The thing about being together is a feeling of fatigue. Whether you still have love or absent from love, you may feel tired.
If boredom and burnout appear in a relationship, then the best way to deal with it is to learn to let go, be decent, know how to fulfill, and no longer care about or be stubborn.
Once the two are together, they always have torn and conflict, disputes and quarrels. The appropriate solution may be to stop forcing the warmth of being together, leaving a distance and space to get along, so that there will be the tenderness and beauty of love. As for people, they are always arrogant because of favor. The easier it is to have everything, the less you know how to cherish it, the more you gain it through hardships, the more you can protect it with your heart and stay for a long time.
Fate pulling and affection are not as good as understanding and understanding between each other, mutual understanding and respect, and two-way cherishing and participation will make happiness last longer and safer.
Temporary separation is for longer companionship, and temporary loss is also for better love. Because it is on the verge of regret, it feels precious and cute. It stimulates the weaknesses and weaknesses of human nature with a sense of crisis, and is also a good way to manage happiness.
simulations, imitating and getting separated, to a large extent, can completely save love and repair happiness.
temporarily separate can save love
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Treat love with a developmental and changing perspective
Love that is too hard can easily hurt others and oneself, and is not worthy of praise and promotion.
Good love and affection should be considered for a long time, willing to take overall consideration, able to arrange and plan overall, do not care about the perfection of small details, accommodate all flaws, and accept all problems. As long as there is still a future, the current suffering and hardship are worth it, feasible, and it should be, because of hard work, happiness.
Only by looking at love with a developmental and changing perspective can you let go of the obsession of love moderately, strand the stubbornness and madness of love, maintain a gentle attitude, give love freedom and space to breathe, and allow happiness to develop and move healthily.
When love is powerless, the best solution is to let yourself go, fulfill others, be respectful, be tolerant, and not to be infinitely magnified by focusing on a little problem. No one in the world is perfect, and nothing is complete. What we need in the end is to keep moving forward, follow the light and be happy, and follow the warmth and be happy.
The temporary separation is not to let go and stop loving, but to give love healthier companionship and care. It seems that it is powerless to give, but in fact it is to comfort and protect it more gently.
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can turn around, it is the philosophy of loving someone
Loving someone is not something that can be fulfilled by obsession.
True happiness should come from a kind of wisdom. Even if love is ups and downs, there is still a beautiful experience and understanding of love, which is a state of mature choice and love.
In fact, it is not that good love allows you to gain something, but that if you are mature and love, no matter which fate or feelings, it can add value to you. The secret lies in your own connotation and charm, and whether there is a correct match and companionship.
can turn a corner, it is the philosophy of loving someone.
is temporarily separated, no longer trying to solve problems, no longer competing with complexity and triviality, just wanting order and smoothness in the normal state of life.
The road of life, if you can know how to leave a moderate blank space, it is also a kind of romance. In the happiness of life, if you can learn to let go, it is also a kind of happiness.
lack of beauty is the most beautiful state in the world, it is the gracefulness and romance with flaws and regrets. It’s a pity that only a few people can appreciate and accept, while more people want a perfection, a richness, and an ultimate abundance.
See the different beauty and wonderfulness of the world from the incompleteness, and feel the charm and charm of nature from regret, which is also a kind of wisdom.
When the opposite sex is getting along, when love is powerless to move on to the next journey, it is better to learn to take it lightly, let go, and forget. If you can stop beating the result, you will naturally have the touch and closer answers.
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farewell without saying goodbye is also a sense of crisis
Why do some people in the world leave without saying goodbye is strangeness in their life, while others leave unhappily is the hint and prelude to meet again after a long time?
The fundamental difference here is that the former forgets to keep serious and loves, and does not change oneself, nor can it adapt to others, and becomes more indulgent and care about me from one's own way. Over time, it will naturally become more distant, and love will not be warmed up. It is inevitable that it will be separated. It is not that the love is shallow, and the relationship is deep, nor that the relationship is shallow.
The latter is often in a constant longing and thinking. When he accidentally inquire about the other person's daily life, he can give and give, always accompany and care in time. It seems that there is a distance between them, but in fact, love has never been separated. The barriers between time and space have never diluted the concentration of love. In the future trend, there are still infinite possibilities and hopes.
temporary separation can completely put pressure on each other, promote the re-starting and freezing of love, moderately forget all the past, let go of original fatigue and disgust, understand what happiness is, and experience where love is.
The reason why the fountain is beautiful is probably because of the existence of pressure. Pressure makes people motivated, and pressure also makes the fountain interesting and vivid. Life cannot be separated from moderate pressure and motivation, and the same is true for love.
If you can, if you can do nothing, you can also change your posture and methods in a moderate manner. Don’t always ask for stickiness and warmth to be together, and maintain a certain degree of strangeness and alienation. It may also be the correct management and maintenance of love.
There are many ways to arrive at happiness. There is no need to demand unity and approximation. Differentiation may be more graceful and interesting.
