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"Biography of Yang Jiang", there is a picture describing the Mr. Qian Zhongshu "titled" to his wife Yang Jiang .
One day, Qian Zhongshu took a nap and Yang Jiang wrote the letter. She fell asleep as she wrote it. At this time, Qian Zhongshu woke up.
So he was very fucked, holding a brush and "putting makeup" on Yang Jiang's face. Yang Jiang had a light sleep and woke up immediately. The two of them laughed and made a fuss. Unexpectedly, when Yang Jiang went to wash her face, she found that her face was too sucked ink and her skin was rubbed red, but she still couldn't wash it clean.
This made Qian Zhongshu feel very distressed and he would never dare to make trouble like this again.
can be seen. No matter how elegant a man is, he will occasionally make trouble with the person he loves like a child, making trouble, and being childish and cute.
Happiness is also like ordinary people, just like ordinary people, looking for the fun of getting along, so that every day is full of happiness and joy.
In life, there are actually many people like Qian Zhongshu who seem to be "not taking care of himself" and seem to not know how to live, but in fact, his deep affection is hidden in every detail of his relationship with his wife.
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For most people, the most beautiful thing about love is:
"When it is cold, there are clean clothes on weekdays, some people stand with you at dusk, and some people ask you how warm the porridge is."
There are always people who say that once a man gets a woman, he will change his appearance, become silent, and only know how to ask for it.
But, in fact, many times, women just see their appearance, but actually do not understand the true inner state of a man.
Because at this moment, what he shows seems to be a problem with your love. It seems that he does not love you as much as before. It seems that he does not understand you, but often at these times, he is the way he truly falls in love with you.
Most men are with someone, the longer they spend, the less freshness in their hearts will be, but the authenticity will become more and more obvious when he is in front of you.
In other words, the more he loves you, the less he will treat you as an outsider.
is like, some men will take the initiative to hand over financial power, some men will let you see many bad habits, some men are taciturn outside, but extremely childish in front of you...
-03-
Some people say that the lingering love is that that person wishes to give you the whole world.
But most of the time, this kind of love comes quickly and goes quickly.
Because of love, we should need each other.
If only one party gives and the other party asks for it, without the word "each", "together" in this way will only make the party who pays more and more tired.
In other words, no matter how much a man loves you and is willing to give for you, he will still want to verify your reaction to him by "requesting" and test your depth of love for him.
And at this time, he will have a hint of childishness and cuteness.
So, when a man will show these two appearances, don’t be upset, what is hidden in it is his deep love for you.
Like a "child", you make you coax him and feel sorry for him
all say that women who can act spoiled will love you.
Because, the childishness of a woman when she acts coquettish will make men very moved.
However, in life, many men and women are getting along with each other, if men occasionally act coquettishly to women and want them to coax them, it will easily make women feel moved.
see a TV series shot.
A sister-brother relationship, girls are boys' coaches, girls are always lukewarm and warm to boys, and from time to time, they make the boys' hearts surging.
So, boys have a series of "children" behaviors.
While eating in the cafeteria, I saw the girl's suitor give her a chicken leg, and immediately ran over jealously and took the chicken leg away. The jealous expression overflowed outside the screen;
was sick and took medicine, and directly got into the girl's arms, acting coquettishly while asking the girl to feed her;
sent several messages, and saw that the girl always refused to reply, so she immediately took off her top and took a handsome photo and sent it over, and then said "Seduce you."
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A series of operations are sticky, jealous, angry, act coquettish, and get angry...but it makes the woman so full of heart, making her heart ripple involuntarily, and she can't help but want to coax him, and feel sorry for him.
So, it can be seen that a man's "childishness" is not just a request, but just shows that he is deeply in love with you.
He wants to get your passionate love. When he cannot get your response, he will long to prove that you have him in your heart through this method; he longs to use his "green tea trick" behavior to let you take the initiative to show kindness to him, soothe him and let his anxious heart get an answer.
The "showing off" look makes you rely on him and understand him
For men, most of the time when chasing women, there will be a classic line, "I support you."
When many men say this, they actually know that their financial ability is not enough to support a family, but they are eager to get women's recognition of his abilities and affirmation of his love through this sentence.
In fact, men will "show off" in front of women, mostly because they hope to feel that they have always been "needed by women" in this relationship.
Therefore, a man's "showing off" seems to be irrelevant. In fact, it can better let you see his current mentality.
For example, during festivals, men will always be at their mother-in-law's house or their mother-in-law's house, "showing off heroes", not knowing how to work, but they also want to help, and do not want to stand aside in a hurry.
For example, when buying gifts, you can take good cigarettes and wine into the shopping cart. You were originally trembling, but you said, "I bought it for our parents, don't feel sorry, don't feel sorry."
For example, when drinking outside, you will always emphasize your family status to others, "I talk to my wife at home," but the woman called and immediately gave her a "shhh" gesture to her buddy, and said gentle, "Okay, okay, listen to you, wife."
For example, even though you can't take something, your wife looked at him and gave him a look. She immediately had the courage. Even if you can't take it, you have to try it and not be timid.
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His "showing off" lies in the differences in his expression and appearance. It seems very childish, but in fact it is all confession of love to women. He can do many childish and happy things for you, and he will find ways to make you happy when you are angry and troubled. The "showing off" of
is searching for a sense of existence in front of you, allowing you to feel that it is always by your side and accompany you. Even if his ability is limited, he still wants to be your dependence.
He will use his actions to fill every gap between you and you will be warm and affectionate. He will carry a sense of responsibility on his body at any time, just like a flesh-and-hearted connection, and don’t want to separate from you.
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Qian Zhongshu and Mr. Yang Jiang are emotions that everyone praises.
Yang Jiang did not despise Qian Zhongshu for his "naiveness" and "inability to take care of himself", but instead carefully protected his cuteness and made him immerse himself in literary creation.
And Qian Zhongshu was also grateful for Yang Jiang's efforts to him, calling her "the most virtuous wife and the most talented woman."
When she was studying abroad, in order to nourish her body, she had never cooked before, and learned braised pork , various cooking techniques; in order to let his wife sleep for a while, he made breakfast every morning and then served it on a tray, and brought it to his wife’s window with his own hands, summoned his wife for breakfast.
They help each other and care about each other.
Life is long, and men's childishness is actually only reflected in front of the people they are closest to. It is only in front of the person you love the most that you will be so unscrupulous.
Many people always feel dissatisfied with the desire, thinking that a man is innocent because he can't grow up; thinking that a man is showing off is that he is too naive. But you must figure it out, is it because his personality is like this, or is it because he is "Sony Essay" for you.
Don't mock him or suppress him when he is "pretending to be childish and showing off".
Appropriately accept and encourage, praise and understand him appropriately, and you will find that: It turns out that the person around you loves you so deeply in his heart.
Author, calm fox
picture, online
May you find the deep affection in my words in the ordinary years! Thanks for your attention!
