text/Wu Qingxi
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It is said that women in love can bloom flowers on their faces and are very beautiful. And a woman who doesn't love is like a blooming flower that is nourished by rain.
So, whether a woman lacks love can be seen from her appearance, and even if she is disguised, it is easy to judge.
If a woman lacks love for a long time, these characteristics on her body are very obvious and can be seen at a glance.
The old saying goes: "Women are to please themselves."
When a woman is unwilling to dress up and doesn't care about her appearance, it means that she has no sweetheart at the moment. Otherwise, how could she not put her face down and ignore her image at all, and be so sloppy?
A woman lacks love, naturally lacks some style, and her face does not have the radiance she looks like when she is in love. If this continues, a woman will lose some brilliance, and these brilliances are naturally the foundation for making women beautiful and confident.
Every woman longs for men to pay attention, and she also longs for a man to have a deep love for him and never leave him. From then on, she will never leave him forever.
Therefore, a woman who is immersed in love naturally has more brilliance than a woman who lacks love. This feeling is not about the appearance, but is generated from the inside out.
Because women in love cannot hide them, no matter how they hide them, happiness will overflow.
, but women who lack love are different, because they have not nourished love for a long time and have long forgotten the appearance of love, which makes her a little dull.
Because of the long-term lack of love, no one cares for or loves them, their hearts will naturally die slowly in a long period of tranquility.
They long for love, but they are afraid to get along with men. The conflicted and anxious mood makes them get further and further away from their relationship.
In fact, whether a woman is "lack of love" depends on whether she has the following four "characters", which is easy to judge.
1. Pretend to be busy on a date, concealing the emptiness in your heart
If women lack love for a long time, they will become lonely because they lack people to accompany them for a long time. They will be very empty. They desire someone to take the initiative to pursue beings, but they dare not take the initiative to pursue beings, fearing that they will be hurt.
In order not to let others see their emptiness and loneliness, they will hide themselves, pretend to be happy on the surface, and are busy all day long, as if they are dating.
In order to hide the emptiness in your heart and not look down on the same-sex people, some people even pretend that they have an appointment and make themselves very busy so as not to be ridiculed by the same-sex people.
For example, sometimes you direct and act, some people send flowers to themselves, some people ask them to sing, etc. They even give themselves some special gifts on specific festivals to pretend that they are actually pursued by someone.
dare not tell the truth to the people around you, afraid that the other party will laugh at him. I am afraid that others will feel that I am unattractive and cannot get married.
In fact, because others have a partner and no one pursues you for a long time, you will feel embarrassed, and you are afraid that others will laugh at you, and you will arrange some blind dates for yourself, so you will pretend to be yourself and make yourself very busy, as if you are on a date.
2. Longing for love, and seeing the plot of love is easy to be moved
Women who have longed for love are very eager for love, so in their spare time, they like to watch love dramas. Once they see the touching plots in it, they will not help crying.
Sometimes the sense of substitution is too strong, and you may even think that it would be great if you had such a boyfriend. Because I haven't been loved and cared for for too long.
I really long for such love in my heart. When I see men desperate for everything for women, they will be moved to themselves.
will even be obsessed with the male protagonist of the TV series for a short time, because in reality, no one you like can express your longing, so you have to place your love in unrealistic people.
treats virtual characters as their love, and fantasizes that the other party loves themselves like the heroine. Therefore, sometimes they talk in a divine manner, but in fact, they are just simulating the dialogue in the plot.
If a woman is easily moved by the plot, she is mostly a person who lacks love for a long time and is extremely kind in her heart. Please bravely pursue it.
3. Losing confidence and becoming silent
If you find that a woman rarely smiles, even rarely speaks in the crowd, and does not dare to look up at other people's gazes with politeness, then it proves that this person is not confident.
It is precisely because of inferiority, that she is afraid that others will see through her heart, so that she will dodge the eyes of others looking at her and hide her fear and disbelief.
They are used to hiding in the corner and don’t like to show off. Even if they are invited, they will find reasons to shirk.
Moreover, they hardly like to laugh, and when others speak actively, she also responds in extreme language. This will give others an illusion that is difficult to get closer. Because of nervousness, I rarely speak.
In fact, I long to chat with the opposite sex in my heart, but because of my inferiority, I dare not take the initiative to talk. I feel very nervous because others take the initiative to chat, so I dare not talk more.
In fact, women who lack love desire to be valued, but no one has ever met this demand. Many people have become sensitive to the active foundation. They are afraid to reveal their truest thoughts to others.
is not confident, always feels that they are not good enough, and are used to wrapping themselves up and not getting close to them at will, so they are generally very simple.
When a man encounters such a woman, he must treat him sincerely and open his heart with your sincerity. When she falls in love, he will be as passionate as a flame.
4. Emotional sensitivity, just one point is
A woman’s long-term lack of love means that her emotions are not very stable. Because of the long-term lack of men's companionship and comfort, they have to learn to be strong, because no one can give them warmth and support, so they have to rely on themselves.
In order to make themselves look less weak, they will disguise themselves and even use an angry way to hide their inner fragility.
When someone touches her heart, they don’t know how to refute and defend, they can only respond to each other in a hysterical way.
So, you may see that she is easily angry because she has accumulated too much grievance and unhappiness. When someone breaks her inner peace, she may be in one place, and her emotions collapse instantly, and she talks endlessly like a flood.
When she finished venting, she would calm down and feel that her behavior was so inelegant, and it would be too ugly to do so.
Therefore, the heart of lack of love is very sensitive. They often cannot control their emotions. If they encounter unpleasant things, their emotions may collapse.
Especially when men misunderstand them, they will not take the initiative to explain, but will solve the problem by getting angry.
Because they haven't felt love for a long time, they also forgot how to love others, and they don't know how to adjust their emotions and let themselves get along with this society peacefully.
In general, a woman lacks love and will have these seemingly unreasonable behaviors. When you explain it from another perspective, her behaviors become very reasonable again.
In short, when you meet such a woman, take out your patience and let her feel your passion and sincere love, and she will repay you in the same way.
