Author: Wen Qiusheng
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01, introduction
Life is like a painting. Different people paint different colors and contents of the picture.
There is a kind of woman who is too soft and feels like a huge hedgehog. She is always afraid that she will be stinged and her whole body will be tense.
book says: "It is not easy for people who are too soft-hearted to be happy. If others hurt you or you hurt others, you will make you sick in your heart."
Women who are too soft-hearted have one characteristic: "high sensitivity".
"Highly sensitive" women have difficulty relaxing when they get along with others. She will think about the meaning of others' words or a look.
"Highly sensitive" people can make her nervous and anxious when they have little things in life.
is afraid that he will offend someone if he is not careful. It always makes you feel uneasy, dare not express yourself, and dare not refuse others at will.
There is a kind of woman who will live a very tiring life no matter whether she has money or not, that is, a "highly sensitive" person.
02. People who are "highly sensitive" care too much about others' evaluations
There will be different barriers in everyone's inner world.
Some people have a high tolerance for external factors, so when faced with various problems, they will first choose to accept them and will not care too much about other people's evaluations.
will also have some "highly sensitive" people. They will always pay special attention to other people's evaluations because they are afraid of being offended, hoping to get more affirmation.
The more a person cares about other people’s opinions, the more likely he is to lose his true heart and nature, the more he will be unable to see who is the true heart to him.
An Lingrong in " The Legend of Zhen Huan ", after entering the palace, he had a good relationship with Zhen Huan and Shen Meizhuang .
However, once, she felt resentful and estranged because she heard some of the comments from the two of them about her.
Zhen Huan and Mei Zhuang have been together since childhood. Their deep friendship is beyond the reach of others. It is normal for human beings to be a little cautious about An Lingrong.
However, An Lingrong cared too much about other people's opinions and felt that they would not be in the same mind as him. In the end, he chose to be enemies with them and surrendered to the Queen.
In fact, the Queen did not really do it for her good, but used her to become a tool for her own rule of the six palaces and eradicate dissidents.
When An Lingrong paid the price, she gradually realized that Zhen Huan and Shen Mei were people who were really good to her. They regretted what they did, but it was too late.
"Highly sensitive" women always attach too much importance to others' bad reviews of themselves, which will affect their mood.
"Highly sensitive" women will live very tired because they care too much about other people's opinions.
is better to be more open-minded. Women are brave enough to be themselves and don’t care too much about other people’s eyes.
is within a reasonable and legal scope, and it is enough to achieve what you want, without explaining too much to irrelevant people. If you learn unpleasant words and don’t listen to them, you will feel much happier.
03. People with "high sensitivity" emotions are easily affected by the outside world
Orison Maden wrote in " Lifetime Capital ": "At any time, a person should not be a slave to his own emotions, and should not let all actions be subject to his own emotions, but should control his emotions in turn."
A person's emotions are actually an alarm. It tells us that boundaries are violated and it will be very uncomfortable, but sometimes, the problem may not be serious.
"Highly sensitive" women are more likely to be complicated.
If a woman cannot control her emotions well, she will complicate simple things.
Originally, a small matter can be resolved by apologizing. However, an overly intense attitude will make things move in an uncontrollable direction and make yourself busier and busier.
"Highly sensitive" women are sentimental, moody, and are prone to missing beautiful things and beautiful scenery around them.
When encountering unsatisfactory things, a "highly sensitive" woman must first calm herself down, not let her emotions control her brain, do not think randomly, and amplify sadness and pain.
Learn to treat things rationally, sort out your emotions well, and tell yourself: "It's nothing, I can handle it well."
"Highly sensitive" women will live a more relaxed life if they can learn to encourage and accept themselves.
04. People who are "highly sensitive" are prone to amplification of difficulties
Life is like a maze. Before finding the end, they will always walk many forks. In the face of setbacks on the road of life, we must firmly be determined to find the end so that we can defeat difficulties.
A "highly sensitive" woman is facing a sesame-sized thing, but she is facing a great enemy.
For example: if you do something wrong, you will constantly consider the serious consequences, scare yourself, and may even be on the verge of collapse.
"Highly sensitive" women always have thousands of knots in their hearts. One wave has not yet settled, and one wave has risen again and again. They feel depressed, and even think about giving up their life.
Women are too sensitive and always addicted to negative emotions, which will cause self-interference and consume their positive energy bit by bit.
"Highly sensitive" women will make their lives very painful. If you cannot reconcile with yourself and become stronger, you cannot find the true happiness of life.
Woman, if you are a "highly sensitive" person, when you encounter difficulties, you should actively encourage yourself, build your self-confidence, try to get out of the predicament, and let your resilience grow better.
When a woman can try to face some things on her own, it is a kind of courage. Success or failure will not be too important, and all experiences will become your precious wealth.
05, Send a message to hiding autumn sounds
Canoe wrote in "The Stars in Deep Love": "Even if the whole world does not love you, at least you can still love yourself."
Highly sensitive people should not care too much about other people's ideas, but should be firm in yourself and strengthen yourself.
Don’t care too much about other people’s opinions, no one knows yourself better than you. Try to live according to your heart and get out of the shackles that bind you. Standing in the sunshine, regain confidence.
Woman, you must learn to be strong. Even if you discover your shortcomings and slowly encourage yourself, you will gradually get out of the fatigue of self-expenditure.
You will find that you are not tired after overcoming difficulties, you are always "highly sensitive".
In fact, many people and many things have nothing to do with you at all. Why bother with me? You should learn to let go and ignore it.
It is more important than anything else for a woman to maintain a good mood. Constantly challenge yourself and cheer yourself up. Trying to restore inner peace and balance, you will live a more relaxed and open-minded life and show more smiles on your face.
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About the author: Hearing the autumn voice, making a living by writing. The autumn wind boils rain, a glass of sake, a story of three or two, and you are with you on the lonely road.
