Many people always like to test their partner to verify the other person’s love for themselves. Some people also verify their love for their partner by asking the people around them.
In fact, loving this thing is like drinking water, you know the warmth and coldness. People in it actually understand the most. Many people just pretend to be confused because they understand it.
People nowadays are very good at disguising, especially some masters in love, who are even more disguised. However, they can disguise their appearance, but their inner feelings cannot deceive people.
If a man often gives you this feeling while getting along, then he must not be your good match. It is better to break up with him earlier, otherwise he will get deeper and deeper in the future, and he will be even more unable to let go at that time.
1: Feeling of disappointment
Love always brings hope and beauty to people. When two people fall in love, they will start planning the future and plan each other into their own future plans.
But once there is a problem with the relationship, some people like to rely on lies to maintain it, but lies are lies after all, and they will only wipe out each other's trust again and again, bringing you endless disappointment.
Even if it is a very simple thing, the other party can't do it if they agree. It's better not to agree. You give your all with anticipation, but the other party's actions make you more and more disappointed.
You think your efforts can be exchanged for his sincerity and will make him turn back, but the result is that you will be covered in bruises and if you are much disappointed, you will no longer have hope and lose your expectations for love and beauty.
It is a very terrible thing to be with such a person. It will not only consume the relationship between you, but also make you negative.
To put it bluntly, those who make you feel very disappointed often don’t love you so much, because a person who loves you will not let you down often. He will try his best to take good care of your little emotions. When you meet someone who makes you often disappoint, break up decisively and let yourself meet someone who really cares about you.
2: The feeling of fatigue
Love is very beautiful, and beautiful love often makes people feel very physical and mentally happy.
If you encounter something happier, you will feel that time passes very quickly. On the contrary, if you are experiencing some difficult times, you will feel that time passes very slowly.
If a man is with you, he will make you feel very tired and physically and mentally exhausted, then the other person is not as beautiful as he imagined.
Even if he really likes you, he obviously has some big flaws in some aspects, at least he is immature in his psychological state.
Just having love is not suitable for being together. Marriage is more often a combination of all aspects. If two people get along, the other party often makes you feel very tired. Even if your relationship is not bad now, you will sooner or later.
Instead of torture and consume each other, it is better to let go and start a new life as soon as possible.
For example, there are some people who like to control their partner, and then they are suspicious every day, wanting to live with each other every day, making their partner very tired. If you encounter such people, stay away.
If the other person makes you feel very tired and even makes you feel self-doubted, this kind of person is not a good match. It is better to separate early, otherwise you will live more and more depressed.
3: Insecure
There is a saying that goes, there is no peaceful time in this world, it’s just that someone is carrying the burden on you, and the one who loves you will give silently for you, support a sky for you, and block the wind, frost, snow and rain outside for you.
This is actually what many people call a sense of security.
Sense of security is a feeling of peace of mind, a feeling that you can return to a child without having to think about complicated things, someone can rely on.
But if the other party is with you, he always makes you feel anxious, and he always makes all kinds of random thoughts every day, and always makes some very controversial behaviors. Such a relationship needs to be re-measured.
For example, some people are disconnected from other opposite sexes, or are too close to other opposite sexes. Such people are most likely not good matches. Even if they have nothing to do with others, their behavior has deeply hurt their lover.
also proves that he is very selfish and will not consider your feelings. He neglects you to perfunctorily. In the long run, you will be physically and mentally exhausted, and it will also make you lose your fantasy and expectations for love.
People like this are not worth your waste of youth. Instead of torture each other, it is better to leave early.
Beautiful love makes people full of expectations and fantasies, but at the same time it makes people fear.
Because once the wrong person occurs, it is a disaster, but we cannot not pursue love just because we are afraid of failure. As long as you give sincerely, you will always meet the person who loves you.
Of course, when you find that the other party is not a good match, you should also choose to withdraw in time. Don’t let yourself get deeper and deeper because of some hesitation, and don’t weave a beautiful dream for yourself to deceive yourself.
