Introduction: Many parents have always wanted to have a son and a daughter, so that they can be considered a complete family. However, the facts are often not as expected. Even if they have sons and daughters, they still cannot be treated fairly. Parents will always be biased towards one of them, and most parents will be more biased towards their sons, because in their opinion, only sons can continue the family blood, which is a situation that occurs in many families. But this is for parents, for grandparents, is it a grandson more close or grandchildren? Children are the jewels of their parents' eyes. No matter how biased they are, they will not show it. After all, no matter whether they are men or women, they are born together. However, the elderly are different. It is obvious that they are biased towards the younger generation they like.
Nowadays, many parents do not have free time to take care of their children because they are busy with work, so they can only ask parents of both parties to help take care of them. Therefore, we can often see that most of the people who take their children out to play are elderly people.
What is the difference between "grandson" and "grandson"? The old man told the truth in his heart, but it was still realistic after all.
. Unfortunately, the old man took his grandson out to play, and he started chatting with him. According to the old man, it was not used to coming to the city. Although the transportation here is well developed and the resources are convenient, his hometown is the place he wants to go back the most. After all, he still has a grandson in his hometown. However, after taking care of his grandson for so long, neither the children nor the children were willing to leave the other party, and she felt very upset about this.
However, what this grandma said made me deeply touched. Although it is a relatively developed city now and people's thoughts are constantly improving, no matter how they change, some ideas are deeply rooted, such as the previous generation's partial treatment of children, especially in many rural areas, the phenomenon of favoring boys over girls is common.
In their opinion, boys are more powerful. They are the pillars of a family. Therefore, the elderly put all the hope of family inheritance on them. The final destination of girls is to get married. After they get married, they will no longer be family members, so the elderly will be more biased towards boys in their daily lives.
It has always existed since ancient times. However, what we didn’t expect is that there are differences between grandchildren and grandson, which may not be obvious in normal times. However, during the Chinese New Year, you can tell who they like more from the red envelopes given by the elderly.
Old There is another reason why people like their sons, that is, when they get old, they can ask their sons to support them, and the same is true for grandchildren. However, grandchildren are the daughter's children, and their surname is not the family surname. and he also has his own grandmother. He does not have many opportunities to meet, and it is impossible to rely on grandchildren to support them in the future. Therefore, they give their grandchildren less red envelopes than grandchildren during the Chinese New Year.
Although they are all juniors, the grandson is obviously closer to the old man. The reason why this old man takes care of his daughter is mainly because he feels sorry for her. She is already very busy at work, so she naturally has no time to take care of the children. In order to make her daughter easier, the old man comes to help, and doing so will make her daughter more confident in her in-laws’ house.
Although the child also has their blood on him, he is someone else's child after all. If he is closer to his grandson, his grandson will be unhappy and his son will have opinions. In the future, the main purpose of raising a child will be his son . You can't make your son unhappy because of this, after all, you will have to live together in the future.
In my opinion, since they are all juniors, they should be treated fairly. After all, everyone is a family. Whether it is the son's children or the daughter's children, they are their own grandsons. As long as they live together, they will develop a strong relationship. And the issue of elderly care is mainly due to the education of parents. If the parents are educated properly, then no matter what they are, the grandson will treat the elderly well.
In fact, children can also feel the emotions of adults. If adults are not as good as others, they will be very sad. Over time, they will become more and more alienated from their families. Therefore, the elderly should also change their ideas in time and treat them equally no matter what juniors are.
Summary: We will find that many children with mental problems are because their parents have not educated them well. As long as parents instill correct ideas in their children and do not treat them differently, children will be equally filial to their elders in the future. Both grandfather and grandfather should be as good as their children.
The previous concept of "raising children to prevent old age" was deeply rooted in people's hearts, but all kinds of bloody facts tell us that sons are sometimes unreliable, and daughters can also be very considerate. They can also support their parents in the new era and new ideas. I hope that the elderly can change their ideas in a timely manner and treat the younger generation well. There is no need to worry too much about pension issues in the future.
Different treatment will cause great harm to the children's young minds. They will also imitate adult behavior in the future to treat their children in this way, which will form a vicious cycle. Moreover, if parents often instill such concepts in their children, it will be very unfavorable to their children's growth. I hope all parents can understand this truth as soon as possible.
