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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional instructor, who writes heart-wrenching emotional texts, hoping to bring you some spiritual comfort with warm words.
A colleague around me asked: "How to judge whether a woman has an extramarital affair?"
In fact, once a woman has an extramarital affair, her words and deeds will be different from the past. You can see the abnormality with a little attention.
Especially middle-aged women, if they have feelings outside of marriage, what they say after they come back will definitely be different, basically all of which are disgusting and accusations.
The reason is very simple. If middle-aged women have been working hard for many years, they have not received the reward they deserve, or are disappointed in their marriage and have no confidence to maintain it, and they will start to complain.
In their opinion, men have not met the expectations in their hearts and feel that they cannot see hope, which will naturally breed a lot of boredom.
So, they will naturally scold you and blame you, always feeling that you are not as good as others and have almost no good expression to you.
In this case, the words they say will definitely be very cold and make you feel uncomfortable.
It can be seen that when a woman has an extramarital relationship, she will no longer be polite to you. All the words she says have become the idiom to scold you. This is the result of betrayal.
After all, middle-aged women who have extramarital affairs often say these words all the time, which is difficult to control.
1: "I knew you were so useless, and I would never marry anyone."
A woman is middle-aged and once she has feelings outside of marriage, she will not have any expectations for you, and what is in exchange for is disgust and complaints.
In her heart, you have no value at all and cannot give her the happiness she wants. She always feels that marrying you is not worth it.
Therefore, when a middle-aged woman comes back, the most common thing she says to you is: "If I had known that you were so useless, I would not marry you if anyone would marry you." The sentence
fully demonstrates her attitude towards you. has long denied you and doesn't want to continue with you .
If you refute a few words, she will definitely make trouble with you, and even point at the nose and scold you, which will make you feel ashamed.
No matter whether you have achieved success or not, she feels that you are not outstanding enough, especially compared to men outside of marriage, you are thousands of miles apart.
So, if a man finds that middle-aged women often say this, he must understand that she must not love you anymore, and most likely she has an extramarital relationship.
Just imagine, how could a woman who truly loves you say such words that hurt you? If she loves you deeply, even if you have not achieved anything, she will understand and support you.
Only when a woman no longer loves you and has other feelings will she completely deny you and will no longer feel pity for you.
Whether you are tired from work or making money is hard, she doesn't care about it at all, let alone understand your difficulties. As long as you see you, you will be unable to help but scold you.
In fact, when a woman reaches middle age, she can no longer see hope for the future. She will vent all her grievances and dissatisfactions on you.
When she is intimate with an extramarital man, she has better protection and is more loved. She will not pay attention to you when she comes back. thinks it is not worth marrying you, and she is basically as strange as you .
2: "I haven't lived a good life with you, what's your future?"
A woman has reached middle age and has worked hard for her family for many years. If she has not lived the expected life, she will definitely have a huge gap in her heart.
Especially when she meets a man outside of marriage and has a better love, she will feel that her past lives are too bad.
At this time, when When she returns home, she will inexplicably pick your shortcomings and always find excuses to argue with you to vent her dissatisfaction with you.
For example, she will often say, "I won't live a good life with you. Let's see what your future is?"
or even, she will directly attack you, give you an example, who has bought a house again, who has a car again, who has a lot of savings, etc.
She feels that anyone is better than you, so she dislikes you very much and dislikes you. She has to blame you for a few words to achieve psychological balance.
Furthermore, when a middle-aged woman has an extramarital affair, her mind is no longer on you, and she doesn't have to be polite to you, let alone take care of your feelings.
She will only scold you ruthlessly and constantly pick your faults, leaving you unpredictable.
In her heart, she has followed you for so many years and has not even had a good day. She is extremely dissatisfied and may be accusing you if you keep talking.
A woman like html may be very polite to others and act gentle and considerate, but she is always indifferent and ruthless to you, and basically ignores you.
She doesn't want to live a hard life with you, and put all her hopes on others , she has long been in love with others.
So, once a man finds that women often say these things, don’t be careless. You might as well communicate with women in time to avoid the relationship falling apart.
3: "Don't touch me in the future, just live like this."
If a middle-aged woman has an extramarital affair, she will completely lose interest in you and will not have any expectations.
No matter how much you give or how much love you love her, she will not appreciate it, and will only reject you more and more.
Because she already has someone else and thinks you are not important anymore. She looks forward to leaving you as soon as possible and living the life she wants.
Therefore, when she faces you, will generally not have close contact with you again , and it has long drawn a clear line with you. The most common saying of women like
is: "Don't touch me in the future, just live like this."
In her heart, she has already developed a great disgust for you, and will not let you get close, and she doesn't want to have any intimate actions with you.
For example, her colleague Ms. Zheng, who has been married to her husband for thirteen years, has a very cold relationship and has long been no longer a husband and wife.
When I was married for nine years, Ms. Zheng accidentally attended a class reunion and met a senior whom I had a crush on before. She was very surprised.
The two of them had a very happy chat and added friends to each other. They slowly connected each other, so that their relationship became closer and closer.
After dating for half a year, the senior invited Ms. Zheng to go out for fun, and the two spent several days and nights together. During this period, the two of them grew ambiguous feelings and unexpectedly had an intimate relationship.
Since then, Ms. Zheng has no desire to be close to her husband. She is very annoyed when she sees him. Soon she asked to separate the bed and never performed the "husband and wife ceremony" again.
So, if a man finds that a middle-aged woman refuses to let you get close to her and refuses to have close behaviors with you, he should pay attention. Most of the time she has other feelings and no longer loves you. A woman like
has no expectations for you. Although has not left, she will only spend in a cold state, and it is difficult to have a husband and wife relationship again.
Ye Feifei yff Emotional Message:
In summary, middle-aged women who have extramarital affairs often say these words:
"If I had known that you were so useless, I would not marry anyone": This is not your fault and I don't want to continue with you.
"If you follow you, you won't live a good life. What's your future?": I think you are incompetent and will put your hopes on others.
"Don't touch me in the future, just live like this": Refuse any intimate contact with you and will not love you at all.
If a man gets along with a middle-aged woman, if he finds that she has these abnormalities, he should be alert and never give blindly to avoid being hurt in the future.
No relationship can tolerate two hearts. If the bottom line of loyalty is broken, no matter how good the relationship is, it will collapse.
hope that men and women in reality can be loyal, manage their marriage with care, and cherish the people around them. This is the enlightenment that adults should have.
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