Once saw a question on Zhihu: How can we see the most real person? There is a highly praised answer below
: It depends on his attitude when doing things and his reaction when encountering things.
is indeed the case. Our life is actually to deal with all kinds of people and deal with big and small things. A person’s reaction when encountering things demonstrates his ability, character and cultivation.
Small things test patience, difficult things test mentality, and big things test ability. Whether a person lives well depends entirely on whether he can withstand the test when facing these three things.
The best ability of a person is to do small things well, survive difficult things, and achieve great things quietly.
Do small things well
Haier Group CEO Zhang Ruimin said: "Doing every simple thing well is not simple; doing every ordinary thing well is extraordinary."
is indeed the case. Every seemingly not simple or extraordinary thing is actually composed of seemingly inconspicuous little things.
Do small things well and you can achieve extraordinary results.
At the Dragon Boat Festival Gala in Henan last year, the dancer He Haohao amazed the audience with his dance "Prayer" and received countless praises. Even the spokesperson of the Ministry of Foreign Affairs praised it.
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Three minutes on the stage, ten years of hard work off the stage, He Haohao has made a lot of unknown efforts behind the scenes.
If you want to achieve the best shooting effect, she needs to shoot hundreds of underwater dance videos first.
Photography and lighting must be debugged. Every action and expression cannot be missed and needs to be pondered repeatedly.
But the most difficult thing is that under the influence of water resistance, you must not only ensure that you are not entangled by streamers, but also have smooth movements and relaxed expressions. On the day of shooting at
, He Haohao put on makeup and went into water at 10 a.m. In order to present the best dance effect, many movements were filmed at least five or six times. By the end of two a.m., her eyes were covered with red blood.
Every beautiful curve cannot be separated from her careful polishing of details.
Just as netizens commented: Suddenly becoming popular in the circle must be stunning enough; enough being stunning must be countless efforts.
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Rome was not built in one day, and tall buildings cannot rise up on the ground. Only by doing small things well and laying a solid foundation can it be possible to build the tall buildings in your heart.
Most of the time, when we face some trivial things, we always habitually ignore them, but we don’t know that the more inconspicuous points, the more likely they are to become an ant hole that defeats the dam of thousands of miles.
Doing small things well is not only a good behavioral habit, but also a life attitude that is not too ambitious.
The ancients said: Without accumulating small steps, you cannot reach a thousand miles; without accumulating small streams, you cannot form a river and sea.
When you no longer fantasize about reaching the top in one step, learn to look at the present and do every little thing well, success will naturally encounter you unexpectedly.
survived the hardship
Murakami Haruki Before becoming a famous writer, he had an unknown experience.
In order to make a living, he and his wife opened a jazz store together.
But he still has no money every day, and his debt-ridden life makes him and his wife breathless.
Even if they have to get up early and go to bed late every day, their family is still poor, and there is not even a single basic electrical appliance. In the most difficult winter, he and his wife can only hold together with the kitten at home to keep warm.
But those difficult days did not make him lose his fighting spirit. Later, Haruki Murakami had the idea of writing novels. Every day after finishing the store, he dragged his tired body back home at night, huddled on the small kitchen table, and wrote novels in the dim light. Every time he fell asleep, it was already late at night.
This day and night life took Haruki Murakami to finally survive that most difficult period, become a world-renowned novelist, and usher in a glorious period in his life.
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Kazuo Inamori once said: "Suffering will not end, of course luck will not last forever. Don't forget when you are proud, don't be depressed when you are frustrated, and work hard every day. This is more important than anything else."
Life has a rise and fall, and there are always times when you turn over. Once you have to endure, you can see a different scenery.
Just like Haruki Murakami later won the recognition of professional awards, he wrote in the article: "From my senses, I have become stronger than before, and seem to have increased some wisdom. So I really want to tell you that although it is very difficult now, this experience may bear fruit in the future."
Starlight will only shine when it is dark. When you are in the dark, you might as well think from another perspective:
Every experience has its meaning. If you are deeply trapped in the mud, try to pile these mud into steps to help you move upwards and then climb up.
Only by suffering from varying degrees of suffering can we realize its sweetness when happiness comes; only by experiencing hardships can we cultivate our mind and improve ourselves.
Hard grit your teeth, hold on, get through, and you will win.
quid achievement of great things
Qing Dynasty 3 imperial teacher Weng Tonghe , once wrote in the couplet: "Every time you encounter great things, you will have calmness, and you don't believe that there are no ancient sages in this day."
From ancient times to the present, those who can achieve great things have calmness, so that they can always maintain the ability to remain calm in the face of danger.
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I have heard of this story:
A company recruits radio operators, but the interview method is very strange. A code sound is played in the loudspeaker in the reception room, and the first person who translates code will be hired.
You can see that young people in the living room have become impetuous because they have been waiting for too long. Some people chat with others, and some people's thoughts have already floated out of the sky. There is only one person sitting quietly in the corner, listening carefully to the sound of the code in the amplifier.
This person was the last candidate. After his interview, the manager looked at him and announced loudly: "Today he was the only one who heard the sound of the loudspeaker's code, so please come back."
Only then did the others realize that they had lost to their own impetuousness today.
When a person faces major events, if he wants to gain something and let the situation develop in the direction he expects, he must remain calm.
As said in "University ": "You can be at ease when you are calm, you can think when you are at ease, and you can get when you are at ease."
People who truly achieve great things can be calm and calm in the face of danger no matter how big things are.
Yang Jiang once said: "A person has experienced different degrees of training and has different degrees of cultivation and benefits."
Everything we face in our lives is to practice us to varying degrees, allowing us to continue to grow and move forward continuously.
A person’s reaction and attitude when facing things determine the height of his life.
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Be more patient and do small things well to reduce failures;
Be stronger, only by enduring difficult things can you see the rainbow;
Calm down and think about big things clearly can you have a life without regrets.
The road is long, if you do these three things well, your life will be smooth.
I hope that in this era of the world, we can deal with everything calmly and create more and better possibilities for the unchanging life.
