says that there is a conflict between husband and wife and it is solved by closing the door. Many people think there is something wrong with this sentence. It is because people in the past oppressed women and can only hold it in their stomachs after being wronged.
For example, there was a girl who had no big conflict with her husband before. In the end, the two of them started to have a fuss over this matter, and the woman finally posted a video online.
result This netizen said, and that netizen said, "Whoever says seems to make sense, but in the end the couple is being put on fire, and their parents are also discussed, and they can't end up having to divorce. There are actually many things like
. Sometimes there is no need to make some small conflicts known to everyone. It is best for the couple to resolve them internally. For example, the couple below came in because of their parents, and the conflict is getting bigger and bigger now.
Husband returned empty-handed
A woman from Guangxi stood by the window on the second floor of her home, watching a white sedan downstairs slowly start, and finally gradually disappear from her vision. The woman's heart was mixed.
The person in the car was her husband. This time the husband came to her parents' house to pick her up, but due to the intervention of the family, the husband finally had to leave independently.
I thought things would have a perfect result, but now I am stuck between my husband and parents, and I am a character in a difficult situation on both sides, and I am even more afraid that there will be no one inside and outside.
Looking at the car where her husband gradually disappeared, the woman felt mixed feelings, and at the same time, an inexplicable aggrievance surged into her heart, and there were too many things in her heart that were hard to say.
Marrying from afar and pursuing love in other places
It turns out that this woman was married from another place before. When she got married, her parents and family didn't agree with this marriage, after all, she was far away from home. If something happens to
in the future, my mother's family will not help. Also, if something happens to the family, it will not be easy to come back.
Parents are like this. They basically hope that their daughter can get closer. Even if they can't help much, they can still see it when they want to see it so that they won't miss people when they see it in the photos.
But at this time, women can’t hear these things. At this time, she only wants to pursue her own love, and her parents can only choose to compromise in the end.
Driving 900 kilometers alone
After marriage, they become like ordinary couples soon after marriage. The two will gradually have some small conflicts, gradually quarrel and blame each other.
Finally, after an argument, the disappointed woman returned to her parents' home. Her husband's actions disappointed her. She didn't believe that this man could still get better.
Soon my husband drove to my parents' house to pick her up. In fact, the woman has calmed down these days. When she was calm, she still felt that her husband had something worthy of recognition.
Especially when my husband drove 900 kilometers alone to pick her up this time, the woman was very moved, but her husband's attitude did not change much during communication. In the end, she was stopped by the woman's family and had to drive back alone.
Actually, after reading the copy and videos posted by the woman, she already regretted it, but now that her parents are involved, there are some things she can't think of.
Driving 900 kilometers alone is actually a very tormenting thing. Friends who drive frequently should have a deep understanding, especially when driving a manual transmission.
And a man can drive 900 kilometers alone to pick up people. At this time, it is not very important to say that attitude is the best attitude.
It may be that in the later negotiations, the woman's family's attitude was a bit tough, so the man's attitude was a little bad, and he was eventually driven away by the woman's family. In fact, the woman seemed very tough, but it was the woman who lost the divorce because she really made a fuss.
Now women seem to have won, but they seem to have lost. In fact, what is the point of fighting for a win or loss? Many times there is no absolute right or wrong between husband and wife.
After fighting, the relationship was lost. In the end, I realized that I was lonely when I was fighting. Unfortunately, many couples don’t understand such a simple and easy-to-understand truth.
The woman's family clearly wanted to earn face for the child, but such a family is somewhat unkind. After all, the man drove 900 kilometers to pick up people, and it would be meaningless to pick up some small details.
The woman also has problems, lacking her own opinions, and the couple has conflicts that they don’t resolve by themselves, but instead run back to their parents’ home. If this continues, the divorce will probably not be far away.
The woman also has problems, lacking her own opinions, and the couple has conflicts that they don’t resolve by themselves, but instead run back to their parents’ home. If this continues, the divorce will probably not be far away.