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When you really come into contact with a person, he will bring you a lot of ideas and information. You will find that many times, when you encounter difficulties, many people around you are thinking about helping you like you, but don’t know how to do it. This is why few people now have girlfriends. Making friends is a very difficult thing and a very difficult thing. So how can I make a girlfriend? Let me share with you below, you can gain a lot of experience and skills from it.
1. Understand the advantages of others
people like to listen to good words or like to praise them. Therefore, you must learn to observe and discover others. Especially when you like to praise others. Because this behavior will make the other party feel that you really care about him. So you need to know more about others. If you want to make friends, you need to know others.
2. What others want must have
When you are with others, you can see other people's advantages, so pay more attention to your own advantages. In this way, even if others know that you work hard, they don’t want much. This is the gap, and this gap makes it difficult for us to break through. When others treat you well, you must know how to repay. You can just say "thank you" to others. Many times it is difficult for you to help others, which is why sometimes you have no one to take care of yourself; some people are not active in doing things and always do things without results. But he is something I like to do, so I am willing to help. I am willing to make such a decision so that I can make friends with others. Of course, if we want to make friends, we must take the initiative. Only in this way can we know the other person’s true thoughts and needs, and find the meaning and goal of chatting with you, so that you can always be in the circle of friends, rather than always being in a state of not talking.
3. Learn to share
As the saying goes, "A good word warms up in three winters, and a bad word hurts people in six months." Many times, when we get along with others, we all want to get help from others, but we don't know how to do it, at this time, we need to learn to share so that others know that they are also the ones who want to help can also get help. If you can share what you think of in your heart with others in a timely manner, others will be more willing to help you and you can make more friends. When you help others, others will be like you. Then you will naturally have the opportunity to communicate more with others. If you want others to help you a little, then try to help others. People always have to think about others or do something selfish. And others see these things when you do, and it will last longer if you establish a friendship with him. How important do you think the friends you make are to you? In fact, it doesn’t matter to him that you can’t make friends. He just needs to tell you these things. In fact, everyone is the same. There is no need to use yourself, and there is no need to influence others to do that!
4. Find some topics for yourself that others cannot think of
There are some people who like to ask other people’s questions and want to know the answers themselves. So when you are chatting with others, you can try this method. For example, "I have had dinner with my friends these days and I know what work you have done recently. Have you told you your favorite book? What do you think about life?" If you listen to what you want to say to others with relish, the other person will become more interested in you. If you are going out with friends, you can also find some topics that others cannot imagine to talk about, such as: You can talk about some small things in life, such as: Who are you going to have dinner with today? How do you plan to accompany your family?
5. Establish a trust relationship
You should know that in this world, there are too few people who are truly willing to help others. Sometimes, no matter how good you are with him, but without enough trust, they will no longer think about helping you. Because trust will make them better and love you more.When you need help from others, he will not be reluctant to help you because you are not doing well enough, because others do not trust you enough. Therefore, the first step to making friends with others is to trust the other person, and you can express your desire to him!
