[Marriage and Love Consultation Case 53] I am 28 years old this year. My friend introduced a successful man who was over 20 years older than me to me for a blind date. The second time he met me, he bought me a gift of more than 20,000 yuan. I also convinced myself that age is not

[Marriage and Love Consultation Case 53]

I am 28 years old this year. My friend introduced a successful man who was over 20 years older than me to me for a blind date. The second time he met me, he bought me a gift of more than 20,000 yuan. I also convinced myself that age is not a problem. As long as he likes me, these external things should not be blocked, and he can provide good guarantees for my future life. But he contacted me only for ten days and half a month, just talking about some common things, praising me for my good looks and figure, but never said anything like I like me and love me, and sometimes even temporarily canceling the date I had already booked. I don't think he takes me seriously. My age is just when I need to find a lover to settle down. In another two years, I will become an older young man. I wonder if I should wait for him now?

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[Case Analysis]

The first situation: From your description, it can be seen that his satisfaction index with you is estimated to be 50 points. If you are a brave person and ask yourself that you truly love him, I suggest you be bold and proactive, and use your actions to fully express your love, so that he can feel your love. As long as he really wants to find a lover, maybe he will be moved by you! Unsuccessful also ends my own troubles!

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The second situation: He only wants to be ambiguous and not fall in love. He just treats you nicely when meeting him and gives you some gifts. You can't judge whether he likes you from these actions. He has never said anything like love or love, nor has he made any promises. If he queues up in his heart, maybe you are not even a "friend". Temporary tenderness and dedication do not mean a show of love. Perhaps he is a fraternal person, but you are trapped in the misunderstanding of being "loved" and you are trapped in the quagmire of being like being self-indulgent.

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You should know that no matter what the reason is, if a man really loves you, he will contact you frequently. If he always makes excuses to be busy and does not meet you frequently, then there is only one reason: he actually doesn’t like you that much. Because as long as this person has love for you, it will definitely not be hidden. How can you control your long-term contact and meeting without contact or meeting.

There are two things in the essence of love: one is uniqueness. Whether you are happy or unhappy, you will think of the other person and tell her; two: loneliness. Without the other person around, you will always feel lonely and will try every means to meet the other person.

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So, recognize the current situation and don’t blindly and subjectively conjecture this relationship. Maybe you are puzzled here. When you are worried about whether you can wait for him, you are just his "dssert". He has actually let go, or there is someone you like there who is dating.