Many people want to choose one person to live a life, but in today's era of almost everything, it seems to have become a luxury to find someone who truly lives with them.
In this era of material desires, many people's desire for material things has exceeded their desire for love, but we should not be discouraged, because beautiful love has always been there.
Many times it is not that we cannot meet beautiful love, but that even if many people meet, they do not have the courage and courage to pursue it with all their might.
Everyone is afraid of being hurt and wants others to give first, but how is it possible to always wait for it to come to you? Many times we have to learn to take the initiative, so everything will be possible.
In the 1940s, compared with the love declarations that are now everywhere on the streets, many people did not know what the word love meant, and they only had a shallow understanding of liking.
From marriages, parents have the final say. Many people don’t see each other for the first time until half a month before marriage. Some people wonder if they can get married without love?
In fact, you can get married without love, and you can have husband and wife feelings after marriage. In fact, some couples without love have fewer conflicts. In fact, love is only part of the relationship between husband and wife.
At this time, Xu Chaoqing, who was only sixteen years old, got married under the arrangement of his parents. At that time, people generally got married early, and at the age of sixteen, they were already a big girl.
Some people who move fast may have children at this time. The sixteen-year-old Xu Chaoqing is also full of expectations and confusion about his marriage.
But Xu Chaoqing never thought that she would meet the man who had been entangled with her for the rest of her life at this wedding, which is also her love in this life.
In the past, marriage was not only a family's happiness, but also a village's happiness. If anyone picks up the bride, the children in the village will follow the wedding team to ask for a prize, hoping that they can be healthy.
Six-year-old Liu Guojiang ran to the sixteen-year-old Xu Chaoqing and asked Xu Chaoqing to touch his front teeth, because people at that time believed that the teeth touched by the bride could grow white and beautiful, and a good mouthful of teeth was a symbol of health and longevity.
An extremely ordinary encounter made the fate of the two people deeply entangled, so when the family was about to tell Liu Guojiang a wife, when they asked Liu Guojiang what kind of wife they wanted to find, Liu Guojiang blurted out, "I want to find a wife like Aunt Xu (Xu Chaoqing)."
If there were no accidents, it would be impossible for the two to have any intersection. Everyone just thought this was Liu Guojiang's joke, but no one expected that things would come true.
Before, medical conditions were not developed, Xu Chaoqing's husband died of meningitis. People at that time were conservative and always had inexplicable prejudice against widows. They thought that Xu Chaoqing had killed her husband and no one would interact with Xu Chaoqing anymore.
A young woman has died and has to raise her young children alone. The people around her hide from her family just like she is hiding from the plague. You can imagine how difficult it is to suffer from the crowds around her.
Fortunately, Liu Guojiang often came to the door to help Xu Chaoqing work, and his life was easier at home, but there were many troubles in front of the widow, and Liu Guojiang soon became the object of hot discussion. He had all the bad things to say, so his parents naturally refused to let him help.
But Liu Guojiang was determined to help. In order to calm Liu Guojiang, his parents decided to find him a wife, but an accident quickly brought Liu Guojiang and Xu Chaoqing closer.
In order to improve the life of the family, Xu Chaoqing would also weave some straw sandals to sell. Once, he fell into the water and happened to be rescued by Liu Guojiang who passed by.
As a woman, Xu Chaoqing didn't know what Liu Guojiang was thinking, but due to the gap between the two and the eyes of the people around him, Xu Chaoqing never dared to accept Liu Guojiang. However, this accident, coupled with Liu Guojiang's confession many times, Xu Chaoqing was also shaken.
Finally, Xu Chaoqing decided to be with Liu Guojiang, but the matter of the two being together was immediately opposed by everyone, and all kinds of gossip were flying all over the sky, and the pressure from their parents was quite high.
In order to protect his lover, Liu Guojiang simply took Xu Chaoqing and his children into the mountains and lived in seclusion, and lived a life of men farming and women weaving in the deep mountains far away from the world.
However, romance also comes at a price. The first thing in the mountains is that the road is difficult to walk, or there is no road, and it is more likely to be rheumatism. Xu Chaoqing fell down the mountain and was covered in bruises, which made Liu Guojiang determined to build a road for his lover.
So on the cliff, Liu Guojiang dug a road for his lover with bare hands. After breaking more than 20 iron drills and more than 40 iron hammers, he dug out a 6,208-level ladder on the stone wall. It was not until 2001 that he was discovered by an outdoor expedition team.
The incident between the two quickly caused a sensation, and many people wanted to interview them. This road is also called the "ladder of love", and someone wrote a song for the two.
Once, Liu Guojiang couldn't refuse Liu Guojiang and went for an interview. On the way, Liu Guojiang suddenly said that he was worried about the destruction of the crops at home. In fact, everyone knew that he was worried about Xu Chaoqing at home.
Xu Chaoqing also loved Liu Guojiang deeply. He thought he would leave first at the age of age. Thinking that Liu Guojiang had suffered too much for himself over the years, Xu Chaoqing hoped that after his death, Liu Guojiang could go down the mountain to enjoy his son.
But luck makes people feel bad. One day in 2007, Xu Chaoqing asked Liu Guojiang to check the vegetable field. Liu Guojiang suddenly suffered a cerebral hemorrhage and died in the vegetable field. This also became Xu Chaoqing's knot. If the other party was not allowed to see the vegetable at that time, there might not be any accidents.
After Liu Guojiang's death, his son wanted to take Xu Chaoqing to live at the foot of the mountain many times, but Xu Chaoqing refused. Xu Chaoqing said: "I will be wherever he is."
In 2012, after living alone for five years, 87-year-old Xu Chaoqing also left. Their love moved countless people. Although they were no longer here, the ladder and the earthen house still stood there, infecting countless people.
Life is just a few decades long. We might as well be brave. If you like it, pursue it, and say it out loud. Many times you think you just missed someone, but in fact you missed a life.
