A happy and fulfilling life cannot be separated from harmonious sex. The following tests on couples’ sexual harmony involve all aspects of your and your lover’s sexual life. If there are big differences between you and your lover’s attitudes, tastes and preferences about sex, you may need to make changes.
1. Do you have the same views on pornographic things?
A. Your views are almost the same
B. He (she) may be more open or conservative than you
C. You strongly oppose his (she) views
2. You are lying in bed with your lover, you feel...
A. Very exciting
B. Very satisfied
C. Very tired
3. Does your lover know exactly how to give you sexual pleasure?
A. After having sex, you will feel very satisfied
B. You are very shy and dare not tell your lover what can make you feel the best
C. You can't remember how many times your lover has disappointed you
4. There are several sex life on your lover's computer. The video of the trick, I want to watch it with you, you will...
A. I am eager to try it myself
B. Take a shower, and then wait to try it with your lover
C. Think this is a bad and dirty sexual behavior
5. Do you have any objections to his (her) personal hygiene?
A. No comment at all, he (she) is very hygienic
B. He (she) is always not thoroughly washed
C as you hope. You find that some of his (her) hygiene habits are really unbearable
6. If your lover likes a sex position that makes you uncomfortable, will you?
A. Tell him (her) directly and try other postures that can also satisfy him (her)
B. Endure silently because you want to endure a little pain yourself, which will exchange for his (her) happiness
C. Pretend to a headache and stop having sex immediately
7. What is your attitude towards loyalty to your lover?
A. You have a similar view
B. There are relatively big differences between you
C. Your views are completely opposite
8. What do you think about contraception?
A. Your views are the same
B. There are differences in the methods of contraception
C. There are differences in the opinions on whether contraception is needed
9. What is your sexual desire compared to your lover?
A. The intensity of your sexual desire is similar.
B. Sometimes you find that his (her) sexual desire is too strong or too cold
C. The time you have sexual impulses is always inconsistent, there are fronts and backs
10. Let your lover have sexual pleasure. How happy are you?
A. You will be happy to satisfy his (her) desires, and this will also bring you pleasure
B. You will cater to his (her) desires, although you are likely not fully prepared yet
C. You are very Care about whether he or she can find the
Score method
Now, calculate how many "A" and "B" you have chosen in total, choose one "A" and get 3 points, one "B" and one "C" get 1 point, and then add all the scores together. You can judge the degree of sexual harmony between you and your lover based on the total score.
Conclusion
25 points or more indicate that your sex life is very perfect; 20 to 24 points, your sex life is relatively harmonious; 15 to 19 points, your sex life is purely douche; 10 to 14 points, your sex life is not very harmonious. If sex is the only or major discord between you and your lover, you should consider receiving sexual therapy or having sexual consultation to make your couple's life more perfect.
This article is co-authored by: [US] Rachel Cook Translated by: Liu Shuying
Editor: Da V
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