I liked dancing when I was young, but I was busy with work and haven't danced for many years. After retirement, I had a lot of time, so I went to the square to learn dancing, but I had contacted two dance partners and almost became a monk. They almost started fighting for me. I came to a conclusion: men have a moment of spring when they are old, so they still have to keep a distance.
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I am Aunt Feng. I used to work in a state-owned enterprise. I am 58 years old this year and have been retired for 8 years. When I was a child, there were 7 brothers and sisters in my family, and my family was relatively poor, so when I was in junior high school, I couldn’t afford to go to school. When I was 18 years old, a state-owned unit was recruiting workers and entrusted with the second uncle in the city, I got a quota.
At that time, the unit was all peers of the same age, from all over the world. My colleagues in their 20s have all become our masters, and we learn craftsmanship as apprentices.
I thought I was from the countryside, and I looked rustic, introverted and shy, and I was always scolded by my master. Every time Brother Jun from the same group always helped me. After a while, I felt a little youthful and lively feeling about him.
I always look at his dark face and grinned. His white teeth are particularly beautiful. I can't help but bump into my heart. When his eyes are over, I quickly turn my head, but I can't help but look at him.
02
Because Jun Ge is handsome and likes to help others, there are several girls who like Jun Ge. They secretly send misses to Jun Ge, but they are all rejected by Jun Ge. There are so many such things, and everyone is talking about who Jun Ge likes?
Not long after, the answer was revealed! It turned out that the person Brother Qiang liked was me. When he expressed it to me, I was so flattered that I couldn't believe it was true.
Brother Jun told me that he fell in love with me at a glance. He knew that I was a kind and hardworking girl, and he liked me, a girl with a beautiful heart.
html We got married when we were 421 years old. After marriage, we had a beautiful daughter. Brother Jun was very nice to me. I was almost not involved in housework. We rarely quarrel with each other. If anything happens, Brother Jun gave in to me everywhere and our lives were dull and happy.
Time passed by little by little, and in a blink of an eye I reached the age of 50. My pension was more than 2,000 yuan. Brother Jun was still at work. My daughter graduated from college and worked in another province. She also gave me 1,000 yuan a month for household use. But suddenly shedding from her busy work state and I adapted for several months.
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I had more free time, so I wanted to find some hobbies to exercise and pass the time. Because I liked dancing when I was young, I also participated in the art team of the unit, so I decided to join the ranks of square dance aunts.
danced a square dance with these sisters. My overall condition felt very energetic. Even the old problem of cervical pain has not occurred for a long time. There is a teacher in this square who is teaching a new dance called ballroom dance , and there are several dance poses. Perhaps because of some talent, I learned it soon.
When I was studying, I always danced with my sisters, but they said that this kind of dance, the dance partner needs to exude passion for the opposite sex and get the pleasure brought by the dance. They all went to find dance partners of the opposite sex and started dancing quickly.
At this time, Lao Yang came to me to invite me to dance. Lao Yang was the former office director of a certain unit. He usually looked gentlemanly and polite. After hesitating for a moment, I agreed.
It really feels like jumping up. It’s different from before. Lao Yang and I followed the music to show our dance postures, wandering in the square, and a sense of vitality seemed to be awakened again on me.
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Because of the tacit cooperation, we have been dancing partners for almost a month, but one day Lao Yang came late, and another man happened to invite me, so I danced with him.
When the jump was halfway through, Lao Yang came and saw that I and other male dancers became a little unhappy. After the song came, he quickly came over and pulled me away. As a result, the two of them had a disagreement and almost started to fight. The scene was very awkward.
I haven't danced for several days. A few days later, I came to the square again. Lao Yang saw me coming over with a smile and asked him about his previous reckless apology.
This matter is over, and I didn't take it to heart, so I continued to be a dance partner with Lao Yang.
Another two weeks passed, and Lao Yang's dance movements seemed to be a little wrong. His hands were getting lower and lower from his back, falling to my waist, and his chest was very close to me again. I reminded him to pay attention, and he adjusted it immediately, but it came again after a while.
I reminded him for several consecutive days, and he seemed to be even more indifferent to him, which made me more and more disgusted. But for the sake of face, I did not scold me in person, so I made excuses to stop being a dance partner with Lao Yang.
After all, I am a person with my husband, so it would be bad if any rumors spread to my husband.
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But what I didn't expect was that one day Lao Yang actually grabbed me and confessed to me with a rose, "Sister, I have liked you for a long time!" This scared me. I quickly told him that I am a man with a husband. We are just dancing partners and have no emotional relationship. After that, I quickly ran home.
When I ran home, I looked back from time to time, worried that he would follow me. When I got home, I was still in shock, and my heart kept beating. It took a while before I could recover. I didn't dare to tell my husband about
, for fear that he would be too careful.
I didn’t expect that I just danced and got into trouble. Since then, I haven't been to the square for a long time and dare not dance ballroom dance. I think that men who dance will feel heart-warming and have ulterior motives until they are old.
After reading your story by Aunt Feng, I think you have done a good job, be able to keep yourself clean and leave in time, so as not to let those who are not good-minded have an opportunity to take advantage of it.
You have a happy and fulfilling family. Don’t pay attention to those flies and mosquitoes, keep a healthy body and mind, live a happy old age with your husband, walk hand in hand, and grow old together, and wish you all the best.
Friends, if you are Aunt Feng, what would you do if you encounter such a situation? Welcome to leave a message to share your suggestions.
