What is marriage?
1944, Zhang Ailing’s “ Talk about Women ” also had this sentence: Marriage is the grave of love.
Jia Pingwa There is a saying that is absolutely true: "Marriage is a cooperation, there is no need to make love.
"The Siege" writes: Marriage is like a siege. People outside the siege want to come in, and people in the siege want to go out.
Life is destined to be a hard work, don't expect marriage to be sweet
Life is destined to be a hard work, don't expect marriage to be sweet
l0 Those marriages that can be together forever are not without disputes, but regard marriage as the ship of joint practice. Both parties know that once destroyed, no one can get ashore safely.
After the college entrance examination, a girl said to her mother: Mom, why do you divorce dad!
Mother was surprised: Why did you have such a proposal? I want to hear your thoughts."
The girl nodded calmly and told the story:
"Mom, as long as I can remember, you and dad have always had all kinds of disputes. No matter big or small, no matter right or wrong, dad always can't get along with you. And you always keep his word with him and give in to him in everything. I know you are for this family, but I feel tired for such a marriage.
Now that I have grown up, you can choose the life you want to live according to your own wishes in the future, and I will not object to divorce.
However, in the end, you will decide for yourself.
Although I don’t understand what the essence of marriage should be, if it comes to my marriage status like you and my father, I will definitely not choose when I choose a marriage in the future.”
So many people respect love, but in the end they are discouraged by marriage
After hearing this, the girl’s mother did not rush to answer her daughter’s words, but was silent for a long time.
"Child, your father has many shortcomings. Every time he is inconsiderate and every time he is tit-for-tat, I don't know how many times I have the idea of wanting to divorce. But when I calm down, I feel that I still want to live with him. Maybe this is how marriage is.
Just like, people are destined to be a hard work at birth. Isn't it an unrealistic fantasy to expect marriage to be sweet? "
" The girl nodded, but then shook her head.
She still doesn’t understand very well. Why do she still have to settle down even though she is so aggrieved?
But after hearing what my mother said, I felt that it made some sense.
The other party always can’t get along with you, you still want to keep going along with him. This is marriage!
But she finally understood why so many people always respect love but end up being discouraged from marriage.
If you have not practiced to a certain level of love, who would dare to step into the threshold of marriage!
Life is destined to be a tragedy, don’t expect how sweet your marriage is.
The other party always can’t get along with you, you still want to keep living with him, maybe it’s like marriage!
