In the past, I always felt that my family was still struggling in pain. I did not play the role of a savior. I pulled them out of the abyss of pain and solved their life problems, economic problems, and spiritual problems. I was not qualified to contact the world they could not reach, nor were I qualified to be happy, nor were I qualified to be happy. But at the same time, I was depressed and had no change of action. I would only rely on my brain to fantasize about the future, fantasizing that one day I would become the one who stepped on the colorful auspicious clouds to help them get rid of all suffering. But after all, I was fantasy. If I could not raise my action, everything was zero.
I saw an article today. It turns out that this kind of feeling that existed before is to become a savior other than yourself. The screenshot is as follows:
After learning and knowing some problems by yourself, I always want to change my relatives around me through various ways, but in the end I found that everything seemed to be futile.
we are already hurt. Our energy is not enough to save ourselves, and people who are not strong enough have almost exhausted all their strength and spirit. We have no strength to bear more hurt from others on ourselves, even if we are close relatives and most beloved.
When I saw these pictures, I saw what kind of burden and pressure the saving psychology caused by myself. It is better to live at this moment, be yourself and save yourself well. When I have the spare energy, what is overflowing can truly be replenished to others.
Explain that these pictures are excerpted from the Internet, I hope they can also produce some new ideas and thoughts for you.
