In the video, a middle-aged man talked about his sadness about his experience:
What he said is roughly this. I am a businessman and did a good job in the past few years. When the house was at a high price, I bought a house in Zhengzhou.
The monthly payment for a house is more than 6,000, because I didn’t feel too much pressure when I was doing business.
But in the past three years of the epidemic, I really can't stand it anymore, and the bank is urging me to repay the mortgage.
In the business, others can’t give me the money owed to me, and my business has been losing money due to the epidemic.
There was no way. At that time, the bank suggested that I sell the house and pay back the money to solve the debt problem.
At that time, I was also discouraged and was very negative, with a broken attitude.
whatever...
But I don’t want to be a person who is dishonest, but the accounts outside cannot be collected, and I can’t repay my debts, and I don’t want to reach this point today, but there are too many helplessness and sadness.
When the city presses the pause button, we need to be quarantined at home, and many people are forced to stop working.
But this pause is just that the water inlet has stopped, and the water outlet is still flowing.
Three years since the outbreak of the epidemic, many people have been on the verge of survival.
The goal of saving money seems to be very far away, because the goal has just been set, it is either brewed by the flood or defeated by the epidemic.
For many ordinary working families in the city, it is already an excellent state to have no debt.
How many people are bound by the epidemic and are forced to break their trust.
We all want to be a good person, a kind person, and a credible person.
There are too many accidents under the force majeure factor.
Once trust is lost, the emotions between you and others will be lost forever.
especially in this society with developed networks and weak emotions.
Later, my house was auctioned for more than 700,000 yuan.
1 million bought a house worth more than 700,000 yuan, and I feel sorry for what can I do?
I calculated the down payment and the monthly payment in recent years, and it was almost 600,000 to 700,000 yuan.
In the end, there is nothing left.
For the last time, he recorded a video in his house and told his experience over the past three years.
failed to give your child a home and a good life for his family. Now he can only rent a house.
I feel sorry and regretted that I did not actively face the problem and did not follow the advice.
If the house was sold at that time, I wouldn’t have nothing now.
There is an old saying: Life is thirty years, Hedong, thirty years, Hexi .
Today, with rapid social development, it can become a world in three years. Not to mention thirty years ago.
What we experience may be what we must experience in this life.
In the face of a bleak life, be more confused and take it lightly.
No matter what you experience, as long as your life is still there. We must face it with a positive attitude, tolerate it with a sea-like mind, and forgive everyone for starting again.
don't complain or be discouraged.
The world will not circulate because of your madness. If you destroy yourself, it will only make your already bleak life even darker.
In this ever-changing environment, all we can do is to constantly strengthen ourselves.
Many times, it’s not that we haven’t met good people, but that we haven’t become better selves.
Life should not be wasted on things that are not worth it.
Sakyamuni said: No matter who you meet, he is the one who should appear in your fate, and it is by no means accidental.
All people and things in the world are the same, and it is no accident.
Reflect on yourself when encountering problems and first see your imperfection in order to meet a better self.
people are alive, just like soldiers and generals blocking water and soil.
There is nothing to be afraid of. When the epidemic comes, we fight the epidemic, and when winter comes, we wear cotton jackets.
Money, power, honor, and status are things outside the body. Only those who take gains and losses indifferently and have rich hearts can get real happiness.
You should learn to be smarter, learn to let yourself go, and learn to be confused.
is not panicked, neither humble nor arrogant, clear and kind. It's not in vain to come to this world.
#What else does life have besides poetry and distant places##You can live the way you like##What do you think so much? Just work hard#
