The old saying goes well: Know yourself and your enemy and you will never be defeated by a hundred battles. When we have a relationship, we must have this kind of thinking.
Some problems have not been clarified, which will have many unnecessary impacts on us in this relationship. Therefore, before falling in love, you must think about some issues seriously. The issues that should be clarified must be clarified in advance.
Make these preparations so that our love will be smoother. There are 5 issues to figure out before falling in love, and I will briefly talk about it to you.
The first question: How much is the gap between you?
is too big, so be cautious. For example, if your conditions are much better than the other party, you should think carefully about whether it is worth it. For example, if your conditions are much worse than the other party, you should think about whether the other party will like you?
These are all very realistic and objective issues. We have to think.
cannot ignore this problem. But some people just tend to ignore this. They believe that loving someone should not consider these.
In fact, if the gap is too big, the more problems there will be between each other. There are many things that cannot be overcome.
. This gap will bring us many unnecessary troubles. These things will affect our love. Since you know this is the result, why do you still have to persist?
When you are in love, choice is the first priority. If the choice is wrong, the effort will be in vain.
Therefore, whether it is a man or a woman, you must have self-knowledge at this point.
The second question: How much time do you plan to talk about this love?
In fact, many people know this and understand the truth. But when you are in love, it is often easy to ignore. Because he really wants to be with the other party and wants to get good results.
can, so we will lose our own principles. When you lose yourself, a lot of things change. In this state, a new situation will appear.
. There are many times when we cannot grasp the new situation. In this case, we are prone to lose ourselves. Therefore, before falling in love, we should talk to ourselves seriously and set a time limit for ourselves.
, even if it reaches an uncontrollable level. We also know what to do?
If we give ourselves unlimited time, then it will only bring more troubles.
The third question: Can you have a relationship now?
Why do you want to ask yourself this question? Because only we know ourselves the best. If you are in a bad state, it is not suitable to have a relationship.
And at this time, you have to go to have a relationship. You can think about the outcome. How to understand
? Let's give a simple example. If you just broke up, you are not in the mood to fall in love. But you think that maybe starting a new relationship can end this pain.
result, before you think clearly, you went to have a relationship when you shouldn't have been in love. And the result will naturally be bad.
At that time, you will fall into a deeper contradiction.
So, if your current state is not suitable for dating, don’t force yourself. In relationships, you cannot force yourself to do things you don’t like.
The fourth question: How will you deal with it if you encounter obstacles?
When dating, a series of obstacles will inevitably arise. And how to deal with it, we need to think about it in advance. Many people have not thought about this issue.
And when all this happens, they will be in a mess. In this way, your love will be hindered. It will also undermine your self-confidence.
Self-confidence has been hit, and it will naturally cause a lot of trouble for our next love.
This is a bad loop. Therefore, before we fall in love, we should think about this issue seriously. Think of all the questions you should think of. If possible, it is best to do some coping strategies.
In this way, even when we reach this point, we can still deal with it calmly.
The fifth question: Can you withstand the pain of breaking up?
When you are in love, you will inevitably encounter a breakup. No one can guarantee how far you and this person can go.
So, we also have to think about whether we can face all the pain if we break up. In fact, there is no need to think too much. As long as you have the confidence to face it.
But many people are not prepared for this kind of mentality. In their opinion, how could they encounter a breakup? If you are too optimistic, you are deviating from objective reality. We should be more objective when it comes to relationships. In real life, if we don’t consider these factors, our love will encounter crisis.
So, before falling in love, you must think about this issue seriously.
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In fact, there are still many problems that need to be clarified. Simply put, if you want to have a relationship, you have to think about it first. There are some problems that you think need to think about.
In this way, we are prepared. In this way, no matter what problems we encounter, we will not panic. And we can all deal with it calmly.
In this way, our love may have a good result.
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