Bacon said: The wife is the lover of youth, the companion of middle age, and the guardian of old age.
A man has to go through many ups and downs in his life. In this process, many people have become passers-by, but your wife will accompany you from youth to twilight years.
You are fearless and can strive for progress. Your wife can support you to move forward.
You are in middle age and encountering setbacks. Your wife can give you warmth and soothe your inner trauma.
You are weak in your twilight years and are old and weak. Only your wife can accompany you and enjoy your old age together.
As a man, caring for his wife from beginning to end is not only a responsibility, but also an investment in himself.
Don’t wait until you get old before you know that this is the closest person in your life.
1. A wife is a beam of light that can guide you forward
Author Liang Xiaosheng said: "A good woman exudes a wonderful breath like a spring breeze. She makes a good man find herself, walk towards herself, move towards herself, and then walk towards the indomitable power of life."
For those men who are in confusion, it is often not their parents, not their friends, but their wives.
When you meet your wife, it is like wading through mountains and rivers and encountering a crescent moon. No matter how dark it is, the road is difficult, there is a beam of light illuminating the direction you are moving forward.
Xu Zhiyong is 61 years old this year. He is the owner of a seal engraving shop in Zhangjiagang. He is also a disabled person.
was diagnosed with polio when he just turned one year old and had to walk on the bench since then.
When Xu Zhiyong was a child, his mother was his light, until he met his current wife Lan Cuizhi, and his wife became the second light in his life.
They met through a newspaper for marriage, but Lan Cuizhi did not dislike his physical disability. Instead, she took good care of him and gave him a happy family.
When the reporter interviewed, when he mentioned Xu Zhiyong's wife, he had a light in his eyes, felt very proud, and felt extremely happy.
If a man can get a wife like this, he must cherish it, because in this world, parents only determine your starting point, while the wife determines your end point.
From the moment you and her step into the marriage hall, she is destined to be the most important part of your life, turning into a beam of light, illuminating your way forward, allowing you to step out every step of your life and move forward steadily.
If there is no such beam of light, even if you have a direction, no matter how you walk, your feet will be black, and you will be very difficult and helpless.
2. Wife is a bowl that can hold your ups and downs
Life is full of flavoring agents, with all kinds of ups and downs and downs. When you meet a good wife, she can understand you and help you dissolve the bitterness in your throat and fill the sweetness in your heart.
famous director Ang Lee wife Lin Huijia is such a person who can end the hardships with her husband.
When Ang Lee just got married, he was penniless, nameless and had no money, and could not even hold a decent wedding.
At the cold wedding, even Ang Lee's mother apologized to her daughter-in-law and felt sorry for her and failed to give her a grand wedding.
, but Lin Huijia said understandingly that she didn't care about what was unexpected. What was important was the relationship between the two. As long as the relationship was there, nothing else could compare to.
After marriage, Ang Lee was a "family man" who had been a "family man" for six years because of his failure in career. He fell into autism for a while and even wanted to give up making movies. It was his wife Lin Huijia who scolded him and encouraged him to believe him.
Later, Ang Lee finally achieved success and became famous. After returning home, he could put down his halo and continue to be his "family cook". Because deep in Ang Lee's heart, he knew that his achievements today were inseparable from his wife's efforts and tolerance.
In marriage, men are like a spoon, and they will taste all the ups and downs of the dining table, and these ups and downs and downs, and finally there will be a bowl afterwards.
This bowl is your wife. She loves you and tolerates you. She will bear the pain you suffer silently with you, and she can share the sweetness you taste with you.
There are too many flavoring agents in life, and there is only one wife. You should cherish it while you are young, and don’t wait for the old man to leave regrets.
3. A wife is a flower, you must take good care of and care
A wife is the light, accompanying you; a wife is a bowl, sharing the burden with you; a wife is also a flower, you need your care and care.
Many men please their wives before marriage, and do whatever they work hard and tiring, but after marriage, they seem to be a different person, treating their wives as maids. Men like
are stupid men because they don’t understand the true importance of their wife at all. They just think that if they get it, they will not lose it again and will be complacent.
stock god Buffett , investing countlessly, but when someone asked him what he thought the best investment was, his answer was shocking and surprising.
"The most important investment in my life is not which stock I bought, but who I chose to be my partner."
One sentence reminds me of the dreamer. It turns out that behind every successful man, there is a wife as his good wife.
As a good wife, she gives too much. As a husband, it is the responsibility to give her care and company, and it is also the best investment in herself.
In a marriage, the husband's attitude towards his wife is the key to determining the happiness of his marriage and even family. The husband's care for his wife is also the key to determining whether the two can last forever and whether they can be with each other forever.
Every wife is first and foremost a woman, a woman is like a flower. Flowers bloom only because of the nourishment of sunshine and rain, and a wife cares about her family only because of the care and care of her husband.
. For those stupid men, women don’t have to feel wronged. Stay away as soon as possible and keep themselves in peace and freedom. They would rather be alone than be claustrophobic.
Every good wife should be the most beautiful flower in her husband's heart. She should always be cared for and watered forever, because she is afraid of her decay and withering.
I like a sentence in "Little Woman" very much: being fallen in love with a man with good character and choosing as his wife is the most beautiful and lucky thing for a woman.
It is a very happy thing and a very difficult thing for two people to live together until they grow old.
Because in this life, wealth is like a tide, sometimes rising and falling; fame and fortune are like fog, and it cannot be touched, but your wife and family are your life treasures.
So, please be loyal to the person who loves you, love her, and take good care of her. Don’t wait until you get old before regretting that the person you closest to is always by your side, but you have been ignored.
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