There are many things in this world, and you can’t control it as long as you open a hole, because this is how human nature is.
Take the common domestic violence and betrayal as an example. Many people always think that they can change the other person with their personal charm or the warmth of their family.
But a person's personality is difficult to change. Just like many times a person is ignorant, parents always think that their children will become sensible after marriage, but in fact they are still the same after marriage.
At that time, not only will your own children become useless, but they will also harm other people's children. Therefore, when the other party does something that touches his bottom line, you must resolutely fight back.
The mess after the quarrel
In a commercial house in Jiangsu, a woman was lying on the ground in pain. The things around her were messy, and her floor-to-ceiling mirror was also broken.
The house is full of furniture and things that have been pushed down. The whole house looks very messy, giving people the look that they have just experienced a fierce battle.
There was indeed a fight here before. The woman lying on the ground was the mistress of this family. The person who hit her was not a stranger, but her husband.
The woman recorded the scene at home with a camera, and finally lay on the bed and wiped her tears silently. It can be seen that she was really disappointed with this marriage.
Domestic violence four times in three years
In fact, the couple has not been married for a long time. They have only been married for three years, but in these three years, this time, the husband has beaten the woman four times.
Domestic violence has been four times in three years. Some people may think it is not too many. It is normal for couples to have some conflicts and conflicts, so how can there be no couples who don’t quarrel together?
Three and four times in three years, it only takes a little more than once a year, but the couple has a conflict, and even finally rises to the point of taking action. This is just a conflict between the couple.
However, conflict between husband and wife is essentially different from family violence against . The two cannot be confused at all, and the woman who was beaten also said that her husband beat him harder every time.
It can be seen that in daily life, the woman is completely out of weakness. Even if she is beaten, she can only lie on the bed and wipe her tears silently, and then post a video to vent her emotions. She never mentioned divorce from the beginning.
The continuous escalation of domestic violence
In fact, the woman couldn't think about it when she was the first time she was married, but then she forgave her husband. She thought that getting married was not easy, so she lived a good life together.
plus the people around him also persuaded him not to leave. Based on various considerations, the woman finally chose to forgive, but the compromise brought not happiness, but more pain.
Later, the husband suffered three broken bones when he had the second domestic violence, the third domestic violence, and until the fourth time. Although it was not the kind of very serious injury, it was enough to make the woman despair.
And because the marriage is getting longer and longer, the couple’s bond is getting deeper and deeper, which means that no one can leave each other, so it’s not easy to get divorced.
Especially for families with children, many women even have a very painful life, often because their children can tolerate it.
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Don’t have any fantasies about such men. If you think you can change him, you are just asking for trouble. It’s better to choose to let go earlier.
But some people say that a pitiful person must be hateful. It’s okay to be beaten once or twice, but he won’t divorce after being beaten four times. It can only be said that one is willing to beat the other is willing to be beaten.
can't be said this. The woman may have her own difficulties and concerns if she doesn't divorce. It also means that she still has feelings for her husband and hopes to influence him with compromise. If this happens, she can only say that she loses.
But some people have really influenced their partner, but overall they are still very rare. You must resist domestic violence. Never swallow your anger, otherwise the other party will only become more and more arrogant.
If this woman firmly looks at her position when she is beaten for the first time or the second time, even if she does not divorce, the man will not dare to be so unscrupulous.
