Text/An Dongyue
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There are three main emotions in the world: family, friendship, and love.
From the moment we were born, we have family affection, so we are most familiar with and understand family affection. It can be said that it is a nature and an instinct. After
, we met friendship during our growth. The purest friendship usually appears in youth. At that time, everyone was still very simple and there was not much difference between them. As long as they could play together, they would be good friends. As for how long such friendship can last, it varies from person to person.
Meeting love is often after meeting friendship. Because most love changes from friendship. People who have no friends must have a small social circle, and the chance of meeting love is naturally small. Almost everyone will have the three emotions above
. Even if it is not that perfect, it is certainly no stranger. So, besides the above three emotions, is there a fourth emotion?
The answer is, there is.
Confidant is the fourth emotion.
Meeting a confidant is usually after the mind and mind are fully mature, but not every mature person has the opportunity to meet a confidant.
In fact, very few people have confidants. Because only when people with similar souls meet can they become confidants.
Therefore, it is more appropriate to call the fourth emotion "soul confidant".
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Soul confidant, above friendship and above love.
Most friendships are exchanged for interests, and most loves are worried about gains and losses, but soul confidants do not.
Friendship is for profit, love is for heart, and soul confidants are relationships established by "understanding" as the cornerstone and "sincerity" as the wall.
The word "understand" goes straight to the deepest part of the heart, understand each other, understand each other, and have no distance between the two hearts.
The word "sincerity" allows each other to remove all disguises and all alerts, and face each other with the most authentic self.
Soul confidant is the sublimation of friendship and the transcendence of love.
Many times, the boat of friendship is overturned at any time, and the hurt of love comes at any time, which catches people off guard and is unbearable.
However, among souls and close friends, they have deep feelings and great friendship. They cherish each other and will never betray each other or hurt them.
Soul confidant is the most comfortable relationship.
The feelings between soul confidants are the purest feelings.
Many people look forward to meeting a soul confidant. From now on, some people know the mood, some people understand the joys and sorrows, and some people accompany them.
is just a soul confidant, and there are few in the world. No one knows whether they can meet them or when they will meet them. Everything can only be left to time and destiny.
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has a relationship called soul confidant.
The soul confidant is like tea, with a faint fragrance, warm in your heart, and it will be fresh forever.
Men and women in the world all have ordinary hearts. Men yearn for a confidante, while women yearn for a confidante.
However, it is difficult to meet true confidants and blue confidants in reality, and it is difficult to meet them for a long time. Most of them are pure and beautiful at the beginning, but slowly fall into clichés and develop into ambiguous relationships. In the end, they get tired of each other and no longer contact each other.
A relationship like this is not a true soul confidant. Just do things that are miserable in the name of a confidant.
The true soul confidant, no gender distinction. If you are the opposite sex, both parties will grasp the right position and will never let this relationship fall into clichés.
has some relationships, and it is the best one, not far or near. Just like a confidant of the opposite sex.
People are born lonely, longing to be understood and understood. If you can meet someone who is similar to your soul and become a confidant with him, that is the fate you have cultivated in your previous life and the greatest blessing in this life.
Soul confidant is the most beautiful, precious and rare emotion in the world.
May you have the honor to meet a true soul confidant in this life!
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Author: An Dongyue, a freelance writer, writes heartfelt words with warm strokes, and I wish to meet you in the deepest world. Welcome to follow.
