Pan Suiming, professor of sociology at Renmin University, conducted 15 consecutive national sampling surveys, showed that in 2000, the average extramarital affair in my country was only 8%, while in 2015, it reached 16%. So what exactly is the reason that the extramarital affair is becoming more and more serious and makes the lover betray the marriage?
After the reform and opening up , international capital poured into the country, and at the same time brought many dross cultures. A large number of media, film and television, and books and magazines arbitrarily promote the sexual freedom and openness advocated by Europe and the United States, and constantly brainwashing the kind-hearted Chinese people with closed thoughts. The cultural impact that has been going on for decades has finally worn out the defense line of traditional culture. Some people do extramarital affairs under the banner of defending freedom and are not ashamed of being ashamed of.
will not leave the court. This is a traditional virtue. When you are rich, you must never abandon your wife who shares hardships. In today's society, the economic foundation has improved its social status. Some people gradually lost themselves and their original aspirations in various flatteries and boasts. They actually naively believed that their original lovers were no longer worthy of their current selves, but in order to protect their reputation and wealth and satisfy their vanity, they finally chose an extramarital affair.
Harmony couple life is the cornerstone of a happy marriage. However, ideals are full, reality is indeed cruel. For the sake of a few pieces of silver, couples in another place are often separated, so why not talk about a regular couple's life? If you are not careful in physical illness, you can seek medical treatment everywhere to solve a chronic illness, so how can you talk about a normal couple's life? If you work overtime all day, you will fall asleep physically and mentally exhausted, so how can you talk about a harmonious couple's life? If you are neglected for a long time, extramarital affairs are not accidental.
support each other and never leave each other. This is the oath of love, but the sweetness of love will eventually be submerged in the food, rice, oil and salt of life. The difficulties of work and the troubles of life make the quarrels between the couple constantly; the health of the elderly and the study of the children make the pressure between the couple double day by day; the ambiguity of colleagues and the intervening of first love make the conflicts between the couple escalate day by day, and in order to escape from everything, extramarital affairs have become the first choice.
The era is developing, and people's desires are constantly expanding. Back then, my grandfather used only a bag of wheat to marry my grandmother; my father used only a bicycle to marry my mother; now, in order to get married, I almost killed my parents. In this society where desires are rampant, some people are willing to sell everything for money, some for power, some for beauty, some for stimulation, some for revenge, and some for repaying kindness, including extramarital affairs.
Extramarital affair is just a temporary pleasure, but what is left is a lifetime of hurt; extramarital affair is only comforting oneself, but what is destroyed is two families; extramarital affair is only temporary, but what is lost is permanent.
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