: In the first marriage, widowed, and in the second marriage, violence is suffered again. Why is this woman's life so miserable! ! I am very sorry now, why didn’t I read more books or learn more legal knowledge? If I understand, I wouldn’t ask people everywhere now.
The woman with a poor life in the article is my sister (cousin). My cousin lives in a family that favors boys over girls. She was born in 1982. Her parents have a serious mindset over girls. In addition, the family’s financial conditions are not good, so she dropped out of school early, only elementary school education, and went out to work at a very young age. She is a typical example of parents who are not close to each other and uncles do not love them. So I was afraid that I could not handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law well, so I chose a fatherless man to get married.
When she got married, her life was pretty good. The couple was very loving and gave birth to a child. After having a child, she took care of the child full time. However, the accident suddenly came and her husband died unexpectedly and received only 20,000 yuan in compensation. For her at that time, it was a bolt from the blue, because the child was just 78 years old, and she had no savings on her hands, and her ex-husband’s parents were no longer there, so she needed to raise the child alone.
In the next few years, she was also very successful. She didn't rely on anyone. She took care of her children while working and sent her children to school. Although life was very hard, it was still acceptable. After 5 years, she met her current husband (the mother-in-law had passed away before remarriage, and a 707-year-old father-in-law was left). She thought that her happiness had come, so she remarried with her children. After remarriage, she had another child with her husband and began to look forward to a happy life in the future.
But the good times didn't last long, and the man's ugly face slowly appeared. He often used verbal violence to my sister, and his attitude was very bad. He often scolded her for some trivial matter.
Start to instruct my sister, if you don’t make money, just bear it first. There is no big conflict. It is also possible that my sister was at home to take care of her children a few years ago, and she had no income. People who make money will always feel a little emotional. However, after my sister went to work, she did not change any changes, and she cursed her more and more fiercely (I didn’t have so much thought to him after I went to work), so he would scold him and attack him whenever he was not happy. He had been married for 4 years and had divorced for more than three years.
After the second marriage, the eldest son still lives in the former home of his ex-husband. The youngest son is at the man's house in the second marriage (after the second marriage, the man never asks his eldest son to live with him, and never takes his eldest son to spend the New Year and holidays). Instead, he will have an unhappy relationship because of giving his eldest son tuition and living expenses, and often quarrels and complains about the son who has a son with his ex-husband. It can only be said that the eldest son is afraid of his stepfather.
Now the eldest son is over 15 years old and the younger son is over 3 years old. The man is currently quarreling with the woman every day. If he doesn't go to divorce, he can call him every day, and he can't go to the class. Moreover, the man has the intention to not want to raise his younger son, so he can take care of the woman. (I know that my sister is more than 1,000 yuan a month without the financial strength to support two), and the sister may give up custody, so he told her that if she doesn't take her away, she will have to pay 2,000 yuan a month for her child support. If she wants to leave, she can buy half a month of vegetables or half a month of food expenses every month (my sister doesn't usually eat at the man's house, so she gives up the food expenses...).
My sister’s job is unstable, and her monthly salary may be only 1,000 yuan, and she may not have any income at any time (the business is not good during the epidemic, and she has half a month off for the first half of the month). Her eldest son is still in junior high school and needs to be raised. She also needs to live and she has no ability or energy to raise her. However, she can’t live this life and will definitely have to divorce her marriage, so she asks everywhere what to do? In this case, can the child support of her youngest son not be paid for the time being? There is really no such ability at the moment. .
This woman's life is really hard. .
