There is a reason why women will continue to fall in the minds of men when they are together.
Or a man’s reason, men experience aesthetic fatigue, men do not know how to cherish after getting it, and men have misunderstandings about women’s words and deeds. In this case, women can put forward their own opinions, and when necessary, take decisive measures to defend their position.
Or reasons for women, women do not know how to cherish, women do not know how to manage themselves, and women are unwilling to assume their responsibilities. Women always bring negative rather than positive effects to men. At this time, women should be awakened and must not let themselves and men get along very "passively".
The following mainly talks about the reasons for women themselves. In the minds of men, I hope you don’t take any of them.
1. Not aggressive and rely too much on men.
When a woman is interacting with a man, she can rely on others, rely on men appropriately, act cute to men appropriately and let men handle some things, and can verify the man's affection for him by asking men to help do something.
However, women should also pay attention to their qualities. If women do not care about their qualities and do not consider their feelings, they rely too much on men and count on men, and rely on men in everything. This will not only cause trouble for men, but also make women constantly lose their price in men's minds.
Women are not enterprising, and some problems within their ability are also expected to be solved by men. This is a "score reduction" for women. Over time, men will lose patience with women, and the image of women in men's mind will be greatly reduced. This direct manifestation is that men will intentionally avoid women and their evaluation of women will be reduced.
2. Complaint against others and do not know how to change.
In life, women encounter some bad things. Whether it is caused by objective reasons or by women's own reasons, women can actively attribute and take an active attitude to deal with the bad things they encounter. The situation changes with the heart, rather than the heart changes with the situation. Women can always show their good cultivation, which is often a plus for women. Such women will have a positive impact on men's lives. Men will look up to such women and will give such women a thumbs up to them.
On the contrary, when a woman encounters bad things, she is unwilling to face reality, and will not make the right reasons. She always shirkes responsibility and blames others. She has never thought about her own reasons, nor has she ever thought that blaming others will not help solve the problem. A woman always follows the situation. When she encounters bad things, she is unhappy, and she will take her anger at will and bring negative emotions to the man.
At the beginning, men may tolerate women in the name of "true love" for the sake of "love", but women always regard men's tolerance as their own "right", often treat men as punching bags and objects to vent negative emotions, and as a result, they often lower their position in men's minds.
3. Indulge in bad habits and evade responsibility.
When getting along with the opposite sex, women dare to "self-improve", women dare to innovate themselves, women dare to improve themselves, women dare to pursue excellence, women dare to shoulder their responsibilities, women dare to challenge bad habits and overcome bad habits to make themselves more perfect, men will naturally admire themselves when they see this, and men will naturally feel that such women are worthy of praise, and women's position in men's mind will naturally be greatly improved.
On the contrary, if a woman is influenced by a "weak culture", she will seek help from others when encountering things, indulge in bad habits without the awareness of staying away from bad habits, lack the courage to overcome bad habits, either indulge in yourself or complain without illness. Such women often appear to be very low, and men will often stay away from them in the end.
