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In gender relationships, in many cases, men handle feelings or express feelings, the way they are not as delicate as women, and there are not so many twists and turns.
They will be extremely obvious if they like someone or don’t like someone, and you don’t have to guess.
If he likes you, he will make you feel that he doesn’t like you.
is just a lot of times when a woman’s inner drama is too rich, it is too easy to over-interpret and even be self-indulgent, which leads to misunderstandings of the man’s true thoughts, and thus causes misunderstandings, causing harm to themselves in vain.
If you want to know if a man is interested in you, you only need to read two words to know, because the most direct way for a man to not love a person is these two words: ignore it.
1: Ignoring it means that you are irrelevant to him
When a man always ignores you, is indifferent to your kindness, and turns a blind eye, it only means that you are not important to him at all, basically equivalent to an unnecessary existence, and he doesn't even want to pretend.
You should know that men are a creature that is afraid of trouble.
They are afraid of transmitting the wrong signal to you, making you foolishly think that he has something to you, and then hold him from now on, so they simply ignore you and ignore you directly.
You may feel very hurt and feel that he is rude and polite, but on the contrary, he does it so ruthlessly for your own good.
Compared to lying to you, I reject you directly and not let you waste too much feelings and thoughts, but rather a kindness and kindness.
2: Ignoring it means you are not worthy of his wasting any time and feelings
People have always only waste time and feelings on the people and things they care about, because even if it is a process of giving, they will feel extremely happy.
On the contrary, if you don’t care about someone, even if you are really free and really bored, you won’t be with the other person. Because he will feel uncomfortable and not worth it, he would rather be alone quietly.
Women who fall in love with a man usually become very brave and proactive.
But when you ask a man out again and again and all of them are rejected without exception, you should know that it is not that he does not have time, he does not want to waste time on you.
is not worth it, not worth it, and it is also unnecessary. Since you don’t like you, just reject you and ignore you, so as to save you from having too many dreams.
This is the brain circuit of men. They can't think so much. They have always been so frank and direct, so you really don't have to be self-indulgent.
3: Ignoring means that you have no place in his heart, just like transparent
A man ignores you means that you have no place in his heart, he regards you as a transparent person and does not care about your feelings at all. It’s not that he has no qualities, but that he simply has no interest in you and has no feelings.
In Jane Austen 's " Pride and Prejudice ", Mr. Bentley's sister likes Darcy . She has liked her for a long time, but Mr. Darcy is in love with Elizabeth , so she never cares about her.
Even if she takes the initiative to talk to Mr. Darcy, Mr. Darcy will choose to go there perfunctorily.
He is such a well-educated gentleman, and he is still like this when facing people he doesn't like, let alone an ordinary man.
Sometimes, men reject a woman's way of being too direct, not because they are uneducated, but because they are too well-educated. Instead of giving the other party some unrealistic hope and letting her blindly give without results, it is better to let her stop the loss in time and find another good person.
This is much better than those men who use each other and play with each other's feelings.
Women should remember that the most direct way for men to not love you is to ignore you.
ignores it. Although these two words are cruel, they can also make you understand instantly that he has no feelings for you. Don’t waste too much time and feelings on the wrong person. There is no need and no result. It’s better to look back in time and take back this love.
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