The man is not a billionaire, and there is no gold mine at home, nor is he a bank. How can he take out a bride price of hundreds of thousands or even millions at once? Therefore, it is also one of the very important reasons that the woman has no family at an advanced age.
Look, my father-in-law has an older single woman at home, who is my wife's cousin, who is 30 years old this year. The marriage problem is due to the two problems mentioned above. I have too high vision and have too much bride gifts at home, which leads to the fact that I can't get married in the countryside.
The daughter of her family is the same age as her. She got married at the age of 20. Now she has two to three children, and at least one child has given birth to one child. Some girls of the same age have gotten married early and their children are already in elementary school.
Therefore, this aunt in my family is not young and did not talk about her boyfriend before she was 29 years old. She also feels that her youth has passed. Due to her physical maturity, her desire for marriage, and her expectations for her future family, she always wants to have a cute little baby. She is extremely eager, so she really wants to say goodbye to being single one day earlier, get married earlier, have a home of her own, and have a cute child.
My father-in-law, when talking about his daughter's marriage, threatened that when his daughter got married, she would receive a bride price of 880,000 yuan, which would be 660,000 yuan less. Don't even think about it.
This sentence is transmitted from ten to ten, and ten to hundreds of people. People in the hometown basically know this situation. First, the woman has a high vision and is very picky. Second, her parents have to have too high bride price, which is divorced from the reality of the countryside. No young man dares to propose marriage and matchmaking, which leads to no one taking care of her before the age of 29.
Last year, she and her parents changed their thinking and practices, and their eyes were very low-key. They believed that as long as they have good character and can earn money to support their families, they would give their brides at will when they get married, and their parents took the initiative to entrust the matchmaker to say the matchmaker.
Because of the desire for marriage, the matchmaker introduced the first young man. The sister-in-law and her family were full of joy. They immediately agreed to the marriage. Based on rural habits, they found a fortune teller to calculate. The birth dates and horoscopes of both men and women are very consistent and are scheduled to get married on the 5th of the eighth day of August 4 this year.
After my sister-in-law got married, she has only been more than two months since she got married, and she has had a big fuss with her husband to divorce. The villagers around her are very confused, and relatives and friends are also very concerned.
She is 30 years old this year and finally got married. In addition to being thin, the man is a talented person, has a very good character, is eloquent, has a lot of education in his studies, and has the skills to make money. Why are the two of them not compatible? Is there no fate?
My father-in-law and mother-in-law also firmly disagree with the divorce of their daughter and son-in-law. The girl receives a bride gift at least 100,000 yuan when she gets married, and her daughter only receives 40,000 yuan when she gets married. Such a good son-in-law will divorce after two months of marriage, and she will never agree to her daughter's request.
Parents also engage in many relatives and friends to persuade their daughter, but there is no effect at all. The daughter ran directly from her in-laws' house to live, and she refused to live in her in-laws' house.
Parents are very concerned about their daughter not to divorce, thinking that it is too difficult for her to get married. In addition, she is old and is already 30 years old and has not given birth. As the saying goes in the rural area, "A person has no descendants after 30 years old." In other words, if a person is over 30 years old, he will not have another child and is worried about the child's childbirth problem.
parents persuaded them with great sincerity and finally pried open the girl's mouth. She said that she is 30 years old and that the purpose of her marriage in this life is enough to just have one or two children. After two months of marriage, her husband has a reason for his health and is very thin and he doesn't want to touch her.
As the saying goes, "A newlywed is like a tiger", but he is very incompetent. Now he is like a brother and sister every night. It is indeed a very difficult thing to make her want a woman who wants a child alone and stay lonely alone, let alone she wants to have a child. How is it possible?
After she told her parents about the reason for the divorce, she burst into tears, and she burst into tears, crying like tears, and her parents' hearts softened. The two old men burst into tears, and then shook their heads with sighs and allowed their daughter to divorce, and agreed to her find another suitable young man to marry and live a life as soon as possible.
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