How many more Chinese men than women? According to the Seventh Census of 2020, there are more than 34.9 million male citizens in China than female citizens. What does this data mean? According to the principle of monogamy, it means that 34.9 million men in our country are or are becoming members of the army of tens of millions of bachelors.
Women will not worry about marrying. No matter how ugly, uneducated, or even poorer their families, they can get married. If they can find a partner, they can even choose from the right and choose the best, but men are different. The number of people eliminated with 34.9 million people may be one of them if they are not careful.
How to get rid of single dogs and not become a member of the army of tens of millions of bachelors? This is a problem that most male friends urgently need to understand and reconcile. In fact, you don’t need to find the method. You will know the reason for becoming a bachelor.
first, I missed my youth and became a bachelor.
has no chance of being a woman since childhood, he is withdrawn and introverted, and he is unwilling to date others, especially unwilling or shy to date girls. When it is time to fall in love, he doesn't talk about it, and he goes on and goes on. It's not until he is thirty or forty that his friends and classmates around him have finished getting married, and some even get married in the second and third place, so naturally they are still single and single.
Second, he became a bachelor with a irritable personality.
To be honest, women are a strange creature. You must be nice to her, learn to make her happy, learn to observe her face, learn to suit her preferences, and learn to take responsibility, so that she feels down-to-earth, reliable and safe. If a man does not know how to treat women like the ancients, "living them to the left and right, playing with the zither, and playing with the bells and drums" is destined to become a bachelor. Even if he gets married, he will be grinning all day long, and women will leave you because of your personality and temper.
Third, I became a bachelor in financial difficulties.
As the saying goes, "Marry a man and marry a man, dress and eat." "Poor couples suffer a lot, and they will fly away when the disaster comes." Without a certain economic foundation and material conditions, it is really not easy to find a wife, especially under the influence of the secular custom of having more men and fewer women, and a hundred million bride gifts are required to reach out. As a man, you must learn to struggle, study hard when you are young, and get into a good school. After graduation, you can find a good job, save a lot of money, and have the corresponding material foundation and economic source, so building a nest and attracting phoenixes can be achieved naturally.
In short, everything has a reason, and it is the same with being single. However, some men have good personalities, families and individual economic foundations, but they just like to live a single life. If you want to get married and don’t be a happy single, then remember the above three points!
