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Song Qing never expected that the dowry house she bought with her parents and her parents-in-law eventually became the elderly care house for her parents-in-law. All of this comes from her first glance and picking Zhang Qian, the phoenix man.
Song Qing and Zhang Qian met and fell in love in college. Although they have different families, they still cannot stop each other's passionate hearts. In addition, Zhang Qian's mouth is very sweet and he is good at coaxing Song Qing to be happy.
Therefore, even though the college graduates went their separate ways, Song Qing still chose to work hard in the same city as Zhang Qian. Not long after the two of them went to the big city, Song Qing lived with him and started a trial marriage with him.
When parents learned all this and came to stop it, Song Qing had already shouted that she would not marry Zhang Qian in this life and was pregnant with Zhang Qian's child. Parents love their daughters very much, but they regret that they are not strong enough, and they dare not break up the couple. They can only bear the pain of organizing a marriage for their daughter.
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Song Qing married Zhang Qian as she wished, lived in the house where her parents dowed, and lived the happy life she thought was. But the happy life has not been very comfortable, and the troubles of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law that followed has made Song Qing regret it.
When Song Qing was 6 months pregnant, Zhang Qian did not discuss with her, so he took his parents from his hometown to take care of her. He also said that he would bring his parents in advance, so that they could facilitate their parents to adapt to the city environment and take care of Song Qing's confinement and children.
Song Qing is simple and kind. When she heard Zhang Qian say this, she would not refuse. After all, her parents-in-law were kind-hearted. However, after Song Qing gave birth to her daughter, her mother-in-law's face of favoring boys over girls was revealed.
Before giving birth, my mother-in-law was full of joy and shouted every day that my eldest grandson was about to be born and take care of her. But after giving birth, when she saw that she was her granddaughter, her mother-in-law's joy turned into depression and even disappointment.
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Song Qing had just given birth to a child, and she didn't care about looking at her mother-in-law's face. But during the confinement period, her mother-in-law would always show her face, and Zhang Qian also kept protecting his parents, asking Song Qing to be more patient in everything and not to bother with his parents.
endure once or twice, Song Qing had nothing to say, after all, she had to respect the elderly. After being tolerated countless times, Song Qing couldn't bear it anymore. What's more, Song Qing also found that her husband was carrying her back and leaving her salary to his parents. When she asked, her husband said that his younger brother had not gotten married and started a family, and his parents had to save some money.
Song Qing asked Zhang Qian for a salary card many times, but he refused, saying that Song Qing was the only daughter and that her parents were not short of money to spend. Song Qing has the expenses at home, and he can control his own money. Seeing Zhang Qian so stubborn, Song Qing said angrily: Then divorce will fulfill your filial piety, and don’t use my dowry room to fulfill your filial piety.
Song Qing filed for divorce with her husband and asked him to pack his luggage immediately and take his parents back to his home to fulfill his filial piety. After all, this is a house she bought by her parents and she has no obligation to give it to him for retirement. She was alone and helped her support her family, while her husband was free to support her brother.
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In a family, the responsibilities and obligations of men and women are the same. Even in many cases, women have to take on more and more responsibilities. At this time, men should be more considerate and understand women, rather than blindly being filial and confused.
Women can tolerate men's poverty, but they cannot tolerate men's poverty and are foolish and filial. A foolish and filial man is undoubtedly a disaster for a family.
Women rely on their parents' subsidies to support their families, while men use their own salary to subsidize their parents and younger brothers. Not everyone can accept such a comparison and gap calmly.
Today's topic:
Do you support Song Qing and Zhang Qian's divorce?
