It is no exaggeration to say that more than 90% of men in marriage have cheated, but their cheating has a variety of forms, some have been discovered, some have hidden it well, and have been hidden from their wives from beginning to end.
However, no matter how well hidden it is and how clean the tail is, men's cheating can still be judged from their behavior, especially men in the early stages of cheating. These two behaviors will change, and you can find it by careful observation.
Like to sleep on the sofa
Cats who have stole fish will not be able to control themselves from stealing fish again, and will even show anorexia to some foods they like to eat before.
Men who cheated are like stealing a fishy cat, will no longer be interested in their wives and no longer have the urge to get close to them. They will choose to stay away from their wives because of their guilt and refuse to have sex.
The most obvious thing about a man who cheats is that he likes to sleep on the sofa. It seems that the sofa suddenly becomes better than the bed. In fact, it is not because the man’s guilt and disgust for his wife make the man like to do this.
Don’t doubt, a cheating man will really have a disgust towards his wife, and this disgust will become more stable as his relationship with his lover becomes. After a man cheats, in order to balance his heart and reduce his guilt, they will find shortcomings in their partners and infinitely amplify the shortcomings of their partners.
It seems that just to tell others that his wife is not good, he will cheat.
There is another reason why a man likes to sleep on the sofa is that he is emotionally loyal to his lover, or the shameless thing between him and his lover makes him savor. The sofa is the best place for them to recall, and it is also a place where they are more likely to let go of their hearts to accept the fact that they cheat.
To put it bluntly, after the man cheated, the sofa became a turtle shell that he hid at home.
So, if wives find that their husbands often go home at night, choose to sleep on the sofa after they go home, or choose to sleep on the sofa late, and finally go to bed on the sofa, then you have more thoughts.
This man is probably not clean anymore.
phone number will no longer be called
In the eyes of those who love you, the phone number seems to be activated for you. Your message or phone number is often called and replied as soon as you go. Never delay, even if you are busy for a while, you will call you back to the message as soon as possible.
A man who starts a family will also keep his phone number for his wife, which is the most direct way of communication. If one day, you find that your husband's phone number is no longer connected and the information is no longer returned, please believe your intuition. This man is secretly changing, and there may be the person in his heart who lets him answer the phone at any time.
People's emotions cannot be compatible with multiple people at the same time. When one person lives in their hearts, others cannot walk in. However, feelings are the easiest to change. When another person enters the heart, then this heart will no longer be attached to the person they originally fell in love with. Not only will they not be attached, but they will also feel disgusted.
The phone number of a cheating man is the most difficult to dial, and this is the most profound experience for women who have experienced cheating.
Many men in the early stage of cheating choose not to answer their wife's calls in order to avoid their wives. When they see their wives, they just don't answer their calls. Faced with his wife's accusations, they turned around and thought that his wife did not trust them and always called to check the post.
In a word, once a man cheats, he will have more fallacies and become smarter. Of course, this kind of intelligence is only when facing his wife, because he needs this kind of "smart" to suppress his wife.
So, if the husband doesn't answer the phone more and more times, and he still finds various excuses to conceal the reason for not answering the phone, then don't doubt it, this man is likely to have changed his mind.
conclusion
Men's cheating is divided into three phases: morning, middle and late. Those who can be restrained are in the early stage. If they are discovered early in the early stage and have methods to intervene, there are still a small number of people who can bring them back.
Of course, once a man cheats, he will not be able to get back. They will have to go through three periods of morning, noon and late before they will return completely, or file for divorce in the middle period.
Although a cheating man is no longer worthy of love and no longer worth paying for, marriage is different from love, and it cannot be said that if you don’t want it, just don’t want it. Therefore, if you discover changes in your husband’s behavior in the early stage, you can save it, even for the sake of the beauty of the past.
found that her husband started to love to sleep on the sofa, and the phone number was no longer connected. Let’s put down the work and pay attention to this man. Maybe your care can change your mind. Even if you can't change your mind, you can't be the fool who is kept in the dark.