The ancients emphasized "a good match". If a boy and a girl are not a good match, then even if the relationship is good, they will encounter many obstacles. With the changes and development of the times, people's thinking has improved better, but the family background of both parties is still an important prerequisite for getting married.
College students are receiving higher quality education , knowing the concept of right and wrong and the principles of good and evil, and knowing that learning is an important way to improve themselves. However, some students are not rational and clear in their minds, and even confused by others' "sweet words" and thus lose their own thinking and mind.
University is often called "ivory tower", in which students can also better preserve their "innocence", but if they are too "silly and sweet", it would be a big mistake. A rural guy married a female college student as his wife, but his words were full of belittlement, which is true!
A young man in rural areas married a female college student as his wife, but his words were full of belittlement, and netizens called him "the man below"!
One of the main purposes of students' hard-working learning is to keep moving forward on the road of life. If you stay in place, it will be a "regression" in another sense. A rural guy can't read the college student's wife and looks for praise, but his words are full of belittlement.
Rural guy bluntly said: "I didn't spend a penny to marry a college student as my wife" , and also showed his "showing off" feeling, thinking that he could only write a name without knowing big words, but the girl has a college degree , but in order to follow him, she "works away" and can also wash clothes and cook. The boy also bluntly said, "This is a wife I've picked up for nothing"!
Although he became disliked after entering the mountains, the young man was still "smug" . Netizens also talked about this. also called it the "lower man" , and said bluntly: is really speechless. Why do you still have to marry him like this? Some netizens in said: Why don’t her parents stop them?
Some netizens said that this is the reason why I want to read the book badly . It has to be said that female college students could have a brighter future after graduation, but they chose another completely opposite path. It is no wonder that netizens commented with mockery, and other college students should also learn from it, but don’t make wrong choices.
And this is not "discrimination", but when your education, ability, family and other conditions are not matched and equivalent to others, even if your relationship is good, it will not make much sense. You will still be dragged down by the future "lucky, rice, oil and salt", so college students should not be clear-headed!
"Good-to-be-in-class" is very important. College students should also stay awake and not be confused by other people's words
In fact, family background is not a restriction, but if a rural guy has the idea of "smugness", then this is not friendly to female college students. Netizens also bluntly said: Thank you , and decided to break up with your rural boyfriend! Some netizens in said: It is obvious that she lost the bet this time in !
. In my opinion, does not know the whole picture and does not comment. Respecting others’ choices is also respecting yourself. Even if the choices of female college students are wrong, it is also a decision they make. Others do not need to comment more . It is better to bow their heads and manage and regulate themselves more practically. Female college students should also be worthy of their efforts and efforts, and do not give up easily, and should not be troubled by emotions, which will naturally affect their future and future!
"People go to high places, water flows to low places", learning is still the fastest "way out" for students . Students should also plan their own future reasonably and gain a broader room for promotion in order to live up to what they have learned!
is the primary prerequisite for improving oneself. Female college students should not waste their abilities, nor be "bound" by emotions. Although every student's choice is free , the premise also depends on whether it is "worthy". What's more, students have worked hard for more than ten years to climb to higher peaks. But if they turn back to the mountain village to be a "housewife", then how can they be worthy of their efforts and their parents' efforts?
Female college students should also keep their eyes open, see the essence through the phenomenon, and strive to improve their personal strength and professional ability , and strive to make themselves better. instead of receiving a little bit of "little favor" from others and thinking about rewards, that may also "fall" hard, especially "getting a family" is a big deal.
, and female college students should also have clear goals and beliefs, know that studying hard is to become a better self, not for others, and should not be bound by their family. Even if they can continue to take the postgraduate entrance examination and doctoral degree after graduating from undergraduate studies, so female college students should not give up easily.
The author's message : Feelings are not "children's play", especially college students are already adults, must be more responsible for their own future, and hope that college students can find their own value and ability after graduation and better achieve "success in learning" , instead of sacrificing their own knowledge at will, and it is inevitable that they will feel "regret" in the future!
Topic: What do you think should college students choose?
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