text丨Tao Xiaojing
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Many people like to ask their partner a question when they are in love: "How many times have you been in love?"
The reason why people ask this is not only to understand the past of their partner, but also to know whether the other party's emotional experience is very rich.
In the eyes of most people, people with rich emotional experience are veterans in love, not dedicated enough to their feelings and not loyal enough to their lovers.
Although this view is not completely correct, it is indeed a concern for many people, because no one wants two people to break up as they love each other.
Especially for a man who is in love, if he falls in love with a woman with rich emotional experience, he may not be her opponent.
Men all hope that they are the first person a woman falls in love with. Once they find that a woman has rich emotional experience, they will have concerns in their hearts and even look down on women because of this.
It is because many women understand this that they find ways to cover up the fact that they have loved many people and strive to shape themselves into a simple and dedicated appearance.
Although the woman has tried very hard to cover up and disguise, she still reveals flaws in the details.
Observation found that women who often say three sentences have rich emotional experiences.
"You men are the same"
Because there are differences between men and women in all aspects, they have no understanding of each other without having been together for a long time.
Plus everyone has different personality traits, so it is difficult for men and women to establish a real understanding.
Based on this premise, if a woman knows a man very well, it means that she has come into contact with many men.
This kind of contact is not just a contact between ordinary friends, but a deeper, love-like contact.
It is precisely because she has come into contact with all kinds of men that she has a deep understanding of men that she often says the sentence "You men are the same."
Women often talk about this sentence, proving that she has had many emotional experiences. Even if she never admits it, it cannot cover up the facts itself.
Step back ten thousand steps, even if she didn't really fall in love with so many people, she did have contacted or dated many men.
If a woman doesn’t understand a man at all, she can’t say such things. Therefore, women who often say this often have rich emotional experiences.
"What men say is not trustworthy"
Women who are in love almost always believe in men's promises. Even if the man's promises sound fake, she will firmly believe that men can fulfill their promises.
Women at this stage have not experienced any feelings, and they don’t know how cruel they are now, so they are always full of expectations.
When she has experienced some feelings and suffered some harm, she will find that what a man says is actually unreliable.
Especially those women with rich emotional experiences can see this clearly.
In many relationships, women are deceived by men's sweet words. If this continues, she will feel that the man's words are unreliable.
. No matter who she talks with, whenever she mentions emotional issues, she will talk about "what men say is not trustworthy."
This is not only a gain that love brings to her, but also a summary of her multiple relationships. From this we can see that women who often say this have rich emotional experiences.
"I understand you"
It is already difficult for men and women to establish understanding, and it is even more difficult to move from understanding to understanding.
If a woman has not come into contact with many men, and she doesn’t even know what the man is thinking, how can she understand?
A woman who understands men must have had many emotional experiences. Her understanding of men is based on these emotional experiences.
Because she has dated various men, she can accurately know what a man is thinking, and can also judge a man's emotions through some of the man's subtle expressions.
Rather than saying that she understands men, it is just a habit that has been formed over a long time. I am used to getting along with various men and different behaviors of different men.
A woman who has no emotional experience cannot say this. She is afraid that she just wants to make the man happy, and she has no confidence to say this.
Only women with rich emotional experiences will often keep this sentence on their lips and really understand men.
Xiaojing's emotional message:
Many men may not want to date women with rich emotional experiences, and some men even think that such women are frivolous and casual.
But in my opinion, rich emotional experience is not a bad thing. At least it will make women know more about how to get along with men and how to distinguish men’s hobbies.
If a woman does not have any emotional experience, it means she does not have any emotional experience. A man is not so interesting when he is with such a woman.
A woman with rich emotional experience is not frivolous, but because she has never found the best destination, she keeps exploring and seeking.
No matter whether a woman has rich or not, she should love her bravely and try it boldly.
