Chinese people have always been frugal. No matter what aspect of their lives, they can save as much as possible. Especially when it comes to clothes, if you have many relatives and friends at home, old clothes that you can't wear are often given to relatives with better relationships, and you can wear them for a few more years.
Children grow up fast and their clothes are eliminated quickly. It is not appropriate to wear them a few times. At this time, if relatives have younger brothers and sisters, giving them to them is also a good choice. After all, we have always had the tradition of children wearing " Baijiayi ".
But now young people have become parents, their views may be different from those of the older generation - their children must give them the best within their abilities, whether it is food, clothing, or toys. Wearing old clothes that others don’t want always looks a little shabby.
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I have cleaned up some clothes that children have become younger than they have worn a few times before, as well as some toys, books, etc., and I gave them to the children of relatives. Today I accidentally heard from other relatives that the relative who had a child told others that he had thrown away all the things I gave, saying that the child would use it and that the rest of us was to look down on her.
Please, it was your mother who told us that we don’t need to go back, so we will keep it for you. In addition, we are kind-hearted and donkeys. Even if I donate it in the future, I won’t give it to them.
Many netizens think that in the past, there were many children at home, and there were all kinds of cousins. One piece of clothing that was big and the smaller one was wearing, and everyone's old clothes were sent here and there, and the children didn't care. But now you must consider whether the other party can accept the clothes.
If the other party can’t accept that his children wear other people’s clothes, then don’t give it away. After all, it’s not the past. No matter how poor the family is, they basically won’t be able to afford new clothes. Some people no longer accept that they or their children wear other people’s leftover old clothes.
@Little Security Guard
You should look at the other party’s parents. If the other party’s parents don’t dislike you, you can give it to them, don’t listen to the other party’s elderly.
@Zhu Dinghong
Anyway, I would rather throw it away than give it to others. I hate others wearing my clothes and using my things.
@Yuanyuan
Second-hand things should be cautious when handed out. Some people think they are good things, while some people think they are just rags and look down on others.
@danr
My partner gave all the children's clothes to her sister. Her sister gave birth to her second child, and she has always worn this way.
@fresh and soft
The owner of the floor handled it inappropriately. He should ask the mother instead of the child's grandparents. Even if the mother agrees, the relationship must be in place.
Send clothes to express a good relationship with relatives and friends, but it has gradually become less accepted by others. Therefore, before sending old clothes, you must ask in advance if the other party is willing to take them, so as to avoid conflicts.
Have you ever sent someone else's old clothes, or have you accepted someone else's old clothes?
