line.
, but its disadvantages are very obvious! After this view became popular, it was difficult for women to reject their boyfriends’ sexual demands! Under this, scumbags can live a couple's life at a very small cost, and they are not even responsible!
Especially in the current lack of sex education , women have far less protection for themselves. We can go to the hospital to see how many young women have pregnancy before marriage and choose to have miscarriage, or see how many women have children before marriage and then their boyfriends disappear!
At present, social thoughts are becoming more and more open. Occasional sex before marriage can warm up love, and people generally recognize it, but living together before marriage is really a test of human nature!
According to the survey, couples who have lived together have a divorce rate of 50% higher than that of ordinary couples. The study also found that 40% of their partners will not get married at all after they live together.
Cohabiting couples have an 80% share rate, of which 40% have broken up before they even stepped on the red carpet, and 40% have divorced within 10 years. This shows that the reason for supporting trial marriage is untenable.
It can be seen from this that living together before marriage is not a bond that maintains future relationships, but on the contrary, conflicts are more likely to arise!
At the same time, another survey found that in the summary of cohabitation relationships, the proportion of unmarried cohabitation women suffering from depression is five times that of married women. In fact, among people suffering from depression, unmarried cohabitation women rank second, second only to women who have divorced more than twice, and the proportion of unmarried cohabitation people suffering from mental illness is twice that of married people!
. In my opinion, the reason for this situation is that women need to be more responsible for their bodies, they need to bear the risk of miscarriage and abandonment. On the other hand, it comes from different eyes of everyone, or the constraints of moral sense.
As we all know, in the past, living together before marriage would be despised by everyone, and it was an extremely immoral behavior. Even at a time when the mind is relatively open, it would still be despised by some conservatives!
It can be seen from this that living together before marriage may be an improvement in thought, but it is more likely to be a moral decline, and enjoying rights in an irresponsible way!
In my opinion, the key to cohabiting before marriage lies in the definition of "before marriage". If you have already determined to get married, you can try it if you are just getting a certificate and getting a drink. On the one hand, you can enter the rhythm in advance and promote your relationship. On the other hand, if other problems arise, you can stop the loss in time without suffering greater losses! However, if you only confirm a relationship, then the disadvantages may be even more obvious!
