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Hello, my name is Li Mei, I am 28 years old this year, I just got married last year, so I can be considered an older late marriage.
My husband and I met through blind dates. My husband works in a foreign trade company and has a sister who is three years younger than him.
Originally, my husband and I lived in a harmonious life, but I knew something that happened recently that made me unable to swallow this and wanted to have a divorce!
The thing is like this:
I myself do e-commerce. I caught up with the trend before and did make some money, so I bought a house and a car in our county town. Of course, the house is in installments, not full payment.
I have known my husband on a blind date for more than a year. Both of them feel that they are old and have good personalities, so they decided to get married.
My husband's family is a single-parent family. His mother pulled her alone. The family conditions are average, so when we got married, our family didn't have much hope for the bride price.
My dad said, it doesn’t matter how much you give it or how much you give it. The point is that just two young people live well.
Moreover, before getting married, my mother-in-law asked me to chat with me alone and said to me, "Xiaomei, you know, our family is not in good condition, so I'll just let you down. Can we avoid this bride price?"
To be honest, I'm not an ignorant person, and it's not easy for my mother-in-law to know that it's not easy for me, so I nodded and agreed.
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Then, my husband and I got married, and the house I bought before my marriage was our wedding house.
Before getting married, several friends around me told me that you should not want the bride price, you should ask for more or less, otherwise you will be looked down upon!
I just smiled at these remarks because I always feel that whether you can afford to pay attention to them really has nothing to do with whether you want a bride price.
However, it was not until last month when my brother and sister got married that I realized that I was wrong.
The younger sister and sister were going to get married last month, so my husband discussed with me that he was just such a sister, and he could take out 20,000 yuan to use it as a dowry for her sister and buy something.
I naturally nodded and agreed. There is no need to discuss this kind of thing
Then, on the day my brother and sister got married, when I was sitting and chatting with my brother and sister's family, I realized that my mother-in-law gave the brother and sister a dowry of 100,000 yuan.
When I heard this news, I was confused and thought the other party was wrong. It was a dowry of 100,000, not a dowry of 100,000, right?
After all, how could my mother-in-law have 100,000 yuan?
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So, I asked in detail again, and after repeated confirmation, I was able to confirm that it was really a dowry of 100,000 yuan, not a dowry!
My mother-in-law, she is rich. At this time, I suddenly remembered the scene when I got married. She cried with me and asked me not to give me a bride price. I was so angry that I was trembling.
So, I immediately found my husband, called him to the corner, and asked, "Husband, my sister is getting married, did mom give him 100,000?"
After hearing my words, my husband did not admit it at first, but with my confirmation, he finally nodded hesitantly.
At this time, I could be said to be furious. I immediately wanted to go to my mother-in-law to ask where this 100,000 yuan came from, why did I say I didn’t have money to give the bride gift when I got married, and when my brother and sister got married, 100,000 yuan suddenly popped up at home.
This is not obvious, bullying people!
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However, I was still rational and did not make a fuss at the wedding on the spot.
But after the wedding of the younger siblings, they called their mother-in-law and younger siblings home to ask clearly.
mother-in-law knew that the matter could not be hidden, so she admitted it directly. She did give her a dowry of 100,000 yuan. The money was not stolen, but she saved up her own kiss.
Then, I asked her why when I got married, I told me that I had no money to pay the bride price
She didn't say anything about my question.
Then, I slammed the door and went out and went back to my parents' home.
When my parents learned about this, they were also very angry and told me not to go back and get divorced as soon as possible. Such a mother-in-law is too bullying
So, my husband talked about the idea of divorce.
Unexpectedly, the next day, my mother-in-law brought 100,000 yuan to my house and said with tears in her eyes that the 100,000 yuan compensation for my bride price was brought back by her brother and sister, and advised me not to divorce.
looked at her with regret, and I deposited the money into my mother's bank card, and then went home with a smile.
. This person, you can't be too easy to bully, otherwise you will be bullied everywhere.
I said:
Hello Li Mei, after listening to your story, I really admire your courage and dare to compete with my mother-in-law like this.
Your mother-in-law is rich, but she doesn’t tell the truth and doesn’t give a bride gift. It’s really unethical. Even if she tells you the truth and says she is rich, but wants to use it for her daughter to get married in the future, then we can understand it.
is wrong, she shouldn't deceive you and say she has no money. I think your approach is correct, take back what you deserve.
is not a question of the bride price, but actually it is a question of whether Li Mei’s mother-in-law is sincere to her.
She may have thought that you were old and didn’t receive a bride price, so you were anxious to get married, so you didn’t give a bride price. Everyone said, am I right?
