Friends are a wealth in our lives. Good friends can be your life mentors, guiding you in the direction of progress, bringing you happiness, and sharing joy...
But in the journey of life, many friends will gradually get farther and farther away because there are more important things to do. They are busy every day and have no time to maintain their feelings like before.
A friendship requires the joint efforts of both parties. Once one party does not feel the response, it will be difficult to maintain this friendship.
Everyone can only accompany each other for a journey. During this journey, when someone wants to get off the bus, we should smile and wave goodbye.
Because the past time was beautiful, no matter what the future will be, we will give the other party the best blessing. There are three signs of slowly alienation among friends:
- There are fewer and fewer chats between friends, which is a sign of slowly alienation
In life, no matter what happens, we will be the first to share with friends, happy things, sad things, interesting things... big and small things will have a strong desire to share. And almost every time we share, we get a response, which makes us feel that this sharing is very meaningful.
Friends will have dinner together from time to time. On the dining table, you can speak freely and talk, tell the other party about what happened recently, and also understand the other party’s life through communication.
But once there are fewer and fewer chats between friends, it means that there is no common topic, no desire to share, and no desire to ask about the other party's situation, so you simply don't contact and don't chat, and slowly fade out of the other party's life. When we meet in the future, we will say hello and greet you, just like ordinary acquaintances, as if the people who used to talk about everything are already very far away.
- Friends have started to look for various reasons to swear a date, which is a sign of slowly being distant
Friends have no job and during the holidays, they like to make an appointment to play together, go shopping, watch movies, playgrounds... There are countless entertainment projects, as long as two people stay together, they can always find fun.
During the play, you can relax and increase your friendship. However, when one of the people began to frequently look for various reasons to shirk dating, the relationship between the two people changed.
Once or twice may be accidental, but they rejected it every time. That is because another person wants to get out of this friendship. This relationship makes her feel uncomfortable and burdened. If this continues, the two will gradually become alienated.
is like, you invite the other person to play happily, thinking about the other person at all times, but others are wondering what kind of reason to reject you.
- 3Friends begin to draw a clear line between friends and be petty, which is a sign of slowly being distant
Although a certain distance should be kept during the interaction between people, distance should be kept, and distance creates beauty, good friends generally do not distinguish them so clearly.
will introduce her to her family and treat her like a relative. She also knows her parents. She usually looks like buying and giving it to her when she goes on business or shopping. She will also treat her the same way.
You will be clear about major events. You generally don’t care about small things, and you won’t care about losses. You will never have any disputes over money.
When two people start to be petty and draw a clear line, this friendship has actually changed from before, and there are cracks, which are signs of slowly alienation.
Neither of each other is willing to accommodate, do not want to suffer losses, nor do they understand each other, then this friendship will break down sooner or later.
Life is to make new friends while losing some friends.
has accumulated a lot of experience in making friends in the past, so some of the friends I met later can quickly establish a friendship relationship and can also be easily used in communication and communication. It will not be like before, because it is not understanding enough and not tolerant enough, and often creates friction.
Summary:
Everyone you meet in life is meaningful. She does not appear in your life for no reason. She will teach you something more or less, and it will also be meaningful to your future life.
Therefore, we must treat everyone who appears in life with care. Even if a friendship cannot last until old age, when we recall it in the future, we will miss the beauty of the past.
Thanks to those friends for appearing, because with them, you won’t feel so lonely and feel that you are caring for.
People with good friends will definitely understand a feeling, that is, when introducing their friends to others, they will feel a sense of pride, and they feel that friends are their own treasures, and they want to show off to the whole world that they have such good friends.
But even though the friendship was beautiful, after getting married and starting a business, everyone became very busy, with fewer contacts, and only a handful of meetings were discussed together.
gradually becomes distant. When you have already felt that a relationship has become distant, there is actually no need to recover it. You should let go and wish your friends a good life.
