text丨The West Chamber of affection
Time has not been long, I hope you will meet in my words!
Some time ago, there was a very popular word on the Internet, "High-quality human male". The emergence of the word
has caused discussion among most men and women. Although there are many people who are spoofed, it also makes people wonder: What exactly is a high-quality male in ?
Some people think that as long as men are handsome and rich, they are considered high-quality. After all, in real life, there are always more ordinary men than tall, rich and handsome men.
However, most women do not think so. When they get along with the opposite sex, they care more about the charm and sense of responsibility exuded by men.
This is one of the reasons why there are very beautiful and capable women, and the men around them are often not tall, rich and handsome.
So, do you know? In fact, this is true high-quality men.
01,
have their own stable career and ambition
After adulthood, men have their own careers, but in the middle, many differences can still be seen.
Some people are still working hard after earning over 10,000 yuan a month, while some men are already satisfied after earning 3,000 yuan a month.
Men who are content with the status quo lack fighting spirit and think that they will get married at the age of age. Anyway, their parents will pay the bride money, and their children can be thrown directly to their parents.
So, he will be satisfied with the current low wage and the current comfort. Even if a man like
looks pretty good, he is destined to be unable to become a top-level person. If a woman follows him, she can only live a hard life with him.
A high-quality man will not rely on his parents and women. He will always strive hard and will not be content with the status quo. Even if he has achieved some success at this moment, he will still keep moving forward.
Getting along with such a man, no matter you are a lover or a friend, you will benefit a lot.
Because those who are close to vermilion are red, and those who are close to ink are black. When you are with a high-level man, you will invisibly ignite a fighting spirit and always want to go hand in hand with him.
So when choosing a boyfriend or friend, you should keep your eyes open and choose a man with ambition and career will do you well and not harm you.
02,
02,
have a sense of responsibility and can take the initiative to take responsibility
. Around us, there are always some men who say it very nicely, but in fact they never take any practical actions.
My college classmate Xiaoqing (pseudonym) has been in love with her boyfriend for more than three years, and at the beginning of this year, the two were finally ready to get married.
But my boyfriend said at this time that he could not get the bride price at home. The bride price of 80,000 yuan was bargained to 50,000 yuan by his boyfriend's parents.
Not only that, the boyfriend's parents directly asked Xiaoqing to go back to the countryside to take care of the children after getting married, because they had no money to buy a house for the couple in the city.
Xiaoqing was shocked when she heard all this. She discussed with her boyfriend, but her boyfriend said irritably: "Then what should you do if you want me? Tell me!" A man like
seems powerless, but in fact he just doesn't want to be responsible. He throws all the problems on you in disguise and wants you to bear all the pressure.
When dating such men, maybe he always praises you to heaven and promises you a better life, but in fact, he never wants to be responsible in his heart.
A high-quality man has a sense of responsibility. Even if his parents cannot help him too much, he will try his best to let women live a good life.
When encountering problems, his choice will never be to vent his emotions and push all the pressure and problems to his woman.
03,
are knowledgeable, and have cultivation in conversation
I don’t know if you have found a problem. Many men always dress up brightly, but as soon as they open their mouths, they will immediately expose their cultural level.
Xiaoqing's boyfriend is such a person. She took her boyfriend to have dinner with us. When we first met, everyone thought that this man was good-looking and dressed up cleanly.
But after getting familiar with it, I realized that he was very vulgar. always likes to make jokes without any sense of restraint, and he doesn't use his brain at all, making people unable to get off the table.
In fact, there are many such men in reality. When they first meet, they will pretend to be a good man and speak politely.
But once you have a deep relationship with him, you will find that he is empty-headed and can't talk to you about some high-level topics, because he only sees a bad side.
If you meet such a man in your life, it is best to leave early. Because you have been with him for a long time, you will be affected and gradually become a low-level person.
Whether in love or making friends, you must try to choose a high-quality man with polite and civilized manners. Only by interacting with such a man can you feel respected and comfortable.
Conclusion:
A truly high-quality man is ambitious and professional. He is responsible and polite in his speech and behavior, rather than being content with the status quo. He always makes people embarrassed when speaking and doing things.
Girl, when choosing a partner, don’t always be affected by his superficial image.
Because some handsome men do not necessarily have a good inner self, and high-quality men are not necessarily as beautiful as Pan An.
So when getting along, observe the man’s inner self more and don’t define him too early.
carefully observe these three details. If he can meet these requirements, it means that he is a high-quality man.
